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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: TSharan


In addition to what you wrote, here are my 2 cents...if Avni has broken her promises, then Neil has broken his promise too. He promised her a happily ever after, a fairytale life and took that all away in an instant. He gave her all the love she aspired for, a family she yearned for but publicly broke off the relationship at the most crucial juncture of her life. Avni has always been betrayed by the people she loved and trusted the most ...right from her childhood. In trying to protect her, Neil caused the biggest setback of Avni's adult life.

Avni deserves Neil and Neil deserves her. No other girl could have ever done what she did for Neil, just like no other guy would have done for Avni. They are both made for each other with their own flaws and demons. Neil had only one demon...Juhi who turned out to be a cunning woman whereas Avni's demons are many. At every stage she has had to prove herself.

I agree with Mandy, that both Neela and Neil really need to work hard to restore Avni's confidence and trust. They have their work cut out for them. If they thought finding evidence would be easy, then they are so wrong. Avni must know the truth now. Perhaps she will be more receptive to the reasoning behind Neil's intentions. But if this is prolonged, it will be harder to bring the old girl back. Avni is in jail because of Neil's error of judgement about Juhi. We got Neil's monologue today...I want to see more of that. Neil needs more patience dealing with Avni this time around. I agree she made mistakes but Avni was just trying to do the right thing for her family n husband.

We all value out freedom. That was snatched from Avni in a jiffy in the name of protection and nothing can be harsher than that. In today's episode, I was so anguished to see Avni. And I am very sure that if this jail track is prolonged too much, I won't be able to watch it! That is how well Aditi connects me to Avni's current state.

CVs better not show Avni in jail for too long!!! If they plan to prolong, let her know why Neil did it. For Avneil to have a future together, it is must. Both can take their time to rebuild the lost trust but reveal the truth to the girl! She needs to have her share of happiness.


@ Bold - Completely agree with you
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Ri, I agree that Avni lives in the past! She has been so scarred by the experiences of her childhood we can't totally blame her for it! But in this instance her accepting Neil's word for his lack of trust in her is something I have to reluctantly accept! Avni is not the sort of girl who breaks down and cries and begs someone to believe her! She could not read that message in Neil's eyes which I could, because she had a history of betrayal. Maybe not from Neil but from her own father! Her Father who believed she can kill her Mother! What worse is there? So what is this? Neil pretty much saw it with his own eyes! All the evidence was against Avni! Avni herself was going to run away, coz mostly she didn't want to put Neil in a position of choosing between her and his duty! But it seems he made that choice! His duty! He was going to resign before. But after Vidyut threatened him he couldn't even do that! He had two terrible choices and he chose the one he thought was better for Avni!

But Neil's guilt is understandable. He invited this trouble with his blind trust on Juhi! Those events finally led Avni to that hilltop where she was holding a gun threatening Juhi for a child who was related to neither her nor Neil. But to Avni all that mattered was that Mishti trusted her above all and she could not break her trust! She knows what that feels like to be betrayed by a person she trusts! But all this led to her being framed by Vidyut and Neil could find nothing to aquit her!

At this point it's not about who deserves who! They have come too far for that! But Neil's words that he will Bring her back to his life soon?I wondered at that moment, does she WANT to be in your life again? Avni aside, Ananya Verma never forgives or forgets! I don't think she wants revenge from Neil! In fact we didnt even see her thinking of Neil! She is focused on getting out and getting the man who framed her! At this moment I get how she feels! Being a Gopi Bahu and wasting her tears on a man who seems to believe she is guilty is not Avni style! Frankly she knows Neil well enough to know he will never let a person who he feels is wrongly accused be punished! So the very fact that he has let her stay in jail is a confirmation to her that he thinks she is guilty and thus deserving of her sentence! This is a very tricky one! No wrong or right! Simply perspective! Apni Apni Nazariya you see?
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Posted: 7 years ago
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wow guys beautiful writing everyone just echoed my thoughts on avneil's current situation
round of applause to all of you wonderful and sane people 👏
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Posted: 7 years ago
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In juhi track neil did many flaws which he couldn't avoid due to his implusiveness for his past love. Though his mind was clear about his future with avni still he couldn't handle whole chaotic situation maturely. This was his incapability in his relationship with avni. Here avni stood with neil always as adarsh bahu before his past.
On the other side avni always underestimated neil's capability whenever she took any decision thinking neil wouldn't understand her situation n hid from him any kind of plan she made where neil never hid anything from her thinking she wouldn't understand his problem. Avni always loved to do which neil prohibited.
For The present separation both are responsible. If neil never brought juhi n misti in their life from beginning n later if avni didn't face alone vidyut being obsessed for misti then today avneil would stay together.

