The Difference Between Reality n TV (Attn: CVs) - Page 4

a beautifully written post...and I echo your sentiments totally Sajini...but alas that is the truth...fiction will always be far from reality...I mean not everyone bumps into their to be bf on the first day of college itself...and no goodlooking Anant would try to follow or stalk a timid middleclass girl who let alone say hi is even scared to look up and face the crowd...no girl who has the so called strict sanskaar go totally crazy on her picnic that she would enter a boy's room...I remember the song na na karte ...waise na na karte sab kuch kar baithi Navya ne...it does not mean these things do not happen but in dreamworld for sure it does happen this way...and the madhouse that Anant is in...can't imagine in this day and age there would be such a family and that too so many restrictions on a boy of all the people...the story could go on...but this was it in brief...

Originally posted by: smitasmita

Hi shilpa,

It is really a nice post ...my view on how things have been going so far .
firstly I started watching this show becoz it had lot of similarity with my life ...the characters and all..

I can say till date about 70-80% of the things in the serial match with my life. I hope none of my family ever comes to know that i am writing personal stuff on forum 😆
My in-laws are a lot like Anants...they go for satsang ...listen to pravachan..my hubby too has to do all that when he is with them...but in college he behaved exactly as Anant does with friends ..all masti and masak..😉
his family had actually decided to have rista pakka with neighborhood girl ...but just like the present track ..before he could talk to his family to refuse the rishta..the girl herself made huge mistake...
She made fun of his cousins in public and that was it ...they called off the sagai ...

I wud add here that those were initial days ...just like in case of Navi...as relationship grew stroger we got the guts to face our family ...if not for that incident the story wud have been so diffent for me today...The path was not easy after that..we struggled a lot ...but the broken sagai gave us a chance to understand the dept of our relationship more and grow more courage to face the families.

I am actually shocked to see so much similarity with this show...my hubby asks me at times that did I send the story to startplus😊
Like navi ..I was very shy in college..but things changed gradually...
and the famous dialogue-- "mujhe jaana hai"...OMG i don't have a count of how many times i might have said this to my hubby when in college...
half of the time while watching Navya i feel as if I am looking at a flashback of my own life...


And believe me Shilpa such people exist and such things happen...we have struggled for more than 4 yrs to persuade our family for the marriage.I won't blame CVs for this reason ..yes there is huge difference in the presentation as it is a drama...but regarding the storyline...well it still looks like my story 😊

Hey Smita,

oh smitasmita I went thru your post just now...good for you girl...congrats...seems to be a story right from a M&B novel...congrats and may you enjoy a blissful and happy married life always...

Originally posted by: smitasmita

Hi shilpa,

It is really a nice post ...my view on how things have been going so far .
firstly I started watching this show becoz it had lot of similarity with my life ...the characters and all..

I can say till date about 70-80% of the things in the serial match with my life. I hope none of my family ever comes to know that i am writing personal stuff on forum 😆
My in-laws are a lot like Anants...they go for satsang ...listen to pravachan..my hubby too has to do all that when he is with them...but in college he behaved exactly as Anant does with friends ..all masti and masak..😉
his family had actually decided to have rista pakka with neighborhood girl ...but just like the present track ..before he could talk to his family to refuse the rishta..the girl herself made huge mistake...
She made fun of his cousins in public and that was it ...they called off the sagai ...

I wud add here that those were initial days ...just like in case of Navi...as relationship grew stroger we got the guts to face our family ...if not for that incident the story wud have been so diffent for me today...The path was not easy after that..we struggled a lot ...but the broken sagai gave us a chance to understand the dept of our relationship more and grow more courage to face the families.

I am actually shocked to see so much similarity with this show...my hubby asks me at times that did I send the story to startplus😊
Like navi ..I was very shy in college..but things changed gradually...
and the famous dialogue-- "mujhe jaana hai"...OMG i don't have a count of how many times i might have said this to my hubby when in college...
half of the time while watching Navya i feel as if I am looking at a flashback of my own life...


And believe me Shilpa such people exist and such things happen...we have struggled for more than 4 yrs to persuade our family for the marriage.

