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sankadevi30

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Posted: 17 years ago

#51

i don't think my conscience will allow me to such thing before marriage even if i like the guy a lot

i know more abt me dear anu😛

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@_Manpreet_

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Posted: 17 years ago

#52

Originally posted by: nallu
i don't think my conscience will allow me to such thing before marriage even if i like the guy a lot

well said Nallu 👏.....

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Posted: 17 years ago

#53

Nallu and Aish,

You both rocked with your answers. 👏

Glad to know that we are all on the same page when it comes to live-in relation!!

Anu,

Waiting for your next question..

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Netra Ramanathan

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Posted: 17 years ago

#54

Originally posted by: annoo
OK girls... This is my first question.
If u had been in a situation like Divya... i.e., knowing that the person ur parents proposed is ur soulmate, given an option of staying together (ofcourse platonic) 😉... Will u stay with him?

1. Yes.. definitely 😛

2. May be.. 50- 50 chances..😕

3. A big NO 😡

Please give reasons for ur answer 😊

My answer is Yes ... definitely.

First of all, i've been brought up in a way where i know when to say NO and to stick firm to it. I wud like to live with a person my family had choose, to see if we match each other. For me, i wud not want to take rish and get married to a man, a total stranger to me (im not saying i don't respect arrange marriage). In fact, for those who had arranged marriage, i give them a big salute as it not easy to start live with a stranger.

People might say, living together might end up something, which i think is not true. If ur firm and strong about ur desire, nothing can overcome that. Okay, u may ask, wat if I end up not liking the guy my parents choose? Well, simple, i wud move on with my life, happy i did not ruin my future. I don't care if people says "oh, she was living with dat guy for a year..." .... for me, as long my partner trust me, i dun need others comments. They are not going to live my life till the end. Only me and my partner 😉.

thats netra's opinion 😳

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Posted: 17 years ago

#55

Hey Netra,

EXCELLENT thoughts!! Kalakkiteenga!! Ungalukku naan periya/neraya OOOOOOOOOOO podaraen!!👏👏👏

I too give importance only to the opinions of my near and dear ones..Society doesn't matter at all to me..!!

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annoo

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Posted: 17 years ago

#56

Hi Nets,

Though my answer may not be ur option, I might've longed to do wat u said.😊

For me parents approval is very important before marriage😉.

So I appreciate,bow ur courage to do what ur heart says.👏👏

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annoo

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Posted: 17 years ago

#57

My next quest will be posted in few mins :)

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annoo

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Posted: 17 years ago

#58

This is real life incident in a girl's life. I know her very well.

This girl is working in IT industry.She got engaged to a IT person. Engagement was very grand. She and fiance gave a treat to all the collegues. His office was in the same IT corridor. So they both used to meet for lunch often. He had suspicions in tht girl's character. He checked the messages in her mob,caller lists etc.

Initially she thought it was possesive his nature. Later he started calling her collegues to check her nature.

She first talked with him openly. It did not work out.Then she talked to his parents about this,it did not work out. So she finally broke the engagement.

Whatever has happened is very very unfortunate.My relationship with her was only till the office.She is a good girl,nothing like tht guy suspects.

Now my question is What do u think she should have done?

1. She took the right decision. She deserves a better life.

2. She should not have gone out with him before marrige.

3. Whomever she's going to marry next may/may not be good,everyone knows that she went out with him, so she might lose her good name among relatives and friends. So she sud've proceeded marriage with him.

Please try to think from her position and answer this question.

Edited by annoo - 17 years ago

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@_Manpreet_

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Posted: 17 years ago

#59

1. She took the right decision 👏👏👏 She deserves a better life!!!!!

The girl's actions are totally justified. If a guy is insecure prior to marriage, even though she spent a lot of time with him (while going out), there is a 200% chance that he'll suspect her after marriage too. And things can turn nasty after marriage! It actually happenend to one of my relatives (it all started after marriage), and they are now divorced. I'm really glad she found out his true nature ahead of time. Other wise her marital life would have been sour! After all, every one deserves a better life.

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Posted: 17 years ago

#60

Originally posted by: annoo

1. She took the right decision. 👏👏👏 She deserves a better life.

Few days/months/years' pain is much more bearable than lifetime's trauma.. This is my answer!!

2. She should not have gone out with him before marrige.

She has full rights to hang around with him after engagement.

3. Whomever she's going to marry next may/may not be good,everyone knows that she went out with him, so she might lose her good name among relatives and friends. So she sud've proceeded marriage with him.

When she laughs, society laughs along with her..But when she cries, she has to cry all alone and society laughs at her..She shouldn't care about the society at all!!

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