Pandya Store|Episode Discussion #81|Kuch Toh Tha Tere Mere Darmiyaan - Page 15

It may be an unpopular opinion, please bear with me!

I do believe men in general get a lot more leeway in terms of their questionable/ wrong behavior which women are not accorded. Case in point of shiva with the over aggressiveness towards raavi all thier lives. But most times she has reciprocated it with kindness or positivity.
Raavi hasn’t gotten much positivity from shiva. Even after the wedding he chose to fight with her n took out his anger abt what happened on her, which is very unfair. Maybe if tat day he had shown her some positivity or understanding, and said i understand you’ve had a long tiresome day, I’ll stay out of ur way off tats what u want, she would have reflected back on it today!
even in her worst times when he’s only shown her anger, it’s difficult for her to comprehend why something she’s been saying all their lives abt his clothes/education suddenly bothers him so much i guess!

Maybe we can try to give raavi a lil leeway, since she’s been through so much n hasn’t really thought abt her relationship at all!

I’m not sure if i was able to articulate my thoughts properly!
Thanks

Originally posted by: GrilledCheese

I would love it if the makers showed Shiva taking up a new job away from the family and the toxic environment there, or continuing his education -- his discovery of self worth solely for himself and for nobody else. But the makers have a penchant of connecting everything to drama and romance, so they won't show this 😆

I have mentioned n number of times like u pointed out ...I want him to study .....but 1st move out of the city, away from everyone he knows and find himself and his happiness

and he has to do it for himself .....especially not for anyone

but u r right....

we won't get that....example to kisi ne set karna nahi hai....bus wahi same serials

Originally posted by: Transference

Coming to the Janwar Shiva as he is called out to be:

1. Saves her from the truck

2. Identifies Dev is more than her crush

3. Reprimands Dev for leading her on constantly even before marriage

3. Saves her from harm of The pot during the Haldi ceremony

4. Brings her down from the noose by breaking the door

5. Doesn't take even a single second to marry the girl whom he hates at the behest of his Bhabhi

6. Raavi Raavi naam hai iska

7. Takes a hit on his back from the crumbling terrace to shield her without even blinking

8. Doesn't really care about himself to protect her from kidnappers.

Yes, this Janwar.

I love u 🤗

Originally posted by: wanderer102016

It may be an unpopular opinion, please bear with me!

I do believe men in general get a lot more leeway in terms of their questionable/ wrong behavior which women are not accorded. Case in point of shiva with the over aggressiveness towards raavi all thier lives. But most times she has reciprocated it with kindness or positivity.
Raavi hasn’t gotten much positivity from shiva. Even after the wedding he chose to fight with her n took out his anger abt what happened on her, which is very unfair. Maybe if tat day he had shown her some positivity or understanding, and said i understand you’ve had a long tiresome day, I’ll stay out of ur way off tats what u want, she would have reflected back on it today!
even in her worst times when he’s only shown her anger, it’s difficult for her to comprehend why something she’s been saying all their lives abt his clothes/education suddenly bothers him so much i guess!

Maybe we can try to give raavi a lil leeway, since she’s been through so much n hasn’t really thought abt her relationship at all!

I’m not sure if i was able to articulate my thoughts properly!
Thanks

I agreed

Yeah for me Raavi too have went wrong from 2-3 episodes. Also her habit of blaming Shiva for her wrong and then blaiming Dhara.

But if we compare, Shiva has treated her shit for 10yrs but not many fans felt that bad for Raavi like they r feeling for Shiva now.

All were shipping and awwing.

1-2 episode mein Raavi ne thoda kuch bol diya(which I don't support) toh she doesn't deserve him and Shiva deserves better ho gaya.

Shiva only calmed down for few episodes. He has always protected her from physical harm but he has been the person who gave her the most mental and emotional harm all his life in return Raavi only was sweet soo that Shiva could accept her.

Raavi has gone wrong and I don't support it but Shiva has always been more wrong in the whole show. The worst is both r doing wrong now but not owning it and see their actions.

If Shiva likes her it is not Raavi's burden to live like the way Shiva's pendulum mind wants to live. He treats her nice when he wants and bad when he wants. He won't open his damn mouth but want Raavi to understand what he thinks and wants.

I was super disappointed when that Sawan Pooja Shiva did that shit and everyone instead of teaching their khara sona some basic manners, Suman went and started teaching how Raavi is wrong.

Then this drama in middle of road was soo distasteful, it was for trp audience but it made me like both Shiva and Raavi a bit less.

I don't have much expectations from the show but hope we see both of their monologue and seeing them thinking where they went wrong.

Originally posted by: ShinyShine

I agreed

Yeah for me Raavi too have went wrong from 2-3 episodes. Also her habit of blaming Shiva for her wrong and then blaiming Dhara.

But if we compare, Shiva has treated her shit for 10yrs but not many fans felt that bad for Raavi like they r feeling for Shiva now.

All were shipping and awwing.

1-2 episode mein Raavi ne thoda kuch bol diya(which I don't support) toh she doesn't deserve him and Shiva deserves better ho gaya.

Shiva only calmed down for few episodes. He has always protected her from physical harm but he has been the person who gave her the most mental and emotional harm all his life in return Raavi only was sweet soo that Shiva could accept her.

Raavi has gone wrong and I don't support it but Shiva has always been more wrong in the whole show. The worst is both r doing wrong now but not owning it and see their actions.

If Shiva likes her it is not Raavi's burden to live like the way Shiva's pendulum mind wants to live. He treats her nice when he wants and bad when he wants. He won't open his damn mouth but want Raavi to understand what he thinks and wants.

