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Shwetha

@Shwets1502

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Posted: 12 years ago

#11

I too wonder. My uncles are not bad😆 But I feel they are selfish and care for their personal life more. Or it is because of their wives. My grandmother stays with them max for one month and is back with us again.

See, honestly, there are certain things which she does, that I don't like too. But that does not mean you have to ignore them, is it? When I was Parvarish in my room, my grandmother keeps asking question especially about Raavi😆 I cannot tell her on her face not to disturb me. That is not respect and that is not what I have been taught. I either nod my head, or give her explanation or tell her I will explain in the ad break. Problem solved. It is always possible for me to make a big issue out of small things like this.

I guess people feel that it is parents duty to take care of them and not vice versa. If they give them money every month, their duty is done.

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@skyforceguy

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Posted: 12 years ago

#12

well i have to admit that i'm lucky enough to have my grand mother living with us since i was born. Although haven't seen my grand dad as he passed away before i was even born. My thakuma (it's grandma in bengali) is my extreme source for all the stories happened in our family during 60s & 70s... Dad's childhood and all...

Edited by PritamDas01 - 12 years ago

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Shwetha

@Shwets1502

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Posted: 12 years ago

#13

Even I did not see my grandfather but have heard a lot about him. He was a man of principles and I am sure I would have learnt a lot from him too.

When grandparents live with us, we get more attached to the family. That is what I feel. When they are with us, we are never left alone anytime especially in our childhood and school days. And if parents are working, kids will not feel lonely too.

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@skyforceguy

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Posted: 12 years ago

#14

in some families kids witness all the quarrels that take place between parents and grand parents... Which is the worst thing a child can learn form... Sadly this happens in most families.. Like currently about to happen in parvarish.

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Shwetha

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Posted: 12 years ago

#15

That is true too. Parents have to be very careful about how they behave with their parents. The respect they show to them is the respect they will get from their children. And grandparents also have to make sure that they speak with respect to their children.

Yes. It will be interesting to see if arguments between Lucky and Daddu happens in front of kids and if so, how they will handle

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@skyforceguy

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Posted: 12 years ago

#16

has lucky ji shouted on dadaji too in the last episode? I don't want him to loose his cool... At the end dadaji must understand that lucky ji is a BETTER father than him!

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Shwetha

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Posted: 12 years ago

#17

He did not shout...but definitely lost cool.

When Rocky bought Pizza for dinner...Dadaji started shouting and blaming Lucky for it telling Lucky is enjoying troubling him. Lucky for that said yes he is enjoying a lot as he is his(dadaji) enemy and is always planning abt troubling him. he asks him why he always think he is conspiring against him. Dadaji leaves angrily. This is what happened.

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@skyforceguy

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Posted: 12 years ago

#18

Well i first have to
watch myself to understand completely
what the scene was! I think lucky
should not shout at dadaji but
definately reply him back. Dadaji has so many mis conceptions about lucky ji. He
thinks his son is a khotta which he is
not. He's such nice father... Nice husband
and definately would have been a
better son if dadaji was a better father!
Dadaji did injustice to him by restricting him from doing what he wanted to.
Still lucky setteled in delhi on his own,
despite being not highly educated he
has achieved so many things (way
more than jeet i think)... Having an
bunglow actually shows alot!! So dadaji should understand lucky ji is atleast not
a looser (khotta)

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Shwetha

@Shwets1502

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Posted: 12 years ago

#19

Having known lucky as a calm person..he cud have stopped himself from saying it. It made matters only worse. It was not shouting at him..more of back answering. At the same time, everything has a limit. Lucky apologised, accepted mistake, blamed himself for his mistake also. Yet Daddu said he does not want to see his face and Lucky left. Sweety passified daddu to eat and then the pizza issue. True. Daddu has to realise Lucky is not a loser and there is a long way for that. But waiting to blame him for the smallest of the mistake is not nice.

And I agree completely, having a bunglow in Delhi is not such a small thing. May be for Daddu..money is not the matter...but status and respect in society.

Edited by Shwets1502 - 12 years ago