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Originally posted by: ValleyOfPeace
He is extreme with maami. He threatened to cut her neck. Did he apologise? He didn’t. In fact that was brushed under the rug. I have a feeling this will be too. There will be no track. At most u will get apology scene where he tells Raavi he was wrong in putting her and kangan on the same level...
What if Raavi refuses to go back after the latest twist😆, then he has work to do, unless Dhara interferes and brings Raavi back😕 I want Raavi to put her foot down, should not accept his one line apology😆
Piu beautiful analysis yet again💜💜
I had shared my views in previous EDT regarding raavi expecting a birthday wish from shiva. I didn't find it strange because I thought it absolutely didn't mean
she has forgiven him. It was just that innocent girl in her who was expecting a simple birthday wish from him because that's the bare minimum he could've done at that point.
Also I have seen a couple in real life somewhat like Shivi( not the hate part)
I mean after serious fights sometimes they would be back to their normal self teasing each other and often times that was how they apologised to each other.
P. S I forgot to tag you😔 @ transference
Thanks for the tag.
I have a few personal accounts to share, minus the hate part. There would still be days despite 21 years of growing up together with my husband, including marital year's, where we would end up “insulting” each other as per norms of the society.
There would be instances where we would both be reminding ourselves that we aren't teenagers anymore.
On multiple occasions when we would gather with friends for drinks, he would often have to glare at me, for I would forget that we are man and wife, and I would start using choicest expletives to pull his leg. On one such occasion, he pulled a chair when I was about to sit, and I fell as he would often do, and I ended up picking a chappal to be flung at him in retaliation. It's been OUR thing, but then we realised how the world would see us. This isn't a comparison, but sometimes shit happens without any malice or evil intentions.
What if Raavi refuses to go back after the latest twist😆, then he has work to do, unless Dhara interferes and brings Raavi back😕 I want Raavi to put her foot down, should not accept his one line apology😆
Hoga to theek par hoga nahin. They will not stretch this. I am thinking ki the moment they get back they will go according to original. Enough of detours for them..🤣
Raavi is ready to melt. One indication from him and she will go. He is ready to apologize. He stutters her name. He is guilty. But he is adamant. Till that ka gan is not in his palms, he will not apologize. But once that’s done he will and redemption track nahin par scene hoga. Sometimes a beautiful and intense apology scene is much better than a half hearted redemption track.
Originally posted by: Transference
Thanks for the tag.
I have a few personal accounts to share, minus the hate part. There would still be days despite 21 years of growing up together with my husband, including marital year's, where we would end up “insulting” each other as per norms of the society.
There would be instances where we would both be reminding ourselves that we aren't teenagers anymore.
On multiple occasions when we would gather with friends for drinks, he would often have to glare at me, for I would forget that we are man and wife as I would start used choicest expletives to pull his leg. On one such occasion, he pulled a chair when I was about to sit, and I fell as he would often do, and I ended up picking a chappal to be flung at him in retaliation. It's been OUR thing, but then we realised how the world would see us. This isn't a comparison, but sometimes shit happens without any malice or evil intentions.
Yup🤣
People tag us as the always at each other’s throat. I believe thats our thing. But now I am telling myself to calm down. Children are growing😂
Originally posted by: ValleyOfPeace
Hoga to theek par hoga nahin. They will not stretch this. I am thinking ki the moment they get back they will go according to original. Enough of detours for them..🤣
Raavi is ready to melt. One indication from him and she will go. He is ready to apologize. He stutters her name. He is guilty. But he is adamant. Till that ka gan is not in his palms, he will not apologize. But once that’s done he will and redemption track nahin par scene hoga. Sometimes a beautiful and intense apology scene is much better than a half hearted redemption track.
Agree with you! But let that one scene be atleast intense, no nok-jhoks please😆. Though. they act like children all the time, I want them to have a serious conversation this one time😆
My thoughts on why Raavi expected Shiva to wish her for birthday.