I was super disappointed when that Sawan Pooja Shiva did that shit and everyone instead of teaching their khara sona some basic manners, Suman went and started teaching how Raavi is wrong.

Then this drama in middle of road was soo distasteful, it was for trp audience but it made me like both Shiva and Raavi a bit less.

I don't have much expectations from the show but hope we see both of their monologue and seeing them thinking where they went wrong.

Absolutely agree!
Ravi has her fair share of faults too, but Shiva with his aggressiveness and treating his bhabhi n mom like God and treating his wife like crap is very disturbing to me!
they could have shown Gaura explaining how both these things are wrong to both Shiva and Raavi while they were growing up or atleast after the wedding.

So much room to show a more progressive society and marriage when they are equal partners through all 3 couples, but they only stuck to Gaura! Watching Gaumbi also it never occurs to Dev and Shiva tat they need to be better husbands

Originally posted by: ShinyShine

I agreed

Yeah for me Raavi too have went wrong from 2-3 episodes. Also her habit of blaming Shiva for her wrong and then blaiming Dhara.

But if we compare, Shiva has treated her shit for 10yrs but not many fans felt that bad for Raavi like they r feeling for Shiva now.

All were shipping and awwing.

1-2 episode mein Raavi ne thoda kuch bol diya(which I don't support) toh she doesn't deserve him and Shiva deserves better ho gaya.

Shiva only calmed down for few episodes. He has always protected her from physical harm but he has been the person who gave her the most mental and emotional harm all his life in return Raavi only was sweet soo that Shiva could accept her.

Raavi has gone wrong and I don't support it but Shiva has always been more wrong in the whole show. The worst is both r doing wrong now but not owning it and see their actions.

If Shiva likes her it is not Raavi's burden to live like the way Shiva's pendulum mind wants to live. He treats her nice when he wants and bad when he wants. He won't open his damn mouth but want Raavi to understand what he thinks and wants.

I was super disappointed when that Sawan Pooja Shiva did that shit and everyone instead of teaching their khara sona some basic manners, Suman went and started teaching how Raavi is wrong.

Then this drama in middle of road was soo distasteful, it was for trp audience but it made me like both Shiva and Raavi a bit less.

I don't have much expectations from the show but hope we see both of their monologue and seeing them thinking where they went wrong.

Yess....we can just take the first episode of ipkknd where ML meets FL for the first time..and just bcoz his show was ruined, he manhandled a gal he just met..tore open her dress at the backkk. Anyone wud have, seriously, complained against such a man for molestation....but audience enjoy such scenes as there is a romantic bgm (i was also one of them🤦‍♀) and also while watching we knew he is the ML and they will fall in love etc etc....not just our ML but almost all MLs of ITV are the same...and still we ship them... I KNOW our Shiva is a good soul and Raavi has also had done her share of sh**s....but not doing anything is also a fault and thats what Shiva did( he didnt try to mend their relation)...Raavi did try even if thats for the society...

Originally posted by: deeps07

"Mann mein laddoo phoot rhein honge..ki unn jaise gentlemen thujpe fida hein..."..

That's what he said.

The intention of that line clearly points out that she is enjoying the attention of other men , as they r gentlemen.

If a married women is told this ,and in that way..it is literally questioning her character...infact not just married women..no women should be talked to like this..it is..as if she is the kind of women who enjoys other men being attracted to her..

That's so wrong.. what shiva said was wrong..absolutely wrong..

We can NOT say "Shiva questioned her character but blah blah blah " in the same sentence. There is no room for but here . Shiva questioned her character that's about it . These two thoughts " she finds me unsuitable as her husband " and "go with the English speaking friends of yours " have abs no connection with each other 🤢 The epi was shit on all levels.🤢 Specially the moron mother who thinks her judgement is Supreme.

Originally posted by: _charu_

We can NOT say "Shiva questioned her character but blah blah blah " in the same sentence. There is no room for but here . Shiva questioned her character that's about it . These two thoughts " she finds me unsuitable as her husband " and "go with the English speaking friends of yours " have abs no connection with each other 🤢 The epi was shit on all levels.🤢 Specially the moron mother who thinks her judgement is Supreme.

I was so stupid to think suman will have the brain to understand them better and tell them to separate as she knows they will have better understandingif they take some time out...but no..they have to bring some trp audience oriented dialogues like bahu hoke apne pati per hath uthaana wala tana..

Now I really dnt understand why she made shiva to leave the house..raavi was anyways leaving..why shiva too..all they wanted was separation right..that would have been done without shiva leaving...and what is the point of it as punishment for this case.🤔..I might as well take that she just appreciated rishithas involvement in family matter and to honor her she said get out to shiva..🤪😆

Originally posted by: Pixiepadhi

This can be a possibility.he seemed genuine and nice.and we need some good friends on the showw.🤕🤕

I just wish shivaa has someone.lets see.

I feel makers don't even remember they introduced a character from Shiva's side 😂

But I hope Shiva gets someone to his side

Hello everyone 🤗 tbh, PS seems more stressful than exciting these days 😆 I wrote my first piece on the lead pair of ZMGA. If anyone watches that show, do check it out. Also hoping to see some of you guys on that forum! The show is def sucking me in (I hate SP 🤣)

If this ShiVi track is executed well, I’ll keep watching the show. Otherwise, I see myself losing interest in PS. The feeling and excitement I used to have for ShiVi during the early leap days is being shifted to this new couple 😭😆