The Difference Between Reality n TV (Attn: CVs) - Page 2

Originally posted by: strawberry111

I completely agree - not everyone who faces this problem has the luck of having a dumbo like shagun!! but, i think the cvs will eventually have that conversation/ track... I truly think abhi it was too jaldi for anant to confront his family... i mean they would have been like "tum abhi kitne din ke liye jaane ho is ladki ko?" plus they had nooo inkling at all, so it would be a total bam surprise, which i think wouldnt have been good. i think agar his family found out about navya now, toh surely they would have forced him into marriage or somehow closed the chapter. Im eager to see what comes next!!!

Originally posted by: navyaalex8

You've hit the nail on the head, Shilpa! I imagined youth culture would change in some part because of this show and initially it looked that way but...the unbelievable "get married to your bhabhis sis at 19 with no thought to anything else and dont say a word" storyline is not relatable to most of us anymore ...which is why i feel a disconnect to this show now...it may still be a good story and the face may still be cute but its just another serial now ...what a waste!

Originally posted by: barbie2011

Shipa - You and other respondents, have penned down a lot of question or i shoul say issues ,which i have been thiking a lo too. Before I say anything, you and others who already replied, have expreseed the idea and the situation so well👏👏⭐️, that I have nothing much to add to it. It is very well written and expressed👏👏. so instead of repeating the same again ,I will just put forward something in additon to what already is there...

Coming from the similar age group as your, where we probably have seen it ,done it..or if not done it ourselves but experienced it in some way or the other. The issue of stopping the engagent was very important, which raised our hopes as to depict ,probably what we could have or our friends could have done better , that we did not think at that point. I thought it will engrave a new pathh ,into todays generation but.. Shagun😲..really? Who finds such girl?..I hope everybody was so lucky to have a option of getting rescued by someone like shagun..but that does not happen in real. Nobody, except our belief and strength help us in such situation.. So I am disappointed with how it eneded ,even if I wanted it to iget called off.

Yes TRP won the race over ideology or more realistic story..sad but true..

WORD TO WORD I Concur...this is exactly wat I am trying to say...This track cud have been a very educating track for both the youth and parents who are in similar cause of action but unfortunately the conclusion has made the entire track null n void for me...sad i say

The only 1 thing that i want to add is, even I am excited about the promo and very happy about it, not just because the engagement is cancelled, the part that excites me the most, is the few last words.which many probably questioned.oreven disliked..

The question by Navya- ab aage kya?. This question still makes me feel there is a window left, in which CV's can actually make effore to answer some of our concerns and show a more realistic ,thoughful process of finding a balance between traditional values and modern ideology. Loving someone is not bad, it is just the matter of experiencing the change and then trying to implement it. I hope CV's pay attention to this part and we see something more realistic in near future. I am very hopefull:-)

Am keeping fingers crossed along with u on that n truly hope that CVs do justice to a beautiful show like navya and all the efforts they have put in it so far 😳😳

P.S - I am typing this in te middle of my class, yes this post was so interesting😊 and it touched me so much, that i cannot wait for my class to get done. so please excuse if there are any spelling or grammatical error...

U humbled me with these words n I truly appreciate the time n effort u put into replying...thanks alot 🤗

Originally posted by: barbie2011

Sajni..I am sorry, I addressed you wrongly on my reply..i am realy sorrry for doing that,Ii dont know why i addressed you as shilpa😲.. actually I know why..shilpa is one of my team mates in my class project.. This is all due to the rush of the hour, being in the class..please do not take it personal..

Sorry once again..

Originally posted by: shalun

I totally loved this discussion n fully agree with thoughts expressed above 👏... @ Sajni ... really wonderful topic yar ... thats exactly my point of view⭐️ ... the tym since engt track started i have stopped thinking it as a show which relates to reality ... ( abhi bhi kuch kuch cheezein to real hain but the circumstances/characterization don't seem too real ) ... yest. only my brother nd i were discussing then i suddenly said ki ye serial hai ... serials ki duniya mein logic aur reality nahi hoti ... i thought why did i popped that out ... ur post clarified everything ... i mean wt i don't like now abt this show ... the "reality" flavour is missing ... which you pointed out was in navya's parents scenes and anant seeking permission scene ... i mean it is still a cute and very much adorable show ... but its USP ,... which attracted me is somewhere missing now ... u know ... vo baat karne ka tarika ... concerns of navya's parents ... everything... n i also would lyk to appreciate the question put by @piya ... that why did she (navya) in first place let her fall in for anant if she had concerns for her family ...coz from her side it was cleary infatuation at first sight ... definitely can't be love ... i would have loved to see a track where she holds her back despite confrontation by anant ,... and tries to keep her out of d infatuation .. keeps her aback (coz that is generally wt we do @ first coz we know families won't accept such things beforehand) ... then slowly may be after knowing him ... observing his love ... juggles with her innerself ...gathers some courage and share it with her mom ... after that accept it in front of anant ... i mean this would have been just awesome. ... but then CV's choice 😳... but ya ... totally agree with ya all ... 👍🏼👏 ... nd wonderful post once again ...

Originally posted by: skydome

@ shalun : "keeps her aback (coz that is generally wt we do @ first coz we know families won't accept such things beforehand) ... then slowly may be after knowing him ... observing his love ... juggles with her innerself ...gathers some courage and share it with her mom ... after that accept it in front of anant ... i mean this would have been just awesome. ."

Thanks for this detailed discussion.

@ shalun - "share it with her mom" (Marvellous comment)- after Navya returned from the picnic and Anant was avoiding her - there was a moment where Navya was with her mother (where Navya lost Anant's button), I so much hoped that Navya would have shared this pain/ confusion with her mom (it would have been terrific - an excellent message for the viewers. It would have given a message of trusting own parents and children over outsiders and away from the secrecy/ lying games), because as a mother she could have understood Navya's delimna and could have given her the right advise/guidance (this would have been more real and forward looking).

The CV's did not have to bring the episode of Rama and Shagun at all. (They quickly realised that the Sonia track will not work, and hopefully she is gone). They still can show Anant and Navya's episode of maturity, growing up, making their respective career (the new generation are educated, ambitious and want to have their identity along with a having a personal relationship), balancing between tradition and modernism and still succeeding to achieve and win their love.

THIS IS THE 21ST CENTURY as Shilpa mentions.

I hope the CVs move forward with a proper optimistic well researched script, and simply follow the foot steps of TRPs and the past serials. Keeping our fingers crossed !!