PS|EDT #37 Bhootnath Bana Bahubali: Adbhut Saga of Kaandyani Kangan - Page 12

Originally posted by: Transference

Guys! Too fast 😆

Koi summary de do! Too many chats happening to keep a track!

Page 47 from the last EDT has a little summary.

These two and their world 😆

This is their thing.

Raavi and her proclamations 😆

This is Raavi the very next day after the Vegetable throwing scene

She forgives him to annoy him even without an apology.

P.S Disclaimer: I do NOT endorse violence or abuse.

Originally posted by: ValleyOfPeace

Even meee.

That Shiva explaining about his clothes and work scene was very classy.

If it was a little more lengthier with deep words it would have been much more lovelier.

I want the apology scene to be Like that but more deeper and lengthier too. Shiva explaining her why that was important to him and why he did what he did and telling her he is sorry because he really didn’t mean to put her on the scale and to tell her that he is a gadedha for that and that please please forgive him🤣

I would also like It if he would gift her with something after that.

That one of my favorite shiVi scene.

And the apology scene would be a treat to watch, aur aisa apology scene milna he chahiye.. We as viewers deserve that😆

Originally posted by: Transference

These two and their world 😆

This is their thing.

Raavi and her proclamations 😆

This is Raavi the very next day after the Vegetable throwing scene

She forgives him to annoy him even without an apology.

P.S Disclaimer: I do NOT endorse violence or abuse.

The third frame. The sasta wolverine one. Shiva is amused at her. He is almost smiling. Almost. But not quite.

Originally posted by: Transference

Thanks for the tag.

I have a few personal accounts to share, minus the hate part. There would still be days despite 21 years of growing up together with my husband, including marital year's, where we would end up “insulting” each other as per norms of the society.

There would be instances where we would both be reminding ourselves that we aren't teenagers anymore.

On multiple occasions when we would gather with friends for drinks, he would often have to glare at me, for I would forget that we are man and wife, and I would start using choicest expletives to pull his leg. On one such occasion, he pulled a chair when I was about to sit, and I fell as he would often do, and I ended up picking a chappal to be flung at him in retaliation. It's been OUR thing, but then we realised how the world would see us. This isn't a comparison, but sometimes shit happens without any malice or evil intentions.

Thank you for sharing your story. I totally get where Shiva and Raavi are coming from. As you stated in your previous post, they are indeed acting like children and after being together for so long, they are still unable to change their inherent behavior towards each other. After reading few instances of how couple like them exist here and reading your story and few other couples I have seen in my real life, I have no reason to believe this is abnormal. But there are few instances in life when you need be little introspective and serious, in this case It would be this kangan issue. The problem here is Shiva doesn’t share much with anyone. He himself said this in his monologue today that Bholenath, actual God is the only one he can currently talk to. Let them talk their heart out this one time and they can go back to being children again😃

Originally posted by: Transference

Tagging

Thanks for tagging! Honestly at this point I have no hope of catching up on the older posts 😆

I really enjoyed reading this! While I still didn’t enjoy their scenes that much after a second viewing, I will say that you bring up some very interesting points!

I think as long as we don’t see Raavi falling hard for Shiva anytime soon, I’m okay.

ShiVi were thrown into this new space and expected to adjust overnight. Their history is just too rich for them to easily sidestep it all and move forward. I remember the scene where Shiva literally threw Raavi on the streets and Dhara caught her. Raavi was upset for a few seconds but not offended. This is how they have been from the very beginning. Even during the marble scene as kids, Raavi laughed at something Shiva did despite them being “enemies”. Raavi’s world revolves around Shiva and getting a reaction out of him, even if it means not letting his words get to her. Shiva also goes out of his way to fight and argue with her. It’s a strange world that no one else has access to. Perhaps that why it’s not easy to snap out of that.

It will take time but they will learn to respect one another (in their own way), set boundaries and bring all the other aspects of a healthy relationship. Obviously there is no set template but they have a long way to go. I rather they take their time instead of it happening just because they are married. I think the spin you put on it makes me feel a little better about the episode 🤗 I don’t want them to be another GauRa that’s all. I blame most of it on the song and temple setting 😆

Originally posted by: ValleyOfPeace

Hoga to theek par hoga nahin. They will not stretch this. I am thinking ki the moment they get back they will go according to original. Enough of detours for them..🤣

Raavi is ready to melt. One indication from him and she will go. He is ready to apologize. He stutters her name. He is guilty. But he is adamant. Till that ka gan is not in his palms, he will not apologize. But once that’s done he will and redemption track nahin par scene hoga. Sometimes a beautiful and intense apology scene is much better than a half hearted redemption track.

Well said! Raavi just needs one indication from him. Just a, intense, heartfelt apology from Shiva to Raavi would be enough

Originally posted by: mpks1

Thank you for sharing your story. I totally get where Shiva and Raavi are coming from. As you stated in your previous post, they are indeed acting like children and after being together for so long, they are still unable to change their inherent behavior towards each other. After reading few instances of how couple like them exist here and reading your story and few other couples I have seen in my real life, I have no reason to believe this is abnormal. But there are few instances in life when you need be little introspective and serious, in this case It would be this kangan issue. The problem here is Shiva doesn’t share much with anyone. He himself said this in his monologue today that Bholenath, actual God is the only one he can currently talk to. Let them talk their heart out this one time and they can go back to being children again😃

I think that's the progress we all have been wanting and waiting for in their relationship. Their journey isn't an easy one, especially when Shiva’s hatred for Miami runs deep down within him to be psychologically affecting him. It's a deep-rooted psychological agony that needs to be addressed with therapy in real life.

Forget Raavi; he doesn't even open up to anyone. I have always said that there's a highly lonely part of Shiva that hadn't been touched by anyone else. I wish Raavi could be that companion who will touch that part. ❤️

Congrats on another EDT 🥳. I'm not bothered to do my homework so I'll skip 😆. But I read a few views about the promo. Not a bad shout about Raavi going back to her mami's house. I would love nothing more than Shiva to realise and try to fix his mistake, not even because she's his wife but just because she's a human. But I don't know why I don't see a separation happening yet. Isn't it abit too early for it? Maybe they're in mami's house for something to do with Raavi's parents death anniversary?

Anyways whatever it is I'm okay with it and am going to stay chill about it. I've been enjoying the episodes ALOT, and part of the reason why is because whatever wrong Shiva has done, whatever wrong mami has done, it doesn't get glorified. They clearly come across as wrong. It makes it easier for me to discuss other things apart front their wrongdoings ❤.

I will tell you from my personal experience. Arranged marriages take a little longer to get that love that you deserve as both are thrown into this new world and don’t know much about each other and everyday is a learning experience.

In Shiva- Raavi’s case, they know each other very well but they have only seen one side of the other person. Shiva has only seen Raavi’s love for Dev and she gave no indication to him that she likes him though they interacted much more than her and Dev. Shiva again did a very great job of masking his feelings towards Raavi if at all he had any, on the contrary he showed her day in and day out how much he hated her.

So in their case of forced arranged marriage, love doesn’t happen over night, it takes quite sometime and that is what we are seeing here. They are coming close but they are not close enough to declare their love for each other.