KNI Discussion Topic - Page 7

Originally posted by: kadhambari

i can rightfully comment on somebody's decision only when i know them close.

U r right Ambi 😊. Actually I wanted to ask "what will u do if u were in this position". But there are several single gals participating in this thread,so i didnt feel like asking tht way even for an argument.

I wish all the girls to get luving,caringlife partner.😊

Originally posted by: kadhambari

namma oorula innum broad minded fellows & family still irukaanga yaa........engagement aagi kalyanam ninnu pona ponnai kalyanam pannika.. Guys r ready. But guy's parents readya?? Konjam kashtam😕

but divorce aana ponnai kalyanam pannika ethanai peru munvaruvaanga........endha kaaranathunaala divorce aagiyirundhaalum,ponnai dhaane sandhega padum namm samoogam.......adjust panni vaazhanum advice pandradhu yaarukku.......ponnukka illai paiyyanukka?????? Well said 👏👏

now trends are changing yaar...........gals are independant enuf 2 raise their opinions & take decisions on their own. I agree to ur point 100%. Even in tht girl's case she was able to break the engagement cos she was working,financially independent. I dont know whether she wud've taken a bold decision if she wasnt working 😕😕

but indha sudhandhirathai thappaga payan paduthum pengalum undu enbadhai ennaal marukka mudiyadhu. Yes correct.konjam bayama kuda irukku.Entha percentage adhigama aguthu...😲

Originally posted by: annoo

Hi Nets,

Though my answer may not be ur option, I might've longed to do wat u said.😊

For me parents approval is very important before marriage😉. Of course their appoval is much important sweto. because the approved him they ask me to check him out 😆😆😆

So I appreciate,bow ur courage to do what ur heart says.👏👏

Originally posted by: annoo

OK girls... This is my first question.

If u had been in a situation like Divya... i.e., knowing that the person ur parents proposed is ur soulmate, given an option of staying together (ofcourse platonic) 😉... Will u stay with him?

1. Yes.. definitely 😛

2. May be.. 50- 50 chances..😕

3. A big NO 😡

Please give reasons for ur answer 😊

Originally posted by: Mayavi

Personally, I don't feel that living with someone of the opposite gender goes against our culture, so long as roommates know what they're getting into and don't cross the limits. I live in US, and here it's common especially for male and female post-graduates to room together in an apartment. If you think about it, it's pretty similar to how a brother and sister would live together in a house. I like how Divya and Shakthi handled the whole living-together situation, because they did it for a good reason (to get to know each other better) and they didn't cross any boundaries. But of course, you'd have to have good reasons to room with someone of the other sex. My question is only about living together(without crossing limits) with ur fiance.😛 Isnt tht a good reason?😉

Originally posted by: Mayavi

1. She took the right decision.

I really applaud that girl for breaking the engagement just in time! My relative married a man who turned out to be abusive, and she never stood up to her husband and mother-in-law. She just put up with the bad treatment, and finally got a divorce after many years. I wish my relative had spoken up just like your IT friend, because right now my relative just helps her parents at home and doesn't really have a life of her own. Thats really very sad. It will be good if someone starts an organisation to emply these divorcees exclusively.Like Anu Hasan doing the same for small town non-graduates. This idea struck me just now after reading about ur relative.

Seriously, I'm really happy for your friend! Thanx.Definitely our wishes will get her a better life 😊

sorry for rambling..... Dont be pls.. Most of us use this IF just to vent out our supressed feelings.😊