Pandya Store|Episode Discussion Thread #9 - Page 108

Originally posted by: GrilledCheese

I have high hopes from Suman! She needs to give good to Dhara

Maami can throw in some taunts too

Yup I want Dhara to be bashed by everyone in the house! It is because of her partial nature and softness towards Rishita that all this is happening! Why didnt she tell Suman about Janardhan and kidnapping? She needs to start treating everyone in the house equally. Enough of her maryada and bhabhi hai nonsense. I am tired of the same dialogues being repeated again and again by mahaan devi Dhara! I want Suman to handle Dhara and Rishita in her own style!😡

Originally posted by: Nups_mish

Yup I want Dhara to be bashed by everyone in the house! It is because of her partial nature and softness towards Rishita that all this is happening! Why didnt she tell Suman about Janardhan and kidnapping? She needs to start treating everyone in the house equally. Enough of her maryada and bhabhi hai nonsense. I am tired of the same dialogues being repeated again and again by mahaan devi Dhara! I want Suman to handle Dhara and Rishita in her own style!😡

Agree!

Dhara says that Rishita ki nayi nayi shaadi huyi hai, use adjust karne mein time lagega 🤢

Then what about ShiVi, jiski shaadi uss Dhara ke misunderstandings and stupidity ki wajah se huyi? Why don't they get time to understand their feelings and their relationship, without being subjected to dande ki maar and emotional torture always?

Originally posted by: GrilledCheese

Agree!

Dhara says that Rishita ki nayi nayi shaadi huyi hai, use adjust karne mein time lagega 🤢

Then what about ShiVi, jiski shaadi uss Dhara ke misunderstandings and stupidity ki wajah se huyi? Why don't they get time to understand their feelings and their relationship, without being subjected to dande ki maar and emotional torture always?

Exactly!! You know what I think the reason why she is always forcing Shivi is because she wants them to fall in love fast taaki sab ghar ke log uski tareef kare “aree Dhara tere faisle ki wajah se aaj Shivi are in love! You wrote their destiny! Tum bhagwan ho” She is a big time credit hogger. Thats why she wants them to do things according to her wishes. 😡 I want her to spare our Shivi from all her usual nonsense and let them grow and understand each other on their own!

Originally posted by: ItsmePriya

https://mobile.twitter.com/RubinaFC16/status/1396341772653973508

Is this true..anyone saw the promo??

If yes, then am sure this is the time Raavi will take stand for Shiva...as something similar happened in OG

Where is the promo? Please share link if anyone finds it!

I think the promo was much needed so that Rishita does something nasty. Raavi, I believe, will be surprised by her fierceness to protect Shiva, maybe.

As for Shiva, I’d expect him to give a rat’s ass about Rishita and her insult on the face, but a deep pile of insecurities might crop up again in his subconscious.

As such, he feels inadequate for Raavi and then this.

I want Dhara’s realisation of her bias towards Rishita.

Her entire sazaa mode is bizarrely juvenile.

Dhara needs to learn that if you beat someone mercilessly in front of others, there’s zero respect or love from the other person too.

By the way, I don't see Rishita or Shiva ever bonding in a lifetime, contrary to how Raavi-Krish bond. Raavi is a giver of love and adorable in her sweet ways. She loves the Pandya family like her own, which includes Shiva too deep down. Well, this clearly shows from her understanding how she feels happy watching him with his brothers.

She had imagined a life with them where she also had announced that she loves Shiva too. When I say love, I need not be referring to a romantic one, but something deeper that you have for a family member. She had accepted every person of the family as her own. These were the kids with whom she practically grew up.

They are extended family. How could she not love him?

All her hatred, anger and frustration of being abandoned, married to somebody who wasn't in her plan for life, changed friendships was directed towards Shiva because, at that moment, he was her punching bag. I don't see that ending anytime soon. You only experience extreme emotions for someone who you deeply care about.

She gave up on Dev when he was mute on Raavi being insulted by Rishita. That was perhaps the last time she looked at him with hope. But she was left deeply abandoned again emotionally.

No matter how much Shiva-Raavi deny, but deep down, they care for each other. Raavi’s love is more vocal and expressive though

Originally posted by: Transference

Dhara needs to learn that if you beat someone mercilessly in front of others, there’s zero respect or love from the other person too.

