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Originally posted by: Shwets1502

That's why I think he won't leave. Since Dadaji might have talked about dividing the business and giving his share, he refused and renounced from business. He will continue to be in the house, but what use if he doesn;t have any respect or someone to support from the family. But if he decides to leave, there is no turning back. I am not sure if Nisha would want to leave the house. she made it clear last time.

Umesh will be with Ramesh in whatever decisions he takes. Ramesh is more like a father to him. Rest of the cousins will show support in unity, if not individually. But I think Ramesh will ask them not to get involved or interfere in this matter. Its between the elders and they will sort it out.

Though I have no hopes from Mohan, I wish he does something.

Originally posted by: davearcha

@bold: Thats not even long shot!! Viren could have done something, but what did he do? remained silent? and Mohan is a known BPL, he wants to keep himself away from troubles.

Probably yes, he might have only said he woulnt tak any of his share or property, but then the part of his "home" in GH is his share na, then is he renouncing that too?? If he does that, where will they all stay?

I hope he doesnt leave and hope there is no questions on his respect, if it is, I will want him to leave the same moment.

Originally posted by: Shwets1502

But Ramesh has no job, Sukku might leave GS too, Nisha has no job too, how will Lakshmi manage the expenses then? They have Bunty's education to take care of. Ramesh definitely can look out for jobs and settle in one too. He may have contacts and friends who can help him. Wouldn't mind if he takes up a job relating to music too.

Ramesh would definitely not let Nisha know about anything going at GH. He would definitely act and Nisha wouldn't get it.

Ramesh wouldn't leave the house. I am almost certain of that. But leaving the business itself is a huge decision. That would definitely raise financial issues anyway, leaving the house or not. But Dadaji is pushing Ramesh too much making him take all these decisions.

Originally posted by: davearcha

Nisha can always take up a job after she returns from her trip. She may initially face problems, but then she can definitely get a job too. Sukku could try too, but then I am sure, he would want to go to Mumbai, IF he leaves GS. Ramesh leaving GS and staying in GH itself would be a dhabbha on his self respect. isn't??

Originally posted by: Shwets1502

What's Dadaji's parenting? Look at the way Viren came into GH, was scared of Dadaji to tell even a word...Woh..Actually...so much fear? He is 50...and cannot make a decision on his own. Stand on his own?

Of course..But Dadaji has always considered Ramesh as a guest in the house. If Dadaji or someone taunts him about him leaving the business and not the house, Ramesh SHOULD leave. He already has no respect in the house, and upar se soo many questions and insults? Why should he take it, when family isn't helping him in any way.

Dadaji still commented on how Nisha made huge mistakes bringing bad name for the family. When no one cares for Nisha, why should Ramesh care for his family now?

Originally posted by: Shwets1502

@bold Exactly. Actually, Dadaji's thinking that Ramesh actually wants a share of the property itself is a hit on Ramesh's respect. Does he think Ramesh did everything for money and power? All he has been telling is, he wants to make decisions for his daughter. And Dadaji gets a completely different idea from that?

Ramesh cannot be in GH with what he has done, and what he has been put through. Dadaji's questions and his brothers selfishness. Living in the house, would be like living in a rented house fo free. GH has never been HIS house. He may as well strike a deal with Dadaji for living in the house, at least to show the world that they are ONE family.

Originally posted by: davearcha

Nisha took bad name for herself when she took Dolly's blame on herself. Nisha DID everything for the family, never thought baout herself, and this is how they repay her? Trying to OLX her!! We did think that day that Dadaji really was doing everything for Nisha, but nah, all he cares for is his respect and hence he was defending her. IF there would be taunts on Ramesh leaving the shop but still staying in hone, he shouldnt have any second thoughts on leaving, why him? Even Nisha should support him in leaving and should leave with him. Why stay in a home where your parents arent respected and looked down everytime. This time Ramesh took a step and HIS family OUGHT to support him in this!

Originally posted by: davearcha

@bold: They have NEVER been one, except for cousins. But what use to show the world that they are ONE, when there is no feeling of oneness among them and no respect for him? Anyone can suffer any amount of pain and dhokha while staying in a joint family, but having no respect and being labelled as black sheep of the family every single time, is too much to bear.

Dadaji has never been able to understand ANYONE. And Ramesh leaving the home, will serve him right!

Originally posted by: Shwets1502

Knowing Nisha is taking blame for Dolly, RL supported her too. Because Ramesh and his family has always thought about the entire family. Ramesh has always thought about his brothers and their kids. Lakshmi too has done the same. But what do they get when their own children are in crises. Nisha isn't given even a single day to live the life she wants because she made a mistake? Who doesn't made mistakes? Dadaji was wrong about Riteish, did family blame him? Dadaji cares about family name and if someone makes any mistake, they aer a complete failure. According to him, Ramesh is a failure and is leading his kids to be one. Kahan ki logic hai ye...will any father want his kids to fail in life?

Lakshmi and Nisha should support Ramesh if question is his self respect. Nisha cannot be thinking about her cousins all the time. It's time she thinks about her parents and their situation in the house.

Dadi somewhere is going to blame Ramesh for all the tension in the house.