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Posted: 14 years ago
@Ritch, you are 18 and trust me girl you have brought about some aspects so maturely. 👏 You will do good I can assure you.

@Soumya, you are so right in saying that there is no correct ingredient to make a marriage work and something that works for one couple may not work for another afterall no two people can be same no two situations can be same. It is so subjective!


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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: geno0309

Hey Anjali you around?:)


Hey Soumya..yup I am here...so glad the day is over. It was crazy. How was yours? Hope better than mine.
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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: Dora123


Hey Soumya..yup I am here...so glad the day is over. It was crazy. How was yours? Hope better than mine.


Yeah even I had a busy day and glad its done:) but not crazy like yours i guess:)Am just bhatkoying around here...guess should have used this time to watch today's episode-heheh

Chalo I will scoot now...will catch you up with you tomorrow...you have a good night:)
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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: geno0309

Hey Rit..you bring out a very key aspect abt divorces- and I agree kids suffer the most in these situations.


-why are we seeing so many divorces? Guess regarding younger couples, everyone very nicely elaborated on possible causes:) as for older couples with kids...my theory is... ppl change with age and time...life's challenges get tougher and tougher, aspirations change and like everyone says rightly, marriage is a lot of work...if the bond that holds two ppl together weakens over time, cause of the above reasons...you can easily fall out of love...so its easy to want to separate!
And I see that...even get that to an extend...what I don't get is when couples forget that they are also parents and are responsible for the kids...you cannot see eye to eye with your spouse, but your love and commitment to your chid should not change no matter what. So couples who ruin the kids' life and future in the process of divorces, are bad parents...period!

-Am of course saying all this from a naive perspective...maybe I would think differently if something like this happened to me personally-but I know I will never let my kids suffer.

-I guess there is no right way/protocol for making a marriage work-you just go with your gut, work towards keeping the marriage going, and hope for the best!:)




@BOLD: agree totally! And hence something else that comes from this is that evey couple should probably have kids when they think they are ready and really yearn to start a family. Never ever under family pressure. I have seen in my extended family and close friend circle where they rushed into having a child and have faced some turbulent times. Just something I observed and may be wrong, dont mean to offend anyone.
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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: geno0309


Yeah even I had a busy day and glad its done:) but not crazy like yours i guess:)Am just bhatkoying around here...guess should have used this time to watch today's episode-heheh

Chalo I will scoot now...will catch you up with you tomorrow...you have a good night:)


Yeah I was singing,, dauda dauda bhaga bhaga sa...!
Chalo ou sleep tight! good night and catch you tomorrow for sure..🤗
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Posted: 14 years ago
Woah ...hey all 😛...seems u guyz had a heavy discussion ...jus read ol ur take n comments ...Nice take by ritch n shilpa n Dora123 (sorry duno ur name) 👏👏👏 very well written ur POV ..n shaina very well pointed out ...i agree to ur 5 POINTS ...

Nw frm m side ...i liked 2day's epi ...pura dirama he dirama ...anant babua was jus left inches away frm gettin a tamacha 😛 i doubt OM is anant 's dad or hostel warden ...every time he keeps warning anant to leave house ...😆
well well ...dez bajpayee 😡neva had any respect for women bt der POV was let der gal n daughter suffer like hell in der sasural dey hav to stick up der itself like wallpapers 🥱 eg; DA SR n DA jr
i knw everybody hav pointed out already nothing to add ny more ...nw a days more den half of the marriages end up in divorce as a solution which is blame game nothing more den dat ...der r very few ppl who hardly give second chance to der marriage life ...bt here we cant blame renu ...she tried a lot to solve her issues wid gautam ...bt gautam toh hai he 🤬...nobody can live wid dat guy ..even if 2day renu shuts her mouth n stay up wid him some or odr day he wil nly throw her out jus for somebody else ...so its btr that renu took that initiative ...explaining dez things to bhajpai is utter useless ..coz dey neva understood womens way of thinking ...v ol knw hw OM behaves wid his wife ..n i guess even UB wld hav been like diz wid his wife 🤔 i hope she z enjoying her right atleast in heaven 😛 Yes u heard me right heaven ..out of this hell der z always doors open for Heaven ...bt not rama ben ...d reason y dey dun include women in der discussion is coz of womens like rama who enjoy d dirama by puttin more mirch masala 😳 den gettin a solution ..
anyways neither OM nor UB gav a proper answer to anant bt OM very well executed another question in anant's confused mind abt navya n anant's future relationship ..2 days before nyhw he took steps to clear d dilemma of amar n navya ...again one more naya sawal nayi dhadkan ...😆 poor confused guy btw now i really want navya to say that hw important anant is in her life so that it clears his recent doubts n knw that hw much navya loves him 😳 i really want to hear a speech frm navya d way anant said to renu once upon a time😛 bt m expecting again frm our lovely CV;s 😲😲😲 ghor paap isnt it ??🤣..so expectation cancelled

thats ol frm m side gurls 🤗


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Posted: 14 years ago

After blast epi im in good mood today. No one see around hellooo. The show is getting better and I pray to cv don't ruin it again.

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Posted: 14 years ago
Hello Clarissa...I think I am here...😆Am I? 😕or it is again my ghost bhatkofying...
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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: clarissajohn

After blast epi im in good mood today. No one see around hellooo. The show is getting better and I pray to cv don't ruin it again.



hey clarissa ...🤗 hw r u ...was watchin d last part ...forum was highly impressed by that ..bt not me
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Posted: 14 years ago
Hello Clarissa, Nish, Harini & Asha🤗 Good Morning.

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