All of you know what kind of a person Raavi is, she has no malice or hatred towards anybody, even towards Shiva. She says it verbally but doesn’t mean it. After Mukteshwar Kaand, she also knew that he would never leave her. She has build that trust and she knows that he has bedn her savior and protector time and again, This time again her anger is stemming only because he disrespected her in front of the family and brought her into the bargain only after Mami refused to give the kangans back and taunted him saying only Raavi will go back with him. Raavi also knows that getting the kangan from Mami is his utmost priority more than anything else at this time. At the same time she is not asking Mami to give the kangans back because she doesn’t want to get in between Mami and Shiva.
Raavi is only angry and did not misunderstand him. In real life, when you are angry with your spouse which ended in a fight, you still expect them to talk to you, pacify or wish you on special occasions or atleast I did, in the initial days of my marriage😆 and is very normal. She also knows that once he gets the kangans back, he will surely take her back but we don’t know if she will go or not.
Even at the Temple scene, she only mentioned that “kaun aise baat karta hai parivar ke saamne, apne biwi ke baare me”. She is not losing any self respect by expecting him to wish. She is still firm on the thought that she will not go back until this is all resolved, though it is not said in clear words, she definitely expects him to get her back, not Dhara or other family members.
You can actually derive few things from the Temple conversation/- both Shiva and Raavi addressed themselves husband and wife which they hesitated to say even the previous night, This is definitely a progression that didn’t happen overnight but it is the right time to acknowledge because of the situation they are in. He expected her come with them to the haveli, if not for him atleast when the family called but he understood why she didn’t after we listened to his monologue.
After watching the promo, he is going all the way to get the kangans, his zidd is clouding his thinking process and is not letting him understand the repercussions of his actions. Is he going to fall down in Raavi’s eyes, yes definitely. Once he gets the kangans back the next thing he should work on is to get Raavi back, this is where we should see his redemption. Him being angry or being hateful towards her won’t work anymore period.
Thank you for writing this; it's a great analogy. 🤗
@Bold, I have always thought that they both share an incredibly soft corner for each other. Ravi is always vocal about his hurt, pain and agreeing to all that her Maasi has done to Pandya Parivar. She doesn't misunderstand him at all. She wants her to be accepted as a wife, respected, loved and wanted.
Raavi has abandonment issues and always likes to have an anchor to be happy in this world. The moment Shiva gives her the acceptance, she will love him to the world’s end
Originally posted by: Transference
Thanks for the tag.
I have a few personal accounts to share, minus the hate part. There would still be days despite 21 years of growing up together with my husband, including marital year's, where we would end up “insulting” each other as per norms of the society.
There would be instances where we would both be reminding ourselves that we aren't teenagers anymore.
On multiple occasions when we would gather with friends for drinks, he would often have to glare at me, for I would forget that we are man and wife as I would start used choicest expletives to pull his leg. On one such occasion, he pulled a chair when I was about to sit, and I fell as he would often do, and I ended up picking a chappal to be flung at him in retaliation. It's been OUR thing, but then we realised how the world would see us. This isn't a comparison, but sometimes shit happens without any malice or evil intentions.
Thank you for sharing this.
Yeah,sometimes what may seem as an insult in others eyes, may be a normal thing for two people in their own world.
Pleasure🤗
You should see that Twitter parody account for store room though. It's hilarious
Agree with you! But let that one scene be atleast intense, no nok-jhoks please😆. Though. they act like children all the time, I want them to have a serious conversation this one time😆
Even meee.
That Shiva explaining about his clothes and work scene was very classy.
If it was a little more lengthier with deep words it would have been much more lovelier.
I want the apology scene to be Like that but more deeper and lengthier too. Shiva explaining her why that was important to him and why he did what he did and telling her he is sorry because he really didn’t mean to put her on the scale and to tell her that he is a gadedha for that and that please please forgive him🤣
I would also like It if he would gift her with something after that.