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Posted: 14 years ago
#11
woah...dat wer my points too...i reli luved ur post...& i agree...

Luv,
Juhi
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Posted: 14 years ago
#12
I don't want to see a marriage at this point...of anyone...Anant or Navya...they are seriously not ready for marriage from any angle in my opinion.

And the premise of the show is the whole struggle b/w a modern thought process and family restrictions...the college premise...what all will happen to that?? Why waste so much time and energy in shooting a song like Bekaboo and showing so much of the college friendships?? Only to saddle Navya off to be BAHURANI in that madhouse?? Which is what all shows come down to show a bahu being tortured by her creepy in-laws??

Navya already cries so much over everything...I don't even want to imagine the flood that will happen if she lands up in that loooneyhouse.

And WHAT will these two do after getting married?? Navya will cook and clean in that jail all day while Anant will be Baba in training?? YUCKSSS!


I don't know what these ppl's plans are long term for this show but I know this...I'm not interested in watching the adventures of Navya the BAHURANI.

For now, I'm watching this show for the endearing sweetness to the AN relationship and the wonderfully realistic way in which Navya's family is shown...they want family drama, they can show that with Renuka's story...

I can't even PICTURE Navya married...

Maybe they can elope if there is so much MARRIAGE pressure on Anant which doesn't seem like it will let up...but seriously if the only solution to all this is to bring NAVYA as a bahurani before Sagun can sink her claws into Anant, I'm not up for that either...I don't want to see them MARRIED...they are KIDS...then toh this will be like any other show...oh bhai ho gayi shaadi...now you all ADJUST to life after marriage...

What about them LIVING their life? Already they will be saddled with the responsibility of marriage? All this "problems with an early marriage" stuff also I'm not interested in seeing...it's gonna get sooo melodramatic...ughhh
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Posted: 14 years ago
#13

Originally posted by: supria

hi...ur posts n analysis r always so well written ...i read them n they almost leave me running short of words to post back...but today...since uve asked for options...i wud prefer any of a, b or c uve given but not d at any cost...

its sick to see these triangles n pining n doubting...there's no soap without the triangle on any channel...its sickening...to even think of sagun with ananth n navya suffering so much silently...just yesday she was so heart broken that his button that she treasured so much went missing... what cud happen to her, maybe like ritz told ananth, he cud gradually move on with sagun under family pressure, but navyas too much in love, how cud she get over it??? i want this show to really have some 'nayi soch' other than triangles...
i was actually thinking of an option (e)...AnYa calling it quits for now as is being shown n navya getting engrossed in her studies n family probs n finally getting a good job n engrossed in it...n ananth cud/cud not be engaged to bhootni banaraswali n going abt his family business as udi baba wud not give him a chance to think of further studies/ job...n somehow a lil later, AnYa paths cross n they r back to it again, this time ananth fallin for her all over again n runnin to get her...
its my wish for AnYa...just dont want purehearts like them to get into wrong relationships n marriages...hope SP gives us one different story this time...
i hope u dont not mind my adding so much...just my POV...
do keep writitng...



I really like the option you put forth! Please no marriages under any sort of pressure! AN's relationship can evolve in many ways...they don't need only MARRIAGE to get together.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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JZee 😃
Wonderful points you have put up!

Since the beginning only I havent been too comfortable with the whole Anant's shaadi drama. They could have let that be for a while. A 19 year old under family pressure? A l'le OTT.

So quite honestly, I dont want ANYONE to get married 😆
So dear CVs, if you are reading this- PLEASE stop this marriage track. It's plain stupid.

After catching a couple of shows recently on Indian tv. I'm kinda dissapointed. For those of us who stay here know that this aint the case anymore, all this baal vivah that they try to glorify but maybe people living abroad get different ideas. I dunno, it's possible!

India is coming up in a big way. The level of education and standard of living has increased multifolds. It's not like we're living in the 16th century or something. Especially the female sex, is shown to be all coy and docile, very submissive. Whereas the Indian females are now assertive, independent and strong-willed, just like their western counterparts. And this does not translate into a loss of cultural identity or trying to ape the west, rather it;'s just a balancing of both. So why cant they show THIS strong India?

Sorry lol but I just had to vent it out!




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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: supria

hi...ur posts n analysis r always so well written ...i read them n they almost leave me running short of words to post back... aww, thank you so much! it's awfully nice of you to say that (:


but today...since uve asked for options...i wud prefer any of a, b or c uve given but not d at any cost...
its sick to see these triangles n pining n doubting...there's no soap without the triangle on any channel...its sickening...to even think of sagun with ananth n navya suffering so much silently...just yesday she was so heart broken that his button that she treasured so much went missing... what cud happen to her, maybe like ritz told ananth, he cud gradually move on with sagun under family pressure, but navyas too much in love, how cud she get over it??? i want this show to really have some 'nayi soch' other than triangles...

I see your point. Although, every kind of plot at the end becomes something or the other seen and heard before, I do hope they approach this storyline with more caution than simply leveraging TRPs based off twists around every corner.
i was actually thinking of an option (e)...AnYa calling it quits for now as is being shown n navya getting engrossed in her studies n family probs n finally getting a good job n engrossed in it...n ananth cud/cud not be engaged to bhootni banaraswali n going abt his family business as udi baba wud not give him a chance to think of further studies/ job...n somehow a lil later, AnYa paths cross n they r back to it again, this time ananth fallin for her all over again n runnin to get her...

