'Life ke sabse complicated phase mein Tum mere sath ho' : Neil Khanna

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Posted: 7 years ago
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Not more than a few weeks ago, drowning in the conundrums of Juhi and Mishti and the havoc it wreaked on his life, Neil had said one thing to Avni.

It is only because tum mere sath ho, that's why main apne life ke sabse complicated phase ko face kar pata raha Hun.'

Unfortunately for Avni, the same can't be told.
This is her life's most complicated phase since the tragedy of her childhood and when she needed Neil the most, he is not there with her.

We may know as onlookers that he has hidden ways of protecting her, but on the surface and extensively on so many levels, Avni is truly alone in this.

You cannot help but feel for the girl from the core of your heart as you look back at her selflessness not once or twice but every time, especially when Neil was threatened by the baggage of his own past. Not once did this girl leave his side, but rather only chose to give him support whenever he was in need of it or regardless.

This makes the ground all the more strong on why it will be so hard to bring back Avni after she has become Ananya thoroughly like we saw today.

Many of you have mentioned that she will be back to Avni the moment she knows from Neela or elsewhere Neil's Reason behind arresting her, but the rationale in me doesn't suggest so.

Prison changes people. Add to that betrayal from the person you love the most: even if the truth is disclosed to her she would have a valid reason to never let Avni surface again:

Who gave you the right to make my decisions for me?!'

Or

What did you get by hiding the truth from me, leaving me alone to rot in jail and believe that you ALL think I murdered Juhi?!'

That's what even I would say/do if I were here, in my utmost conscious state.

Protecting, leveraging, etc. all of it takes a backseat as a reason/excuse, because trust me, nobody has the right or audacity of deciding for you, that too taking such a BIG life changing decision for you. Not after you are legally an adult of course.

Just my thoughts.
Would love to hear yours.

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Posted: 7 years ago
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Agree 100%
Neil is trying to justify his actions by saying it is for avnis safety but in my mind he's wronged her immensely. He needs to really do some major repentance and trust building to win her back.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Agree with u both. I can't say more than this.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Yes agreed to some extent...
Avni will definitely not accept Neil as soon as she gets to know the truth... she is a human for once. And as u rightly said Prison changes people.

She will need time to accept the truth and give Neil his place back in her life... and I'm sure Neil is man enough to give her the time and space required to sink with the reality and truth.

Above all at the end... it was their unconditional and selfless love for each other which has brought them whereever they are today. So their reunion is bound to happen.

And about the line where u said "
Who gave you the right to make my decisions for me?!"

I think Avni won't get this thought bcz she knows Neil in and out as she had accepted him with all her soul... so Neil is not someone whom she will ask who gave u the right on me ? Bcz they were this ideal couple who surrendered to each other in all ways except physically 😛 so when he has done something for her sake then she will definitely understand his reason after he reveals the truth.

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Posted: 7 years ago
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Agree with u simmi.she Never leave his side in his problems.may be neil want to protect her. Unfortunately,he is the one who destroyed her. I can feel her pain. Neil's intentions is not to hurt her.but in reality its hurt her,not only hurt.its killed her.I dont know how he gonna pay for this.bcoz,he simply destroyed 6 months in her life.its not easy to bring her back. I dont know wat equation they gonna have. I dont want to lose their love.❤️💔
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Very nicely written. You said everything right. Nobody can take decision like this for you.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Couldn't agree more I hope you guys remember when avni being illegitimate truth came out infront of Khanna family and she left the house and when neil came to get her back she refused then the next day I guess before dahi handi bomb blast that scene where a group of children tie them together with a shawl in that scene avni again refuses to return back that time Neil replies that how can you decide for both of us and you yourself decide that your decision is right for us without knowing and consulting what I feel and what I want to do
This post made me remember that scene the mistake which avni did once is repeated again but this time by neil himself
That time avni took that step for Neil and now Neil is doing the same for avni and both are left heartbroken at the end

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Posted: 7 years ago
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It's strange that all are blaming Neil who has done so much for avni nd nt blaming vidyut bcz of whom avneil are in this message..great
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: Avni_reddy

Yes agreed to some extent...

Avni will definitely not accept Neil as soon as she gets to know the truth... she is a human for once. And as u rightly said Prison changes people.

She will need time to accept the truth and give Neil his place back in her life... and I'm sure Neil is man enough to give her the time and space required to sink with the reality and truth.

Above all at the end... it was their unconditional and selfless love for each other which has brought them whereever they are today. So their reunion is bound to happen.

And about the line where u said "
Who gave you the right to make my decisions for me?!"

I think Avni won't get this thought bcz she knows Neil in and out as she had accepted him with all her soul... so Neil is not someone whom she will ask who gave u the right on me ? Bcz they were this ideal couple who surrendered to each other in all ways except physically 😛so when he has done something for her sake then she will definitely understand his reason after he reveals the truth.



I get your point. But love is secondary you know. First it is about you yourself, and the pain you have borne can only be understood by you and no one else.
For a girl with scarred childhood, webs of betrayal, trust issues, this won't come easy even after she comes to know Neil's Reason of doing what he did.

From a very humanistic perspective, she would feel yet again what she is feeling now: Neil never trusted me.'
The bottom line will be that for her.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Neela and Neil should stop thinking that avni is a baby

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