By the way, I don't see Rishita or Shiva ever bonding in a lifetime, contrary to how Raavi-Krish bond. Raavi is a giver of love and adorable in her sweet ways. She loves the Pandya family like her own, which includes Shiva too deep down. Well, this clearly shows from her understanding how she feels happy watching him with his brothers.

She had imagined a life with them where she also had announced that she loves Shiva too. When I say love, I need not be referring to a romantic one, but something deeper that you have for a family member. She had accepted every person of the family as her own. These were the kids with whom she practically grew up.

They are extended family. How could she not love him?

All her hatred, anger and frustration of being abandoned, married to somebody who wasn't in her plan for life, changed friendships was directed towards Shiva because, at that moment, he was her punching bag. I don't see that ending anytime soon. You only experience extreme emotions for someone who you deeply care about.

She gave up on Dev when he was mute on Raavi being insulted by Rishita. That was perhaps the last time she looked at him with hope. But she was left deeply abandoned again emotionally.

No matter how much Shiva-Raavi deny, but deep down, they care for each other. Raavi’s love is more vocal and expressive though

So well explained ❤

https://youtu.be/FTScAf3Q6yE

Lol ye kya hai!! Itna high level editing kaun karta hai🤣🤪

Originally posted by: _charu_

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No amount of hundreds would do justice, it's a beautiful worded post piu🤗 I wanted to say exactly this a day before but couldn't pen it down properly.. thx for this.

🤗Charu, you remember my love for interesting characters. After that debacle, we watched together in 2019; this show keeps me interested.

Dhara is unable to see that krish and shiva , even rishita and raavi are not the problem, she is the problem! She needs to take a step back so that the new.couples find a chance to start their married life. Gosh her sukhon ka parivar is highly toxic , like u said it must be a living hell for raavi and rishita. Rishita is there bec she loves dev , but raavi ? Raavi has deep respect for dhara and that's again, problematic 😆 That's the reason suman is the perfect person in their lives ...she will pull dhara back from the skies.

Exactly my point here; she is the problem, and trust me, the moment she steps down, things will get only better

The biggest issue in pfamily? The boys can't admire any woman who is less than dhara and dhara expects the whole world to be like her 🤢 She thinks like she took all the abuse from suman quietly and won her over , krish should do the same.

Bang on! Dhara fulfils all forms of needs except a sexual appetite for these kids. They are just tied to her in a childish Oedipal way. It's not vice-versa for Dhara. Her emotional well-being is taken care of by Gautam. She is the confidante to these kids but not the opposite. She can function without them while they are myopic without her. That comparison is toxic, and any woman would choke in a family like this.

No doubt suman treated her worse than an animal. When rishita scolded krish today for hugging her, I was reminded of dhara and suman. But not everyone can be as patient as dhara and why should rishita be like dhara ? Krish and rishita can also be friends ..or they can have a cordial relation. Why can't they settle for anything less than dhara model of pyar

Omg, Dhara model of pyaar looks good on kids. Even mothers change their behaviour after the kids become adults.

🥺🥺🥺 can they all leave Shiva and Raavi alone please. I'm going to be really upset with Dhara because she enabled this. What else do you expect when you beat the guy in front of those who don't respect him already? Knowing her she'll see it as a good thing if it leads to Raavi standing up for him. Yesterday loads of people made a good point about Dhara always giving Rishita time to settle and not ShiVi - this is bang on! What's worse is that Dhara and Dev are allowing Rishita to act in this manner by ignoring her mistakes. Immediately after shouting at Rishita she felt bad, and she doesn't feel a thing for when she unfairly treats Raavi. If this isn't biasness I don't know what is.

It'll make for a nice surprise if Raavi stood up for him, because she didn't when it was her turn. But I still imagine Shiva lifting up his guards with her and telling her he doesn't need her to defend him 😭🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️. I remember I saw a pic edit yesterday, it was so beautiful but sad at the same time. It was one of ShiVi on their wedding day staring at each other in their rooms from their own corners - they did not deserve this, and they do not deserve this crap. They both deserve better than the crap they get in the name of family.