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Posted: 7 years ago
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5 pg ka discussion and I didn't check for joote chappals😆 thanks for the response guys. I will reply individually soon.
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Originally posted by: Hybrid_Freak

If, in near future, Neil gives up saying he is done running after her ( a scene I forever want and actually think end her link to past) and this relationship is over from his side (cause this is from her side looking like) can we blame him?

^something that i always have wished to see in the show...its not about who loves the other more...its about letting ur past effect ur today...even though they showed trust like a ten year old couple...but still insecurity and a few matters need to be resolved for them to take the next step forward...


haha same, it will be one angsty scene and that hazaar volt ka jhatka to jolt avni back to present that this is slipping past her! This present, this life! she can't always wait for the other shoe to drop, cause it wil and then it will justify that oh it was never meant to be. you work toward a relationship, you don't run away or waiting for it to fall just to get inside your shell.



Originally posted by: -SaskatoonDan-

I completely agree with you.I really felt bad for avni after reading the reviews but I think Neil shouldn't be blamed for everything. Avni is a selfless girl and we all know that but she couldn't see the trust in Neil's eyes for her. She readily agreed that Neil never loved her after Neil held her culprit for Juhi's death. I know Avni is suffering a lot which she doesn't deserve at all but Neil is also suffering. He is penetrating hatred in a girl for himself whom he loves unconditionally. So Neil I am there with you. And I'm also in favour of Avni so guys don't run after me.😆



i chalk upto avni's selfless self to star plus bahu version cause thats what expected from trp bahu characters. but juhi track had some decisions from her side...actually even neil, i m just mind blasted neil's suffering is upto him i think, one mistake he did is letting her think he don't trust her and put her in jail, not warning her about Vidyut having tharki thoughts for her. she should know what shit is waiting for her, if i take solely avni yes, she agreed readily. i like said she never believed this relationship will stick so the moment it fell apart she was like oh, i knew it. back to my shell.

i m 80/20 on neil avni. i like her badassey but she needs to see the bigger picture.




i mistook you for another preethi of forum😆 omg preeto is that you?!!


Originally posted by: -Preeti-

I agree to most of the points mentioned but beg to differ to the fact that Avni does care for her family.

She went to RM coz she believed/assumed that Neil was still living with his past relation i.e. Juhi and thus she wanted to get Juhi back for Neil. She wanted to give him that happiness which he deserved. she could see Neil's concern and care for her but she always said to herself that it was due to "Friendship" and she was merely case 123 for him. Yes her decision was wrong but all coz of that decision she realized her feelings for Neil, she felt "Love" as an emotion which was new to her then. She fought there and believed in Neil that he would save her and thats what happened.

when i said she didn't care about family i meant she didn't care what happens to her will effect her family. that was a brothel, i dont understand why CVs didn't emphasise (or actually they did, Neil was shit scared of that place and avni being there) the horror of that place. she was there for a few days, we know in reality what goes down there. she went there with one microphone and the faith that in these days she wont be sold, be forcefully bedded by some creep, or wont be killed, neil will come for her. that's quite a presumpton and not to forget neil is just an ACP. does she know how much jurisdiction an ACP has? certianly not upto sky.

now think juhi was a good girl, bechari minus the kid nonsense. but avni has undergone the worst. now we all know neil is over juhi, imagine his plight. does this situation shows she cares about her family? they lover her- prakash bebe neela ali nanno neil. all these people love her and she run for one person. if she dies these people would be torn. does she understands that? or for her her own life's value is zero? she needs to evaluate these things.

