Pandya Store|Episode Discussion #81|Kuch Toh Tha Tere Mere Darmiyaan - Page 13

Originally posted by: Transference

Am I the only one who is disillusioned with PS 😭

Not just the show but a certain award show that this show will garner awards from lol

Originally posted by: Transference

Am I the only one who is disillusioned with PS 😭

None of the relationships are what it used to be😕

The makers have destroyed every character and different relationships meticulously😕

Raavi:

1. She was left at the altar to due by Dev

2. She was lied to by everyone

3. Despite being manhandled by Shiva, she always loved him and spread joy in his life.

4. Did try her best to save her marriage!

5. Tried her best to strike a friendship with Shiva

4. Almost died getting back the bangles for Shiva

5. Kept smiling around the family

6. Despite all taunts, she gave it back to Sneha!!

7. Decided to compromise despite hating the man she got married to.

8. Smiled and forgave Dev despite being severely wronged by him!!!

What more could she do!!! It's NOT her fault that she DOES NOT love Shiva! She can't be hanged for not liking someone.

Shiva didn’t question her character from my point of view anyways, in a very angry way he said she can go to the people she likes. Not ONCE has she ever clarified that, she’s embarrassed of him and that’s the truth. If she’s hurt so is shiva.

Shiva is wrong too he does go overboard but he hasn’t questioned her character. In my opinion questioning her character would be like saying go sleep with them or s*ut shaming or claiming she loves one of the guys.

He spoke the truth, she likes being with them? Yes. Her nature is friendly? Yes. They were hugging? Yes. Friends can do that there’s nothing wrong with friends hugging each other but there was very minimal character assassination from shiva. In anger he said go stay with your friends since you love hanging out with them.

She misunderstood heavily and took it out of proportion but it is what it is, she has feelings she’s been hurt time and time again, Yh it’s different that her character isn’t shown as a person who’s faced a lot in her life. In one frame she’s upset in the other she’s happy. Her character hasn’t been explored to the extent to what it should have for someone that has lost her parents, got left on marriage, suicide attempt etc.

Whatever though let’s see how they salvage this show, hopefully better days are ahead. Separation forever would be the best option but that doesn’t happen in itv so let’s see.

A random topic , I really hope u guys dnt get irritated for bringing this up...forum has become very sensitive becz of the current track...please cheer up guys...ok..I will stop blabbering 🤪

I was going through my wall and this quote popped up..

'Education is the ability to listen to almost anything without losing your temper or your self confidence.' - Robert Frost.

and I am wondering..was this the solution for shiva..personally I believe no one needs to change to be loved by the other or be accepted by others...no one needs acceptance from anyone as long as they accept themselves.. he doesn't have to change to feel accepted by ravi..if it is real love , she should love him the way he is..I do agree with it..

But insecurities come when one cannot accept themselves from the eyes of others.. which is exactly shiva is doing..he is seeing himself from ravi's eyes..and he can't accept himself..he finds himself unworthy..and he is not content with himself..if he was happy with himself and never bothered about sneha and Co 's/ ravis diaries opinion ,he would never had insecurity and hence he would never had lost control on his anger..but now his self confidence is zero..

So I am wondering.. if he is indeed thinking he is not a worthy one, he needs to work on himself to make himself worthy in his own eyes..not for anyone else..but for himself.. because no matter how many times dhara or gaumbi asked him to see his worth from their eyes, he won't be able to see it unless he sees himself and finds himself worthy.

PS.. this is not about shiva being worthy of ravi...not at all..I am talking only about shivas confidence about himself..how can he overcome this insecurity..

Originally posted by: deeps07

A random topic , I really hope u guys dnt get irritated for bringing this up...forum has become very sensitive becz of the current track...please cheer up guys...ok..I will stop blabbering 🤪

I was going through my wall and this quote popped up..

'Education is the ability to listen to almost anything without losing your temper or your self confidence.' - Robert Frost.

and I am wondering..was this the solution for shiva..personally I believe no one needs to change to be loved by the other or be accepted by others...no one needs acceptance from anyone as long as they accept themselves.. he doesn't have to change to feel accepted by ravi..if it is real love , she should love him the way he is..I do agree with it..

But insecurities come when one cannot accept themselves from the eyes of others.. which is exactly shiva is doing..he is seeing himself from ravi's eyes..and he can't accept himself..he finds himself unworthy..and he is not content with himself..if he was happy with himself and never bothered about sneha and Co 's/ ravis diaries opinion ,he would never had insecurity and hence he would never had lost control on his anger..but now his self confidence is zero..

So I am wondering.. if he is indeed thinking he is not a worthy one, he needs to work on himself to make himself worthy in his own eyes..not for anyone else..but for himself.. because no matter how many times dhara or gaumbi asked him to see his worth from their eyes, he won't be able to see it unless he sees himself and finds himself worthy.

