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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: Shwets1502


Do they deserve to be respected? After what they have done to Ramesh?


Bilkul nahin! But still would Ramesh want that to happen? Imagine, after Umesh and Aman return from Pushkar tip, and come to know that his Ramesh chachu left home and slowly everything is clear to him, maybe from Dolly or by hearing it from Viren saying this to Vimla? How would he feel?
Umesh will be broken too.
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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: davearcha


I dont want him to have a HUGE dhakkha types truth revelation. It would break him completely and could be hazardous too. Him understanding and breaking NOW will be more than enough, but after knowing the WHOLE truth, he may never be able to forgive himself.

aadmi toot kar mazboot banta hai. This will make dadaji stronger.
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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: Shwets1502


Dadaji is definitely hurt by the words...but he isn't thinking WHY Ramesh said all this suddenly. What silent treatment? What can he do?


Just simply ignore RL and Co. Ramesh is no more dependent on him, i.e., IF Ramesh leaves the home too.
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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: davearcha


Bilkul nahin! But still would Ramesh want that to happen? Imagine, after Umesh and Aman return from Pushkar tip, and come to know that his Ramesh chachu left home and slowly everything is clear to him, maybe from Dolly or by hearing it from Viren saying this to Vimla? How would he feel?
Umesh will be broken too.


Ramesh wouldn't want to happen of course. But if things happen, Ramesh can't be held responsible. Ramesh has to bear all the punishment and pain without making mistake, while Moren stays at home comfortably making all the mistakes in life? Umesh would be broken, but he should know the truth too. If Ramesh, without being Umesh's father has done so much for him, Umesh can do the same to Ramesh, even if that means going against his father.
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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: Shwets1502


He would NEVER back out. I see that determination in him. He has taken this step after lot of thought. He knows his words will hurt. He knows he will get hurt too. But it's time he stands up for his kids. He cannot let injustice happen to his kids.


But what about this determination after his "peace-makers" return? Lakshmi would support Ramesh definitely BUT then she would talk to Dadaji and Dadi too. and Nisha??
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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: davearcha


Just simply ignore RL and Co. Ramesh is no more dependent on him, i.e., IF Ramesh leaves the home too.


Except for making their life's decision, Dadaji has ignored RL all the time. Did he tell about OLX to RL?

At the same time, Ramesh, after all this, will feel so bad. Will feel guilty for having talked like that to his parents. He wouldn't want to leave the house too. And if Dadaji doesn't understand even after Ramesh's decision to leave the house...I have no hopes he will understand on his own.
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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: Teogapi

aadmi toot kar mazboot banta hai. This will make dadaji stronger.


At this age??? Nah . . . He will have a stroke on knowing the entire truth
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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: davearcha


But what about this determination after his "peace-makers" return? Lakshmi would support Ramesh definitely BUT then she would talk to Dadaji and Dadi too. and Nisha??


Lakshmi could be unpredictable. Since she hasn't seen the broken Nisha or PC, she may not understand why it was SO important for Nisha to go on this trip. Lakshmi, I feel in a way definitely thinks Dadaji has been so kind hearted to let Ramesh and his family live in the house. She is indebted to them. She may support emotionally, but will Lakshmi support Ramesh's decision is a question. RL's relationship will be tested.

Nisha would feel bad, that Ramesh has taken this step for her. Ramesh has to clarify that he is doing it from his heart, and not under any force. He is very clear and Nisha shouldnt interfere.
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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: Shwets1502


Ramesh wouldn't want to happen of course. But if things happen, Ramesh can't be held responsible. Ramesh has to bear all the punishment and pain without making mistake, while Moren stays at home comfortably making all the mistakes in life? Umesh would be broken, but he should know the truth too. If Ramesh, without being Umesh's father has done so much for him, Umesh can do the same to Ramesh, even if that means going against his father.


Ramesh leaving would break the whole house actually.
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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: davearcha


Ramesh leaving would break the whole house actually.


I am confused if I want him to leave the house or not. Current situation, he hasn't faced something REALLY BAD to leave the house. Nisha is on her trip. Sukku has somehow settled too. Leaving house wouldn't it be too much?

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