I think that would be an interesting line of thought to pursue... wonder what the CVs have in mind though! I do see articles around the forum claiming there wont be an engagement after all?! Let's see!
its my wish for AnYa...just dont want purehearts like them to get into wrong relationships n marriages...hope SP gives us one different story this time...
i hope u dont not mind my adding so much...just my POV...
do keep writitng...


Thanks for chipping in your opinions, and of course I don't mind! The entire idea is discussing our guess works!

xx
JZee
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: Love_Anant

woah...dat wer my points too...i reli luved ur post...& i agree...


Luv,
Juhi


Thanks for dropping in a line Juhi, and I'm glad you liked the post!

xx
JZee
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Posted: 14 years ago
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@ Nur and Abhi [I'm replying together because the points will be same I think (: ]

I totally see where you come from. Btw, as I was reading your post, it occurred to me, how the show has in the underlines portrayed the difference of purani and nayi soch over the precise matter. Let'snot forget, while Baba is hastening Anant's allegiance more out of skepticism that the boy will get out of hands, Daadi has had enough times of promoting Navya as marriageable age. While a whole chunk of Indian population (read: upper middle and upper strata in general) are probably no longer shackle bound in such ways, the older generations, and lower society still find issues. But Navya as a show is dealing purely with the former category - which is well off/upper middle class orthodox/old school people vs the new generation. I think in not letting these two mere 19 year olds be subjugated to the pressures of marriage and such at this point will actually promote the theme of the show, as no other means can.
It's like you said - we can't even PICTURE them married, not even to each other! Marriage should not even be on the cards for mere adolescents, and that in my opinion is the exact thought process, they need to promote as nayi soch. That the purpose of raising a girl child is not to marry her off by some randomly conceived norms and biological clock dictates! I additionally they hope they address in some manner how unfair it is that a girl becomes eligible as young as 19/20/21 at max, while boys are considered mature enough at 22/23/24. For the record, even the legal marriageable ages of males and females are different in India. Which, for all the physiological arguments one may put up, is rather prejudiced to my point of view!

Phew, long talk. Basically, like you said, I really hope we have more of the adolescence t look forward to - with or without the family drama. The prerogatives of someone at 19... the way they mature into the years, and eventually evolve as people who can bear the responsibility of having their own families and homes. While they have already portrayed a section of females through Nimisha - as those who succumb to the pressure, because they actually believe getting married will release some of the redundant shackles; or the likes of Mohan - who have resigned to their fates even as truth of their lost youth stares them in the eye; or even Renuka/Gaurav - who have struggled to become the responsible adults, that they were technically expected to become far too soon, and are coming to realize it's been in vain.
About time we get to see the nayi soch kind in Anant and Navya, individuals who are (contrary to what Baba likes to preach) the balanced middle path people, who can keep the scales level between ethics and morals, and living their life to make something worthwhile of it!
Edited by JZephyr - 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Very well said, JZee...if they get married, basically that entire debate of nayi soch v/s puraani soch will go for a toss anyways...pray tell WHAT "nayi soch" will they show with Navya BAHURANI in the looneyhouse???

For now, there is still the conflict and the drama that arises out of the pressures from the family v/s these innocent kids still in college...yes the basic desi funda obviously is that the end all and be all of life is to get married...but in this case the characters are nowhere near that stage of maturity.

Firstly I HOPE the makers of this show remember that it is illegal for a guy to get married before the age of 21 according to today's laws...CSB itna rich and phamous hai, won't ppl be aware that he's doing something illegal on THIS level??

Navya is sooo over-protected and coddled that it is impossible to even begin to imagine her to be ready to shoulder the responsibilities of being a wife and a daughter in law...WHY cant' she be allowed to be a good daughter for a while atleast?? There is enough drama coming up in her own family that they can show for a while with Renuka and all...I see no need for Navya to be married yet.

And Anant faces a whole another host of creepy pressures...in his last convo with CSB, he couldn't manage to say much beyond, "can't we put off the idea of my marriage for some time"...but seriously there need to be CLEARER convos about this...if the show is is REALLY trying to give a message of "nayi soch", then a marriage at THIS point...of ANY of these ppl is killing that so called "nayi soch" instantly.

I realize that soaps need drama to thrive on...that is what gets them ratings...but getting AN married off just to "get them together" or showing Anant getting married to Shagun under pressure...either of those things will kill the original vibe of the show...

Seriously what's the point of the title montage with a smiling Navya winking cheekily with Bekaboo playing in the back then?? They'll replace that with a Navya wearing a heavy sari with a 20 foot long ghoonghat on her head holding a pooja ki thaali then? With Bekaboo STILL playing in the bg?😕😆
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: nureat01


Seriously what's the point of the title montage with a smiling Navya winking cheekily with Bekaboo playing in the back then?? They'll replace that with a Navya wearing a heavy sari with a 20 foot long ghoonghat on her head holding a pooja ki thaali then? With Bekaboo STILL playing in the bg?😕😆


I STILL am yet to figure out the correlation b/w the initial promos and the current storyline. It just doesnt connect. For one, the bubbly and chirpy girl turned out to very servile character!


And post-marriage, you forget the- metre-long sindoor, the goddy dressing and the kekta maiya ka churaya make-up and jewellary 😆

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