Moments of the day - 16/2 - Page 44

Originally posted by: Shwets1502

Except for making their life's decision, Dadaji has ignored RL all the time. Did he tell about OLX to RL?

At the same time, Ramesh, after all this, will feel so bad. Will feel guilty for having talked like that to his parents. He wouldn't want to leave the house too. And if Dadaji doesn't understand even after Ramesh's decision to leave the house...I have no hopes he will understand on his own.

Originally posted by: Shwets1502

Lakshmi could be unpredictable. Since she hasn't seen the broken Nisha or PC, she may not understand why it was SO important for Nisha to go on this trip. Lakshmi, I feel in a way definitely thinks Dadaji has been so kind hearted to let Ramesh and his family live in the house. She is indebted to them. She may support emotionally, but will Lakshmi support Ramesh's decision is a question. RL's relationship will be tested.

Nisha would feel bad, that Ramesh has taken this step for her. Ramesh has to clarify that he is doing it from his heart, and not under any force. He is very clear and Nisha shouldnt interfere.

Originally posted by: Shwets1502

I am confused if I want him to leave the house or not. Current situation, he hasn't faced something REALLY BAD to leave the house. Nisha is on her trip. Sukku has somehow settled too. Leaving house wouldn't it be too much?

Originally posted by: davearcha

Honestly, I am not sure what I want. Because Ramesh leaving the home would only mean he has NO respect from his father and others in his home. And if that is what happens in GH tonight I am all for him leaving. One cannot stay in a place where there is no one to support or respect you. Asking for respect is not too much, is it?

But then him leaving will break the house very badly. GT would start eyeing Ramesh's share of property because he himself renounced it. Umesh would be broken, I wouldn't be surprised if he leaves too, seeing the injustice metted out to Ramesh everytime.

Originally posted by: Shwets1502

@Dave Dadaji is definitely going to regret Big Time one day. Especially Ramesh's words yesterday.

Lakshmi HAS to stand by Ramesh, like Dadi stands by Dadaji. If Ramesh feels Lakshmi isn't supporting him, he will doubt if he is right or wrong. Lakshmi's stance is very important for him. He isn't doing it for himself but for his kids. Lakshmi has to understand that there is only certain limit Ramesh can also bear.

Originally posted by: davearcha

Lakshmi herself cannot bear GT taunting Nisha, and when Dadaji does something like this, like not giving legal right odf decision making of a daughter to her dad, then yes, Lakshmi has to stand by him. Ramesh would have to make her understand a lot first, but yes, in the end, Lakshmi is going to stand by him like always. Lakshmi's stand on this can either make Ramesh confident and stronger OR weaken him completely.

Originally posted by: Shwets1502

Exactly. Ramesh's move yesterday in itself will cause lot of problems in the house. If he leaves, house would be broken. Dadi will be broken, and Dadaji would be MUing Ramesh even more. He would never gain respect in the house again, and should never return to GH again, if he leaves the house once. He ran away and came back, what respect did he have? So if he leaves now, there is no turning back. Things can get sorted, but I don't want him to get back into GH.

Even cousins would actually realise the importance of Ramesh in his absence. How they were dependent on him too. If Ramesh leaves, I want cousins to openly show their support for Ramesh in GH.

Originally posted by: davearcha

@bold: Ramesh should realize that, leaving the home is the point of no return. Whatever happens, even of things are sorted he cannot return to stay back. Its the matter of his self respect and also the lives of his children.

Cousins mein ONLY Umesh is the one who can support and Jwala. Jwala is too young to show any of her support. Dolly would anyways leave and I don't think she can support anything strongly. Kirti can fight with GT but not with anyone else

Only Umesh can help in supporting Ramesh or all cousins standing together in support.

Originally posted by: Shwets1502

I don't want Lakshmi to think about how they will manage financially. She should think about the respect and right that Ramesh and their kids should get in the house. I don't want Ramesh to make Lakshmi understand. Lakshmi should understand it on her own. Ramesh being out of work shouldn't bother her. She should assure him that she will manage it somehow. Ramesh can look for job outside too. It will be difficult, but he shouldn't step down or get convinced.

@bold Completely agreed. Ramesh need strength now. Lakshmi has to give it. But what if Lakshmi isn't returning for few more days. Can Ramesh handle himself without support? Keep Nisha away from doubting something is wrong?