Originally posted by: Survival
@Hal-e-dil
Hi Ri, missed you🤗how are u doing, this is Naj (arshisfan) from the EDT
Well I understand Avni's trauma, overcoming the childhood scars is something very difficult and she was really cornered by Vidyut, he really knew how to exploit her fears and her vulnerability back then especially since she has recently lost Neelama then, so it's not like I don't understand why she took the decisions, but it doesn't make what she did right, no matter what she should have shared things with Neil and what she did post the 10years leap seeing Neil's broken state and insisting on hiding the kid from him and never trying to comfort him or to make up for the pain to him made me sympathize more with Neil honestly.
She might have had reasons for the things she did, but that doesn't absolve her with regards to the consequences her actions had on so many lives, especially her husband's and her son's lives. And yes I had always problem with this habit of her taking decisions by her own just because she thinks these are the right decisions fogetting all the other angles to the problem and disregarding Neil's opinion and feelings, I know she doesn't mean to hurt him but she keeps doing it. Back in the past all this was overlooked because the jail track happened but I've always been of the opinion that it's a big problem in a relationship when u break your promises and do things without discussing them with your partner, Neil has forgiven her then when she went behind Mishti a day after she promised she will do nothing and he was rather guilty for bringing Juhi in their lives and making Avni go through all what she went through though we know she was also responsible for her situation, but that flaw was not adressed and she again did what she thought was right from her perspective and we can all see the consequences now
I agree u should accept ur partner the way they are and Neil accepted her wholeheartedly but there is also a fact that some flaws can be very fatal to a relationship, you need to be able to trust your partner that they won't leave u under any circumstances, that they would stick to something you agreed on, not do the opposite the next day no matter what are circumstances but given Avni's record on the matter, how can we blame Neil if he lost trust on her!
As I said and I reiterate it to everyone here, I never doubted her intentions or the extent she can go to for her loved ones but I can't either overlook some of her flaws and habits which honestly any life partner in real life would find hard to deal with.
Naj,
people call Neil all sort of things these days.
One is that he is incompetent as a police officer.
he was perfectly fine as a police officer until Avni came into his life.
After that she constantly took decisions on her own and against Neil's advice as a police officer.
Yes police officers have restrictions and limits on how they have to approach things.
There is legality and importance of evidence. and then also media and politicians.
That does not mean they are incompetent and brainless. That makes there work harder.
But any incidence be it - DVM, RM, RP, MIshti, Vidyut - Avni took decisions and actions against Neil's advice, lack of evidence and against legality.
which resulted in neil many times doing damage control just to protect her.
he got emotional just thinking about her and that is how his actions were driven in most situations.
His commissioner also warned him several times that he needs to separate his personal feelings aside from duties as a police officer.
Even what she did to Vidyut in the eyes of law is wrong because she faked her death and placed him in life imprisonment for her death. Not for Neela's death.
In real life, she would be arrested for this and undermine a trial.
But just because CVs needed to show Avni being involved in police job when she was not trained for it, they showed these unrealistic things.
They did not know what to do with Vidyut angle they showed him death.
Technically Cvs themselves do not know what to do with her faked death and legal aspects of it.
How many of us take law solely on our own hands even when we know that there can be corrupt police officers.
Neil was one of the most honest and straightforward officers.
He was forced to do damage control all the time
Edited by delhigirl - 7 years ago
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