Juhi Drama - She wouldn't have given up on Neil had it not been for Mishti. Yes she did agree for Neil Juhi marriage coz she never wanted a life for Mishti that she had as a Child. All she wanted was Mishti to have a normal and happy family. But when she had her doubts on Juhi she went on to find truth and it was then she decided to fight for Neil. Though in the course there have been too many downs and one or two ups but they did manage.


that's exactly what i was saying, why so ready to give up her life and a man who clearly loves her that much? i understand mishti is like her mini version but this is not 1990s. families exist where parents have kids and they divorce, single moms exist. neil was ready to leave for delhi, they could have a new life. and whats the point of marrying for a kid if two person in the marriage is not happy? won't that effect mishti who will see her parents dont share same level of comfort like her peers parents does? her concern was a kid who came like yesterday but what about a man she shares her soul with? zero f**ks given?

Juhi's Murder - While all the investigation was happening. All she wanted is to know if Neil trusts her. She constantly asked him only one question - "Does he feel she murdered Juhi?" And Neil just refused to look into her eyes. And that killed her. Her fear here increased. She was even ready to give test through lie detector coz all she wanted was Neil to trust her. All she wanted to hear from him is that "He trusts her" but she didn't get that. For any relation trust is the most important factor and when that trust looses its balance it becomes very hard and a necessity for the people to strive hard to save that relation for that particular time. Neil was being haunted by Vidyut and Neil's silence haunted Avni. Over this was Vidyut's challenge to Avni. He was with her but then he leaves without saying anything and she felt the need here was to prove herself innocent and that could only be possible if she runs away. In a fit of all the happenings emotions overtook both - Neil and Avni.

the one mistake neil here did was not saying this 'i am not sure what happened and you know me, i never say anything without solid proof (ali wala incident) so dont ask me anything now". funnily enough both of them acted like their character here, but again my problem is avni. the moment anything happens her first instinct is to run. what exactly she was trying to do by running here. even if she give polygraph (in bedroom btw) there are certain procedures that will happen since she was involved in the cliff wala situation. running away will make her look like a culprit. she thinks she can do a lot of things but she is not superwoman! she don't take help from people around her with authorities but can do it with the help of her criminal gangs which again, means whatever evidence she gets through them wont be valid cause criminals doing it.



Neil proved his love and is still proving it by making sure he traps Vidyut. He is guilty of not being able to save his wife whom he loved to death. On the other hand Avni is broken by this sudden events and all she knows now is that she needs revenge from Vidyut.

Am more interested to know & understand how would CV's bring Avni back to Neil. This time its Avni fighting it out and not Ananya.



the plot right now is complex. I just hoping (and won't get thats for sure😆 some introspection from avni. girl needs to chill.



Originally posted by: neeraja91

Don't agree with your assessment at all. I'm not saying avni is right in everything she's done but neither has Neil. Her motivation fir every broken promise was fairly legit from her perspective and when it wasn't it was not really avni but a character destruction by CVs.

like i said, neil has been a gadhera as well but thats a rant for another day. this is solely for avni.

But let's ignore that and take it at face value.
She went to RM because she wanted to get Neil out of his guilt. She knew he would not take a slightly offbeat or different route because he was hell bent on going by the book but time was ticking and he was dying of guilt. And she could not see Neil like that. And she did make good plans there. Just that some of them backfired mainly because she trusted Aman. If it wasn't fir Aman Neil would have got the message to postpone his raid and not got suspended or atleast she would have come out of the basement and alerted him if Aman had not drugged her

copy pasting to what i said about it another member

when i said she didn't care about family i meant she didn't care what happens to her will effect her family. that was a brothel, i dont understand why CVs didn't emphasise (or actually they did, Neil was shit scared of that place and avni being there) the horror of that place. she was there for a few days, we know in reality what goes down there. she went there with one microphone and the faith that in these days she wont be sold, be forcefully bedded by some creep, or wont be killed, neil will come for her. that's quite a presumpton and not to forget neil is just an ACP. does she know how much jurisdiction an ACP has? certianly not upto sky.

now think juhi was a good girl, bechari minus the kid nonsense. but avni has undergone the worst. now we all know neil is over juhi, imagine his plight. does this situation shows she cares about her family? they lover her- prakash bebe neela ali nanno neil. all these people love her and she run for one person. if she dies these people would be torn. does she understands that? or for her her own life's value is zero? she needs to evaluate these things



she was thinking about neil's guilt and his helplessness but he also wanted her by his side. imagine dude's plight, his ex and wife both there and he could hear through a bloody microphone that some random punk threatening his wife. and there were many many ways this could have gone wrong, horribly! bigger picture, avni!


aman was a kamina.



