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Yes Avni deserves Neil because she deserves a life of love after everything she has endured. There is a reason why her past haunts her so much it is because no one ever lets her forget it! Just look at it, you had Dayawanti who taunted her for years and made her life hell then along comes Ragini and Juhi and again same thing. Avni has never been able to escape the shackles from her past and when she finally puts forward an effort where does it land her? For months Neil waited patiently for Avni to open up to him, to build that trust and break down those walls around her heart and when that was finally happening Neil did the very thing Avni feared the most - betrayal! Avni flat out asked Neil do you think I killed Juhi? Neil never gave her an answer and then when Bebe asked if he believes Avni could do such a thing he said yes, keep in mind this is after he pulled off her mangalsutra and wiped off her sindoor. I want to know exactly what Avni was supposed to think in that instant? How was that not supposed to leave her scarred? When Neil's own family could not question his motives how could Avni?but what about her loved ones? for one dayavanti she had a mother in neela who always said my bacha is so strong, so brave? she had bebe, she had a father in prakash, she had a brother in DD, best friend in ali, a soulmate in neil. why their soothing words dont matter to her as much as these random XYZs?what i believe, is you get exactly what you ask for. you want happiness, you have positive vibes, you are determined to be happy and spread happiness and you get it. you think things will fall apart, so they will. is not she done with living in fear?Why should Neil one day say I am done running after her when he is the one who chased her away? Neil is aware he is the reason behind whatever Avni has endured right now, he is the one who brought Juhi into their home, he is the one who blindly trusted Juhi over a night he could not remember and he was the one who failed to protect Avni. There is a reason why Neil is so rattled with guilt right now it is because he knows he is the one who let Avni down. Avni is not to blame here, yes she can be stubborn but she in no way deserved the fate she has been dealt with. Avni has spent the last six months in jail, why? Avni committed no crime and I disagree that she did not give her all to her marriage, everything Avni did was because of her love for Neil. What wife would go to a brothel to save their husband's ex because she could not see Neil so helpless and broken? What wife would stand by their husband after learning he had a child with his ex? Avni going to save Mishti was because she thought this child belonged to Neil, she was ready to be another Neela Maa because of Neil. Why was she ready to leave when she learned Neil was given an ultimatum to arrest her? It is because she thought that would be the most difficult thing for him to do, she didn't want to put him in that position but was she in for a shock. It wasn't Neil arresting her that broke whatever faith she had in him, it was him not saying once that he believed in her innocence. I get Neil had his reasonings for not telling Avni before her arrest but what about now? How is whatever Avni going through fair? This should not be Avni running behind Neil trying to pacify him when she learns why he did what he did, it should be Neil doing whatever it takes to win back that trust he broke. It should be Neil working his hardest to ensure he fulfills all those promises made to Avni about giving her a happily ever after.
their going to goa was joint plan, bringing juhi to their house was joint plan, tkaing care of both maa beti while faily members look on uncomfortably was a joint plan. their pretendinf to have broken marriage and avni leaving, letting family think they are over and the social humiliation of a empty alter was a joint plan. what they did till it was revealed V and J were together was their joint plan, an equal share in f**ked up ness. he is guilty of two things- not saying to avni 'i dont know if u killed juhi or not i will wait for evidence' and not letting her know Viyut the creep is now lusting after her.
err didn't shweta neela avni during their convo had theis discussion that maybe juhi was lying about the kid too? then? and avni didnt do a favor by staying for the kid. neil gave her an out and she chose not to do it. on other hand she was repeatedly ready to quit the relationship cause she thought that was best for the kid. agaim, for the kid, who cares about the husband, after all his love is that fickle, he woulc love juhi again, love is fluid like that.
when i mentioned the neil being done with her that had no connection with this on going track. i simply wanted a scene so that it can jolt out avni from her stupor and makes her realize this present is what matters.
Originally posted by: delhigirl
Everyone has their choices - some favor Avni, some favor Neil and some both.
I generally favor both but lately when I look at the RM episode and when Avni made plan B with Ali after full on promising Neil that she will not, I feel more bad for Neil.Neil has always shown full love for Avni. Even on the last day before arrest he took permission from Neela. Avni does have a certain kind of disregard for both Neil and Neela, which i cannot understand.If she has had lack of trust from key people in her life, she has had unconditional love from both Neil and Neela.exactly. like i said to neela why random outsiders word has so much impact on her while loved ones words is like no effect at all? what does that say about her own psyche? food for thought, how does her family matters for her? and matters has many implications-its not like for eg. she was broken and ready to avenge ali. what about stting down with ali and have a heart to heart about his near death experience. respecting his words and what he thinks about her life. small things.and I disagree that neil has very rarely told Avni about her importance in his life. He has done that multiple times especailly in the RM track and throughout the Juhi track.i just watched all those episodes again.How he as expressed her importance, even avni has not been that vocal about it.I absolutely know she loves him a lot, just like he does.But her attitude to not heeding to anything that he says to her is also partially responsible for all her troubles.this. could not have said it better.Neil constantly blames himself for everything that Avni is going through but Avni has not been shown to reflect even once on his words that she never listens to him or acknowledge that she was equally responsible in getting Juhi liberated from the RM and her share of wrong decisions.She has never been shown to reflect once where she could have been wrong.and this is what i expect, a retrospection. but knowing the tv format i have no hope thus this discussion😆Both have been at fault, but i feel that Neil has accepted his mistakes far more than Avni ever has or will.If nayi soch is that a wife should never listen to anything that a husband says, then star plus and Cvs have done a good job of it.hahaha😆😆👏 good one.on a side note, I found all the jail scenes very boring.None of the new characters could hold my attention.Ultimately it will be only when Avni and Neil come in one frame which will attract.They are made for each other, but both including Avni has to acknowledge her flaws and try to get over her past.If she can't herself then she should allow Neil and Neela to help her do it.
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