behen log...pls go see the epi...I am also going to see it again but I do want to say a few things...First Anant wrote a fantastic mail to Navya...it was very balanced and he expressed his concern exactly as we had understood...that she has been exposed to a new world through her job and she seems to be enjoying it a lot. His dream is to marry her but he dosent want his dreams to restrict hers so if she has any doubts about the marriage she should voice them...I am so unhappy that she didnt get to read it because of her busy body friends...ok ok it was better for them to meet and talk but couldnt they have got a print out or something...so Anant is all keyed up for the meeting and gets there only to find out that Navya has no clue why she has come...so he has to say his point all over again and he says it so badly...asking her if she would prefer career, job and independence over marriage with him 😡...that is putting the issue in a completely different light...its not about Navya having to lose out on realising her potential, her opportunity to grow and enjoy a place in the larger world...but its almost looking down on that choice and its so clear that these are two very distinct options...there is no possibility that she can enjoy both and nobody is problematising the fact that she has to choose one of the two...I mean he could have said what he had written which was that I am very worried that being with me, you will lose out on a large part of life and I love you and would never like to be cause of your clipped wings...at which point she would have said that you are the wind beneath my wings and without you, none of my dreams will be fulfilled...surprisingly though she says something quite similar...so interestingly she doesnt say that she doesnt want a career ...she says that the only thing that she wants the most in her life is to be with him...she and the CVs completely skirt the issue... so where does that leave us ...AnYa will make up very very sweetly...Anant will finally be happy in his marriage...the phangurrls (including me) will all be happy shappy because of that and I dont grudge that because really we deserve some happiness...BUT what about the Nayi Soch...today when I heard Anant in the park...he sounded like a very traditional boy who is asking a girl whether she prefers a career over marriage...he sounded like a Bajpayee kandaan ka sapoot and I thought...why the hell was I expecting anything different...ladkilog thoda dil toot gaya but I will see the epi again and reconfirm my impressions...
Why was Amar Sir there????? I find his intervention in this matter so bizzaree...see I have mentored young people and one does play the kind of role Amar Sir plays...but he is getting too personal...usually one gives general gyan when asked but one does not turn up to resolve lovers' quarrels!!!