She never left Neil. When he disclosed the past the first thing he gave her was an out. It was when she said she'd not let go and stick by him that Neil really felt overwhelmed and accepted her proposal and confessed. The only time she offered to walk away was when she had been completely cornered and was weak in the moment. She did not just leave after writing a letter which is the route that a k serial bahu would have taken. She discussed it with him and when she saw his POV she dropped the plan

she may not have but her one foot is always out of door. during ali situation neil left the house and she was going through agnipariksha bullshit by the women, this juhi track repeatedly showed the moment she felt the pressure she is like i will leave him and he should get married to juhi. like????? in the back of her head she repeatedly is thinking oh i cant have this happiness, oh this wont stick. when you think something won't stick automatically when situation gets tough you become defeated. relationships are challenges. shit will happen but that doesnt mean its your past comng back. they will come cause they are meant to. they are tests to see how strong they are.


It was not her who suggested getting married to chuhi.it was bebe and later it was Neil who decided to go ahead with the drama to get a confession and avni very cutely said that don't get married for real


haha i forgot about bebe. no when i mention the part i meant for plan only fake marrying juhi. come on no wife will saay that even if its a plan!

She stood by Neil as much as he stood by her. When she "betrayed"him and married him by "dhoka" she was forced by neela and she was mad with revenge and Aman had to be saved. Rhea had fled, dvm was going to lootofy khannad. From all angles she felt like it was a calculated risk and she intended to anull the marriage asap. Neil himself was going to fake the narriage anyway. So if they hadn't fallen for each other and Neil had also asked her to leave she would have gone. All she said those days was ehsaan and Neil rebuked her for it saying he did it because he wanted to. So she stuck around because she got signals from Neel too that he was interested.
Until Neil avni was masked by ananya. She did not speak her heart, she was always on guard she had never had a family . She had been betrayed by family. She had served tine in prison and her adoptive mom only encouraged her to get revenge. Only thing is she suddenly woke up and realized that in all that rage avni might murder the woman who killed both her parents, snatched her childhood, her identity and family. So Neil saved her from that.
After Neil she slowly learned to open up, trust. She put him on a pedestal. Fir the first time she felt belonging and family. So when she felt like Neil was ok with their relationship since he was not asking her to leave she found a place in everyone's heart including shweta. But obviously in one year she can't let go years of baggage so she still heart of heart was a little insecure. She felt bad when she thought Neil was apologizing because chuhi asked, she was furious when she saw chuhis reality. Only thing is she knew her husband usually demanded proof for everything and he would feel betrayed by chuhis lie becauae he did love her once upon a time so shee didn't tell him immediately. Anyway he found out.

Then it was Neil who made the insane plan. Avni given past experience only had a smart backup which she wouldn't have gone through with of things had worked out. But next thing she knows she's seeing mishti being kidnapped again and vidyut has orchestrated the whole thing. This whole sequence was the most ILLOGICAL of all the illogical things CVs did but if we just go with it, avni had a gun throat in her hand by ballu. Chuhi was threatening to jump with mishti. What was she supposed to do. She would have never fired because she knew mishti was in chuhis arms. Neil had seen enough other evidence pointing to vidyuts role. But let's say vidyut destroyed proof. Even if Neel was forced to arrest her he could have reassured her that he believed her, but he was under pressure. avni would have gone to jail for him if he put in her that spot. Avnii wanted to run because she didn't want to be in jail for something she didn't do and because she didn't want Neel to be in a difficult position to arrest herr. If Neel felt like her running away would be problematic he should have confronted her and stopped it. He can read avni well. He knew what she'd do.


i am not even going the chains of sequences, thats track. let's take their decisions- the cliff drama happened and they return, avni thinks neil thinks she killed her. he being a moron stayed slient. now she thinking to run away cause she don't want to stay in jail. fair enough. but again, what position does the situation puts neil in? he is a disgraced officer who's wife is a runaway prisoner. is that better than the IPS officer arresting his wife? also, there are certain procedures. polygraph could have been done if the suspect itself wants it. again, bigger picture vs tunnel vision.