PS.. this is not about shiva being worthy of ravi...not at all..I am talking only about shivas confidence about himself..how can he overcome this insecurity..

Leaving that family and working on himself in another city would help but I don’t think they’ll show that

Originally posted by: deeps07

A random topic , I really hope u guys dnt get irritated for bringing this up...forum has become very sensitive becz of the current track...please cheer up guys...ok..I will stop blabbering 🤪

I was going through my wall and this quote popped up..

'Education is the ability to listen to almost anything without losing your temper or your self confidence.' - Robert Frost.

and I am wondering..was this the solution for shiva..personally I believe no one needs to change to be loved by the other or be accepted by others...no one needs acceptance from anyone as long as they accept themselves.. he doesn't have to change to feel accepted by ravi..if it is real love , she should love him the way he is..I do agree with it..

But insecurities come when one cannot accept themselves from the eyes of others.. which is exactly shiva is doing..he is seeing himself from ravi's eyes..and he can't accept himself..he finds himself unworthy..and he is not content with himself..if he was happy with himself and never bothered about sneha and Co 's/ ravis diaries opinion ,he would never had insecurity and hence he would never had lost control on his anger..but now his self confidence is zero..

So I am wondering.. if he is indeed thinking he is not a worthy one, he needs to work on himself to make himself worthy in his own eyes..not for anyone else..but for himself.. because no matter how many times dhara or gaumbi asked him to see his worth from their eyes, he won't be able to see it unless he sees himself and finds himself worthy.

PS.. this is not about shiva being worthy of ravi...not at all..I am talking only about shivas confidence about himself..how can he overcome this insecurity..

I would love it if the makers showed Shiva taking up a new job away from the family and the toxic environment there, or continuing his education -- his discovery of self worth solely for himself and for nobody else. But the makers have a penchant of connecting everything to drama and romance, so they won't show this 😆

Originally posted by: ShivaandRaavi

Shiva didn’t question her character from my point of view anyways, in a very angry way he said she can go to the people she likes. Not ONCE has she ever clarified that, she’s embarrassed of him and that’s the truth. If she’s hurt so is shiva.

Shiva is wrong too he does go overboard but he hasn’t questioned her character. In my opinion questioning her character would be like saying go sleep with them or s*ut shaming or claiming she loves one of the guys.

He spoke the truth, she likes being with them? Yes. Her nature is friendly? Yes. They were hugging? Yes. Friends can do that there’s nothing wrong with friends hugging each other but there was very minimal character assassination from shiva. In anger he said go stay with your friends since you love hanging out with them.

She misunderstood heavily and took it out of proportion but it is what it is, she has feelings she’s been hurt time and time again, Yh it’s different that her character isn’t shown as a person who’s faced a lot in her life. In one frame she’s upset in the other she’s happy. Her character hasn’t been explored to the extent to what it should have for someone that has lost her parents, got left on marriage, suicide attempt etc.

Whatever though let’s see how they salvage this show, hopefully better days are ahead. Separation forever would be the best option but that doesn’t happen in itv so let’s see.

"Mann mein laddoo phoot rhein honge..ki unn jaise gentlemen thujpe fida hein..."..

That's what he said.

The intention of that line clearly points out that she is enjoying the attention of other men , as they r gentlemen.

If a married women is told this ,and in that way..it is literally questioning her character...infact not just married women..no women should be talked to like this..it is..as if she is the kind of women who enjoys other men being attracted to her..

That's so wrong.. what shiva said was wrong..absolutely wrong..

Originally posted by: ShivaandRaavi

He spoke the truth, she likes being with them? Yes. Her nature is friendly? Yes. They were hugging? Yes. Friends can do that there’s nothing wrong with friends hugging each other but there was very minimal character assassination from shiva. In anger he said go stay with your friends since you love hanging out with them.

Raavi also spoke the truth .Shiva acts like a jungli Janwar gawar when he is angry. So why did it hurt Shiva so much? 😕

Originally posted by: deeps07

"Mann mein laddoo phoot rhein honge..ki unn jaise gentlemen thujpe fida hein..."..

That's what he said.

The intention of that line clearly points out that she is enjoying the attention of other men , as they r gentlemen.

If a married women is told this ,and in that way..it is literally questioning her character...infact not just married women..no women should be talked to like this..it is..as if she is the kind of women who enjoys other men being attracted to her..

That's so wrong.. what shiva said was wrong..absolutely wrong..

Yh he was wrong but I don’t think he intended wrong, at the end of the day he shouldn’t have said what he said.

His perspective is wrong but what he’s feeling is what he’s seeing.

She’s never removed his insecurities or maybe she never understood

He never understood her either

They are not compatible

But they’re both right in whatever they’re feeling