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Bold about Preleap 👍🏼

Thanks! 😊

Rishita character have more scope if deal properly but expecting in Hindi version is heard OG done ✔ lot better. My region it's worse than Hindi unbearable 🤔

Exactly! Even the Ghum show someone mentioned, I have seen the original Bengali version and it was so much better. At least the first 350 episodes or something. In mainstream Hindi they just keep sugarcoating certain characters while vilifying the others than addressing the complexity.

Originally posted by: nushy1995

Bold about Preleap 👍🏼

Thanks! 😊

Rishita character have more scope if deal properly but expecting in Hindi version is heard OG done ✔ lot better. My region it's worse than Hindi unbearable 🤔

Exactly! Even the Ghum show someone mentioned, I have seen the original Bengali version and it was so much better. At least the first 350 episodes or something. In mainstream Hindi they just keep sugarcoating certain characters while vilifying the others than addressing the complexity.

Rishita never bother or pining about her family her sister or a slight 🤷thought of after all this happened wat they going through

By learning her father behind the kidnap no thought of it is wrong action - her world stuck in mera Dev and putting others down

Is there any expectations from her ❓ ITV after all 🤫

Originally posted by: vinnas

Ghum show hearing so much wat so spl in it

Rishita never bother or pining about her family her sister or a slight 🤷thought of after all this happened wat they going through

By learning her father behind the kidnap no thought of it is wrong action - her world stuck in mera Dev and putting others down

Is there any expectations from her ❓ ITV after all 🤫

So true!

Originally posted by: vinnas

Ghum show hearing so much wat so spl in it

Rishita never bother or pining about her family her sister or a slight 🤷thought of after all this happened wat they going through

By learning her father behind the kidnap no thought of it is wrong action - her world stuck in mera Dev and putting others down

Is there any expectations from her ❓ ITV after all 🤫

@bold

I used to watch, I have stopped now. Only watching IG clips to keep up with the story.

Drama quotient is too high. Most dysfunctional and rather abusive family of ITV. Characters are also rather messed up. If someone has a thing for drama and messed up, dark plots, then they would surely enjoy watching it. But if you want to watch something lighthearted and fun then I suggest stay away.

This copy paste business is also very annoying, makes the story inconsistent.

Only saving grace of the show are the talented actors and phenomenal chemistry of the lead couple.

Originally posted by: stormfly13

I know the world is changing. But even in western countries people don't make out in front of someone they know. And they surely don't do that in front of elders. And it is not just about that. Dev was not comfortable with kissing like that. She practically forced him to do that. If a husband is not allowed to force himself on his wife then so is not the wife. If this were vise varsa (i.e Dev had forced her) people would have been all over this issue. I know I would. Dev's falws are different issue.

And the way she looked at Dhara and said "Kiss kar rahe the" was wayyyyyyy out of line. Dhara was right here. Leave everyone else. Think about what kind of impact it would have had on Krish who is almost a child if he had seen her. I personally don't like PDA. But if a couple likes that it is their choice and I wouldn't judge them for that. But you don't behave the way she did.

First of all, I do agree with the points you are making. Let me try to elaborate on what I meant to say. The world is changing, and there's no taboo if anyone wants to be kissed out of thrill in awkward places. It happens in new marriages; Rishita was behaving annoyingly stupid to be kissed in the middle of a courtyard. Wrong done!

Dhara is giving it back to her, and rightfully so -Correct, but later, her explanation regarding intimacy was a bit preachy. Her choice of words isn't that great. She could have worded it better. I have no hopes from Rishita, but Dhara, I do expect better. I don't like her tearing up.

Also, another point, at the end of the entire conversation, it became again about Dhara’s insult for Dev. Raavi and her insult gayi tel lene. The problem is with the writers. The ever so cliched female lead blaming trope is the favourite of ITV

I think there is enough speculation of Shiva not being good enough for Raavi. I agree that no sane household would want a girl like Raavi to be married to Shiva.