While avni was a broken soul with a bad past who had trust issues since childhood Neil was a normal boy who made an error of judgement when he believed everything his ex gf said. When he saw the trurth, instead of safeguarding his wife and t he childhe picked some insane route to tackle the situation which got avni in a fix. Now instead of explaining his position he has her believe that he does not trust her and imprisons her to"protectt"her, askss neela not to reveal the truth.
The maN who harped about communicating did not communicate his feelings to his wife who he knows is innocent!

ok here i disagree. avni's mental state is not of one that he will calmly sit down and have a heart to heart. they could have done that when they were getting ehm ehm in bedroom but eh whatver😆😛😛 was not she saying dayavanti killed juhi? her past and present was mixing. and that worried neil, he understood her state of mind right now is far away. plus the tharki Vidyut after her. thats why he made the plan. of course this jail thing is bs in itself, but again i m solely talking about avni's decisions and actions. waise bhi biwi ne konsa khaak award liya hai for communication. one day she is like i will always be there for you neil, next day she has some own plan cooking in mind. ziddi pagal kahinki😆


Thennn for 6 months he did not find any evidence so now he's doing exactly what avni did in her childhood when the system failed her...go the vigilante route. And he's hoping that vidyut will get irked by this and confess! Whaate wow.

dont think he is waiting for V to get irked. the reason for vigilantism is to eradicate evils through illegal process. eradicate, not bother and wait for the reaction. if he destroys V ka money supply ye MLAgiri bhi chut jayega. he could have taken some help from his circle itself but ok lets chalk it upto dramatization.+ this was a long time coming. during RM he saw his system is incompetent. his faith is system is long gone. we do change from childhood, evolve and expand. his core belief was always evidence, not the way to go about it.



So if we just ignore all the loopholes and CV related character destruction and take the story at face value I definitely feel like between Neil and avni, Neil's mistakes have been costlier and more damaging to Avneil than avnis. Avni doesn't need anyone to avenge her. She'll do it herself because she's not gonna just sit and watch some guy destroy her life and get away with it. She will make sure she avenges it. And I dunno if she plans to kill him but if she does and then she gets arrested she will happily go to jail now and serve her time for a crime she did commit.
So I'm sorry I am provoked to rant when you say does avni "deserve" Neil?! That's unfair
You are entitled to you POV of course but I'm not ashamed to admit that as much as I love Avneil and both of them individually if I was forced to pick a side, I'd pick AVNI always!

Buttt


haha i enjoyed the rant. even if i say they dont deserve each other doesnt mean story would change right? we can discuss and dissect, a show is made for that. i am not even picking sides, but avni's impulsiveness, tunnel vision is too glaringly obvious and not corrected for a long time. she will probbaly avenge herself, but at what cost? at what way?
Edited by .Avengers. - 7 years ago
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Posted: 7 years ago
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I just have one question.

If not Avni then who deserves Neil.?


Rhea, who never thought Neil more than a trophy to flaunt in her social circle, if there was any, and was supporting Her Family in Sucking his blood like leeches.

Or


Juhi, who wanted to "Hasil" Neil by hook or by crock even if that required using her own daughter as a bait knowing exactly where His Heart and happiness lies. Again to win some self proclaimed Race with Avni.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: Arieltabi

Riii I agree with you on this on some extent. Honestly her impulsiveness and plan B on Mishti's case irked me a lot. If she is in this condition she has no one to blame but her. She was the one who let her past affect her, she was the one who acted on impulse. Vidyut used her past cause she let him. She is hirt that Neil never trusted her but has she ever realized how Neil must have felt when Everytime he made her promise not to do something and she does exactly the same. Doesn't she always end up breaking Neil's trust. Now can she blame Neil for never trusting her when she always has broke her promise to him.


heyya sabu...na i do think neil was a gadha too but if i take only her, yes. She went about insane obsession level wrt mishti, in the past too she has but the stakes were not as high as now thanks to Vidyut. her always thinking abut past, how this happy life wont stick is the reason her insecurities develop. i cant forget she was all fine with living with her husbands ex under same roof, but didnt like when juhi may have influenced neil to apologize to her😆😆 like come on, that's insane! be consistent in your likes and dislikes.


@bold clearly my issue. if she don't trust him how can she expects him to return the same courtesy. the irony here is he trusts her too much, she thinks he doesnt. the relationship is over from her side.




Originally posted by: .IamShonali.

I think its totally unfair to time and again judge AvNeil's love for one another!

