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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: Nisha_90

nice one Shwets 👍🏼

I dunno may be its too early to say something but i'm nt liking Nisha..its not dat she is not typical heroine..i really like charecters who are tom boyish but the way Nisha behaves is something weird.
she always speaks in between anyone or tries to prove superior lke how she broke in wen keerthi, suku are playing dere game infront of dat teacher- saying why u guys tried ur own 🤢, stupidly stubborn and irresponsible. I'm a modern girl and cant take traditional wear but wen time comes i'll wear bcoz we are in such a place where tradition is given importance even today also..


Hi Nisha😊

I wouldn't say I don't like Nisha. I like her but yes there are some habits/behaviors of hers which are not perfect. Like you said, during the college scene with the clerk, Nisha was more angry because they didn't let her plan and execute. They did it on their own. She revealed it not exactly because it was wrong, but because she couldn't get the money on her own.

She is tomboyish. Fine. She does try to interfere in every matter. I don't think it is wrong. She considers herself to be mature enough and to an extent she is. When it comes to understanding her family situation, she is matured. She gives back when someone comments on her, which is/will always be considered wrong and disrespectful. But for a lady like Roopal I don't see anything wrong.

I respect your point when you say Nisha is stupidly stubborn and irresponsible. But I feel every cousin is irresponsible😆 Nisha's stubborness saves them.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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I dont understand the obsession with Lehenga. Let the girl wear a salwar kurta instead which is obviously more comfortable than lehenga or saree.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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may be there is a strong reason behind her obsession for not wearing lehanga lets wait and watch😉
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Yes dear it is really difficult to adjust even for one day when u have never worn such indian dresses in ur life... U can't feel confident in the dress in which u r not comfortable. That's what's happening with Nisha. She feels she will look like some joker in it and won't be able to enjoy her sister's wedding properly.
And am saying it by my experience... Till date I have never wore saree.. N in my farewell party the dress code was saree... I tried but it was really difficult for me so I planned to drop the idea of going there but thanks to my supportive friends who dint let me miss it and I went there in suit.
I am not liking the kind of obsession with Lehenga.. They could have given her some other girly dress which would have been more easy for her to carry like some designer suit without dupatta or simple salwar suit.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: fairylover

Yes dear it is really difficult to adjust even for one day when u have never worn such indian dresses in ur life... U can't feel confident in the dress in which u r not comfortable. That's what's happening with Nisha. She feels she will look like some joker in it and won't be able to enjoy her sister's wedding properly.

And am saying it by my experience... Till date I have never wore saree.. N in my farewell party the dress code was saree... I tried but it was really difficult for me so I planned to drop the idea of going there but thanks to my supportive friends who dint let me miss it and I went there in suit.
I am not liking the kind of obsession with Lehenga.. They could have given her some other girly dress which would have been more easy for her to carry like some designer suit without dupatta or simple salwar suit.


@bold Did Nisha try to wear lehenga whole heartedly? That's my point 😊. She never wanted to.
I agree that few people may not like this tradition and dress code and want to go against it. Every cousin is going to wear a lehenga. Won't it be nice even if she was in one? She would look odd one out anyway if she doesn't wear lehenga with all her other cousins in traditional outfit.

@blue I actually don't find anything wrong in her parents and others forcing her to wear lehenga. If she doesn't want to wear it, she should reason it well instead of saying a blunt NO!
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: Shwets1502


@bold Did Nisha try to wear lehenga whole heartedly? That's my point 😊. She never wanted to.
I agree that few people may not like this tradition and dress code and want to go against it. Every cousin is going to wear a lehenga. Won't it be nice even if she was in one? She would look odd one out anyway if she doesn't wear lehenga with all her other cousins in traditional outfit.

@blue I actually don't find anything wrong in her parents and others forcing her to wear lehenga. If she doesn't want to wear it, she should reason it well instead of saying a blunt NO!


I guess I am always the odd one among my cousins so I do not find it odd to not wear traditional when all others are wearing.. I do not think she need to reason it when her parents know her from childhood. They know that she is not going to wear it.. In fct Dadaji knew it so he hid that 5k.

I agree she z too blunt and they over did her tomboyish look but there is a reason behind this nature of her.. Though not revealed yet but we have seen that how she has problem with her family coz they are being considered as inferior from others... Her dadaji and tauji never leaves a single opportunity to belittle their family.. So I guess that's the reason for her being stubborn and always going against everyone.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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@fairylover The problem is Nisha's rebellion is not helping her or her parents. If Nisha doesn't wear a lehenga, more than her Lakshmi will get the taunts. There are sometimes compromises have to be done, especially when a function like marriage is happening. I think Nisha could have given in and tried wearing it. She is not going to be inferior. If not with Kirti, I think she could have got the help from Lakshmi.
I agree for the reason why Nisha is stubborn and I am Ok with it. I am not fine with the current situation.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: Shwets1502

@fairylover The problem is Nisha's rebellion is not helping her or her parents. If Nisha doesn't wear a lehenga, more than her Lakshmi will get the taunts. There are sometimes compromises have to be done, especially when a function like marriage is happening. I think Nisha could have given in and tried wearing it. She is not going to be inferior. If not with Kirti, I think she could have got the help from Lakshmi.

I agree for the reason why Nisha is stubborn and I am Ok with it. I am not fine with the current situation.


I agree with this part.. She needs to adjust for her parents but i feel she is somewhat rebellion towards them also as they are bearing all the biasness. We have seen how she wanted to confront her dadaji for giving less money to his dad but her mom stopped her. I think she somewhere disapproves her submissive nature.

In addition, I do not support Nisha fully as somewhere I think she doesn't respect elders. I do not like her behavior as well... I mean she is girl and she should be proud of that.. I do not like the way Jwala calls her Nisha bro. It's ok to wear jeans and behave cool.. A girl can behave like the way Nisha is doing without actually being called as bro. N special mention.. I dislike the way she sits.. I know she is carefree person n doesn't behave like a shy girl but she has girly features and she needs to realize it. Even boys do not sit like that in public.
Edited by fairylover - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Completely Agree! For d dance i guess there is a back stry bt dress i dont think so bcoz today in parlour she did wear that skirt then said chii nd removed it so i think cvs are exagerating it to prove d point that nisha is tomboy which is quite irritaring...come on nw one asked her to change her wardrobe its jus a lehenga...cant she do it for her cousin or her mom who bought it for her so lovingly!
Evn i think Nisha is stubourn its her character flaw..like Kriti's ego..umesh's darr etc etc!

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