I won't blame CVs for the track they have shown ..yes there is huge difference in the presentation as it is a drama...but regarding the storyline...well it still looks like my story 😊

@Barbie and Shilpa --thank u 😊... yes when the wedding took place i cud not believe that things were actually happening...my hubby kept teasing me for how nervous i looked during the ceremonies😆
to give it a thot ..I can actually write a book on m own story😛

@tvdost-- thanks dear , yeah it very much resembles a filmy or as u say Mills n Boon story ..boy meets girl..parents not agreeing ...lot of emotional turmoil...lot of struggle and then the wedding ..i hope it proves to be happily everafter in future too

Thank u all for the wishes.😊

@Shilpa--

I do agree with you on how CVs have evaded the difficult route ...but as I said earlier ...if there was no third person -- the story wud be diffenrt .

The thing is both the partners are not yet into a very strong relationship... the courage comes eventually with time as bond grows stronger..and for the people like Navi and Anant ..i didnt expect them both to open up to parents so quickly...having said that I second the fact that Anant had a chance to approach his bro and few others in the family and give things a proper try ...he kind of failed at that...we didnt get to see him trying much...😔

I lost interest in the show long time ago...actually right after the famous picnic and the moment Anant become moping king and navya, his moping queen! All that crying and "sad" separation talks were just so darn boring and melodramatic. I have never liked Addam's ..errr i mean Anant's creepy family from day 1, but had to bear their creepy crappy scenes. But the writers were taking their scenes way ...and i mean WAY overboard recently with all that Sa-Gun and her Creepy sis drama. So much so that they actually sidelined Navya's side of family, the characters that were in fact interesting to watch. They forgot about Renu's side of story for the melodrama in creepsters clan.

Yeah we get it that it is a "love" centered show BUT there's no need to make it just another generic star-crossed lovers sorta "love story." Aren't there bazillion such stories on every darn channel already?
eh...the show's lost its appeal and i don't think there's any "Reset" button around either.

Ciao.😃

Originally posted by: tvdost

a beautifully written post...and I echo your sentiments totally Sajini...but alas that is the truth...fiction will always be far from reality...I mean not everyone bumps into their to be bf on the first day of college itself...and no goodlooking Anant would try to follow or stalk a timid middleclass girl who let alone say hi is even scared to look up and face the crowd...no girl who has the so called strict sanskaar go totally crazy on her picnic that she would enter a boy's room...I remember the song na na karte ...waise na na karte sab kuch kar baithi Navya ne...it does not mean these things do not happen but in dreamworld for sure it does happen this way...and the madhouse that Anant is in...can't imagine in this day and age there would be such a family and that too so many restrictions on a boy of all the people...the story could go on...but this was it in brief...

Originally posted by: smitasmita

@Shilpa--

I do agree with you on how CVs have evaded the difficult route ...but as I said earlier ...if there was no third person -- the story wud be diffenrt .

The thing is both the partners are not yet into a very strong relationship... the courage comes eventually with time as bond grows stronger..and for the people like Navi and Anant ..i didnt expect them both to open up to parents so quickly...having said that I second the fact that Anant had a chance to approach his bro and few others in the family and give things a proper try ...he kind of failed at that...we didnt get to see him trying much...😔

Originally posted by: Ramy25

I lost interest in the show long time ago...actually right after the famous picnic and the moment Anant become moping king and navya, his moping queen! All that crying and "sad" separation talks were just so darn boring and melodramatic. I have never liked Addam's ..errr i mean Anant's creepy family from day 1, but had to bear their creepy crappy scenes. But the writers were taking their scenes way ...and i mean WAY overboard recently with all that Sa-Gun and her Creepy sis drama. So much so that they actually sidelined Navya's side of family, the characters that were in fact interesting to watch. They forgot about Renu's side of story for the melodrama in creepsters clan.

Yeah we get it that it is a "love" centered show BUT there's no need to make it just another generic star-crossed lovers sorta "love story." Aren't there bazillion such stories on every darn channel already?
eh...the show's lost its appeal and i don't think there's any "Reset" button around either.

Ciao.😃