Both have done their shares of mistake and both have owned up to them. We all can see Avni is not perfect because we have gotten more than an insight of the miserable life the poor soul have had. But Neil isn't perfect either. Just because he had a perfect life, doesn't make him perfect either. He has had his own share of past, hurt and phases (yes not as major as Avni but he did).


hey shonali, neil is not perfect. if i insinuated that anywhere my bad. we have written pages in EDT about his actions so wont repeat them.

It is still subjective to say Avni had a horrible past compared to Neil. Any bystander or stranger would say this 100%. Even Neil would say that Avni suffered more than he ever did her whole life and thats a fact too. But the level of sufferings can only be defined by the person who has endured it and not the onlookers and sympathizers.

I am not going to go into what Avni did and what Neil did. I would just say they both are flawed and have done many mistakes. But whatever it was, it was for the happiness of the other or to protect their loved ones. Yes, the consequences have been major both ways. No matter how bad of a situation Avni had gotten herself in (DVM, RM) Neil has gotten her out. No matter how wrong Neil's decision of supporting Juhi was (Avni stuck through). They have been each others support all the while. Even when they didn't have to. Even when both had an option to walk away. So I will say please don't judge their love for one another.

whats the fun in not judging😛 jokes apart, the story probably made it look like avni is some superwoman who can pull off almost anything. neil is more grounded who is aware of his limilitation and probably thats why he stops her. this is one thing that compliments each other among thousands. what i expect to see (and completely ready not to see cause its a desi show where we dont talk about bad decisions of leads) is avni understanding her limitations, lets go of her past and accept her shortcomings.

And also with the CVs and team, I think we are repeating the same mistake again by just jumping to conclusions. Let them tell their story first. The leap has just started. They first need to show a buildup of everything which can take a story forward. Unfortunately in India, we only have a 20 min episode and its really hard to fit everything in, in one episode. I would say look at the bigger picture for now and then comment on the negatives of the track once you know the whole track. Team has been working really hard as we all can see. Lets cut some slack for them and let them tell their story openly.

Love and peace to all!




i didn't even comment about leap or tracks so ...



Originally posted by: Asha122

First of all i dnt understand y everyone start judging AvNeil love for each other... None of the story ll be perfect everyone ll hv there own flaws.. In the Same Avni & Neil hv there flaws they r each others support system...Avni supported Neil when ever its needed & Neil supported Avni..

Feel happy that our serial is different otherwise in other serials they should stupid MUs.. Bt atleast here they r showing some what logically and differently from others...

AvNeil both of them r nt perfect bt they love each other & they ll be together... Pls yar dnt come with up like these titles Does Neil deserve Avni or Does Avni deserve Neil??? They r made for each other & they both deserve each other...

PS: Love to all its jst i dnt like anyone questioning there love...


whoa whoa 😆😆 who wants them to be perfect. fr that we probably needs to watch ramayan, everyone is perfect there except the mother and ravan. saaf sutha show😆😆

just cause a show is different we are not supposed to discuss the leads ka pagalpanti or what? in that case this forum or any sns for this show should not exist, cause wats the point in discussion? this is unique show where we dont discuss, just thankful its different.


you culd have just avoided the topic. i did say it was a rant and i would love to discuss, discuss civilly not like this.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: docritu99

I just have one question.

If not Avni then who deserves Neil.?


Rhea, who never thought Neil more than a trophy to flaunt in her social circle, if there was any, and was supporting Her Family in Sucking his blood like leeches.

Or


Juhi, who wanted to "Hasil" Neil by hook or by crock even if that required using her own daughter as a bait knowing exactly where His Heart and happiness lies. Again to win some self proclaimed Race with Avni.


what about a third girl? completely new ? or maybe mithali?😛


asking genuinely doc, did u read the inside post or just read the title? cause the title maybe provocative but i basically ranted avni's flaws. i didn't say they should part away or something...plus as if me saying would change things, they are leads of course they would be together
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Originally posted by: ILTHBEB

In juhi track neil did many flaws which he couldn't avoid due to his implusiveness for his past love. Though his mind was clear about his future with avni still he couldn't handle whole chaotic situation maturely. This was his incapability in his relationship with avni. Here avni stood with neil always as adarsh bahu before his past.