Shiva has temper issues, and, of course, grooming is kind of allergic to him. What choice did the family or Dhara have then? They had seen Anita bearing the brunt of a broken marriage for years now. Raavi committed suicide. The entire world will be talking about this broken marriage.

As much as I detest women being judged for having multiple partners or being in love but Dev and Raavi practically had a relationship in the eyes of people. She was often seen hanging out with him and going out on ice cream dates. In a small town like Somnath, as much as I hate the societal hypocrisy, she would have been tagged as someone who was used and thrown away. The hypocritical society would never blame a man, but the poor girl would have borne the repercussions of this entire fiasco.

Who could Dhara ask to marry her then? A person who would agree? Hardik being too old, Krish being too young. Shiva came to her as the best bet who would never say no to her. Somewhere in her subconscious mind, Dhara knew this would work out, and it did.

I had opened a separate thread about Shiva and his gamble in the marriage.

https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/post/156894703

He is irked by Dev’s non-remorseful attitude towards Raavi and others, and to top it up, rishita makes it a point to insult everyone at the drop of a hat.

Shiva might be the goon that everyone tags him to be, but he has a heart of gold and would do anything to protect his family.

Even when Krish’s cigarette issue was being sorted, he was behind Dhara, wondering how to sort this issue as he already knew about Krish and his smoking. He slapped when Krish said something absolutely out of the mark.

Well, does that make Shiva appropriate for Raavi? Maybe not, but he would do anything for his loved ones. That's what sets him apart from the other brother Dev who might love his family but has flaws in standing up for anyone.

Originally posted by: Transference

First of all, I do agree with the points you are making. Let me try to elaborate on what I meant to say. The world is changing, and there's no taboo if anyone wants to be kissed out of thrill in awkward places. It happens in new marriages; Rishita was behaving annoyingly stupid to be kissed in the middle of a courtyard. Wrong done!

Dhara is giving it back to her, and rightfully so -Correct, but later, her explanation regarding intimacy was a bit preachy. Her choice of words isn't that great. She could have worded it better. I have no hopes from Rishita, but Dhara, I do expect better. I don't like her tearing up.

Also, another point, at the end of the entire conversation, it became again about Dhara’s insult for Dev. Raavi and her insult gayi tel lene. The problem is with the writers. The ever so cliched female lead blaming trope is the favourite of ITV

Ok I have something to add here. It's a personal choice ..its our personal choice. In the context of the family, dhara found it inappropriate and pointed it out. If it wasn't raavi , if it was gombi or suman, it would be embarrassing isn't it ? We may be the 2nd most populous country in the world but we still haven't come to this 😆 Ab koi disco ho, nobody will stop rishita..but if she does it in a public place anybody can walk in and she can't be getting furious for that. Krish ko bola ke how can he enter a married couples room like that , everyone reprimanded krish , not her.

Originally posted by: _charu_

Ok I have something to add here. It's a personal choice ..its our personal choice. In the context of the family, dhara found it inappropriate and pointed it out. If it wasn't raavi , if it was gombi or suman, it would be embarrassing isn't it ? We may be the 2nd most populous country in the world but we still haven't come to this 😆 Ab koi disco ho, nobody will stop rishita..but if she does it in a public place anybody can walk in and she can't be getting furious for that. Krish ko bola ke how can he enter a married couples room like that , everyone reprimanded krish , not her.

Yeh sach hai 😆

Btw, on a funny note, I feel Dev has failed to provide her with great sex or security. 😆 So much for marrying this damp squib🤪

Dev’s spineless behaviour may put off any woman. Rishita whines mostly because of this, I believe 🤪

Originally posted by: hedwig_potter

@bold

Only saving grace of the show are the talented actors and phenomenal chemistry of the lead couple.

Is it the one with Neil Bhatt?

Originally posted by: Dvanshi123

Yup

Oh I loved him in Gulaal! Not sure about the new drama but he is an amazing actor!!!