On the other side avni always underestimated neil's capability whenever she took any decision thinking neil wouldn't understand her situation n hid from him any kind of plan she made where neil never hid anything from her thinking she wouldn't understand his problem. Avni always loved to do which neil prohibited.
For The present separation both are responsible. If neil never brought juhi n misti in their life from beginning n later if avni didn't face alone vidyut being obsessed for misti then today avneil would stay together.



i think you only understood what i meant to say.😳 behen gale lag ja🤗 but lets keep it 60/40. avni thinks she can conquer the world on her own but that's not true, i understand she had a tough past where it looks like she did alone but she didn't. neela was there, alladin, her gang of thugs. she had help. Vidyut is not the small targets she is thinking to remove, he is a gigantic monster! she needs all hands on deck but idhar to madam ko bhagne se fursat nhi🥱



Originally posted by: MrDarcyfan

Ri, I agree that Avni lives in the past! She has been so scarred by the experiences of her childhood we can't totally blame her for it! But in this instance her accepting Neil's word for his lack of trust in her is something I have to reluctantly accept! Avni is not the sort of girl who breaks down and cries and begs someone to believe her! She could not read that message in Neil's eyes which I could, because she had a history of betrayal. Maybe not from Neil but from her own father! Her Father who believed she can kill her Mother! What worse is there? So what is this? Neil pretty much saw it with his own eyes! All the evidence was against Avni! Avni herself was going to run away, coz mostly she didn't want to put Neil in a position of choosing between her and his duty! But it seems he made that choice! His duty! He was going to resign before. But after Vidyut threatened him he couldn't even do that! He had two terrible choices and he chose the one he thought was better for Avni!

but didn't neil showed many many times what he says and what he does is same? avnis biggest fear is her becoming another aisha with a ashish in life, doesnt it mean she still thinks neil has a chance to bcm ashish? how disrespectful it is no neil, the guy who put his heart and soul, 200% into this relationship?


But Neil's guilt is understandable. He invited this trouble with his blind trust on Juhi! Those events finally led Avni to that hilltop where she was holding a gun threatening Juhi for a child who was related to neither her nor Neil. But to Avni all that mattered was that Mishti trusted her above all and she could not break her trust! She knows what that feels like to be betrayed by a person she trusts! But all this led to her being framed by Vidyut and Neil could find nothing to aquit her!


bringing juhi to their house from RM, bringing mishti to mumbai was joint idea of both so... what always irritated me was she was obsessed with this kid even after knowing the kid is being used to recreate her past. she held mishti above everything.

At this point it's not about who deserves who! They have come too far for that! But Neil's words that he will Bring her back to his life soon?I wondered at that moment, does she WANT to be in your life again? Avni aside, Ananya Verma never forgives or forgets! I don't think she wants revenge from Neil! In fact we didnt even see her thinking of Neil! She is focused on getting out and getting the man who framed her! At this moment I get how she feels! Being a Gopi Bahu and wasting her tears on a man who seems to believe she is guilty is not Avni style! Frankly she knows Neil well enough to know he will never let a person who he feels is wrongly accused be punished! So the very fact that he has let her stay in jail is a confirmation to her that he thinks she is guilty and thus deserving of her sentence! This is a very tricky one! No wrong or right! Simply perspective! Apni Apni Nazariya you see?


i think the relationship from her side is over cause in her head she got her answer- yes she would never get happy ending, neil is another ashish. so there is no question of her forgive or forget or revenge. she going after Vidyut is for mishti i think. and once again that proves her single minded obsession with the kid🥱 neil has his share of redemption or pair pe girke mafi, but will avni understand where she lacked?


thanks for replying mandy🤗



Originally posted by: arshisfan

Another thing, when I mentioned about Avni reliving her past, it's not that I want her to, if it was up to me, I would have wished for nothing but undiluted happiness for her, but since CVs want it that way, getting rid of past baggage by opening the old wounds and stitching them in a better way, let it be, what matters to me is to see her in the future completely healed, I always wondered why she never took professional help, your loved ones' love and support is important, but proper treatment is also. I want her to find that peace and I want it to be unconditional, life might keep throwing tests her way just the way it does in real life, but if she is well balanced inside nothing can snatch happiness from her.


i think asking therapy for a lead that too on desi tv is preposterous😆😆 this is a country where psychology= pagalon wala kitab so...what avni can have stuck inside tv land is some self retrospection, her priorities in life. letting people in, letting go of past. self healing.


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