Dev handling vidhi discussion - Page 3

Originally posted by: Scissor

God given mouth to speak.it depends on us whether we use it to praise someone or just abuse someone..........trust me I came from more conservative and orthodox family than vidhi........it's my good luck that I have such supportive parents.at least vidhi parents let her meet prospective groom in my society girl and boy can see each other face properly after marriage only.......

Still I am not agree with your support for HP.sorry I can't defend him❤️

Happy for you❤️

I totally respect disagreement when people share in such respectful manner.

I am not saying he is 100% right but may be he is more terrified for her safety , ijjat because he can see she looked physcially alright but what if dev wasn't there it wasn't a good sight . Unonscious girl who even in her senses forgets routes what could have happened with her even that though sends shivers to anybody so my point is he was terrified for what could have happened and took it on dev

Originally posted by: SanchiIndu

See here we are talking about how Dev's character has been shown

He cared when amba closed the door in office, he cared what his subordinates think , than asked vidhi to keep it a secret khau gali

So either he started liking her so didn't think much about it or careless immature act on his part

No One can deny that he is really attracted towards her.there is some level of comfort develop when your families get involved. Immature and dev not possible? Comfortable with her it's true and secondly vidhi throwed some hints that she likes him or she trusts him alot.

Originally posted by: tandra_d

You're absolutely right in bringing up this comment that in reality it would make more sense to bring a female employee to tag along with gin. However, he is also aware of how the other employees are. In the past, they made fun of Vidhi (put glue on her chair, made her believe Dev was married to someone else and etc)..so it wasn't natural for him to take someone with him that puts him in a stronger position.

Furthermore, others were equally drunk. I didn't thought from this point of view , agreed it can be the reason but when one girl handed over glass of water to vidhi she looked sober but ya it's party night so it might be a possibility

So perhaps he didn't think it'd be a good idea as it'd make things worse in front of HP. At least, Dev knows how the father is and how to handle him in a mature manner.

He overestimated their trust and didn't thought from a father's pov

In Dev's defense, they did portray HP trusts Dev. HP even wrote a letter to get Dev's opinion about Vidhi's marriage and that alone says a lot about the respect HP gives to Dev. So I think Dev knew that HP wouldn't get mad if he brings Vidhi himself (and not bring a female friend along).

But situation do change people's opinion they respect him because there were no conflicting situation he didn't know how will they react on such situation

That's my thoughts of course. And the way HP reacted today is 100% justified. Seeing your daughter in someone's arm in the middle of the night while she is drunk is not any father's dreams..so I'm with him on this one.

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Originally posted by: Telly_Addict

They belong to a place which is way to conservative for the society they are in.. and just they belong to that society i dont think society would change for them and get more conservative..

Its her parents who should learn to walk with time.. as Dev said clock teaches you to change with time. so they have to learn to be progressive...otherwise it wil just ruin that innocet girls life.

Agree but change doesn't come। overnight they accepted and supported her in job , in mba, when she went to khau gali with dev , when Arjun came home .

But it was too much to handle😒

Second..

but do you really feel HP was terrified for his daughter.. i really doubt.. he was terrified for his reputation, his abhiman...

See you are right his daughter's safety comes first but if she gets harassed in such condition when she can't protect herself or ask for help , won't it affect her mentally or physically. There are so many horrific incident happens, though i agree it can happen anywhere but vulnerable girl who easily forgets routes even in consciousness can become anyone's target not some road side Gunda but it can be from her office to anyone present there.

I concluded he was terrified of what could have happened to her

Because he could see she was alright but no matter how much you respect and trust some outsider it isn't a pleasing view what HP saw

did he once hold Vidhi with concern after Dev handed her over to Vimla.. No.

All HP was doing was shooting lasers from his eyes.. he had no cncern for vidhi, no worry abt her wellbeing.. he was Angry seeing A middle aged man holding his daughter that close.. but he never asked Dev anything.. ke ye kyu hua.. Vidhi ki tabiyat theek hai, use doctor ke to nahi le jana... no way.

he wasnt Terrified for his daughter.. he was terrified for his reputation, ke ghar ki ladki bigad gayi bahar nikal ke.

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and believe no matter what you say.. I just cant find HPs behavior acceptable while handling Vidhi in that vulnerable situation....

He was wrong in so many ways before this incident but yesterday I thought his anger was justified

Originally posted by: Scissor

No One can deny that he is really attracted towards her.there is some level of comfort develop when your families get involved. Immature and dev not possible? Comfortable with her it's true and secondly vidhi throwed some hints that she likes him or she trusts him alot.

Immature in the sense he didn't thought how would it look if she is hovering around him hugging him in such condition, we could see she needed someone to hold her all the time until they reach her home.

I do like the serial but I am just thinking if it would happen in real life how it will look ? And how people will perceive it won't there be rumours or if somebody clicks his picture with her her reputation is at stake

Originally posted by: banhi2021

HP,s behaviour is like ...he has kept one body guard(Dev) for Vidhi who will always be with his daughter. Dev has done hell lot of things for Vidhi and her family...If you are a mature person you first think about your daughter...misbehaving with Dev is never be acceptable.

What i understood is he got angry because he saw them in such condition. You get more hurt if you trust that person more. You think everything they did or do has some ulterior motive

It's not about being body guard if he asked her parents that he will take care for her than he must keep his promise

Originally posted by: Telly_Addict

belive me he trusted Amba cause it gave him a chance to cancel his own perception of Dev eyeing Vidhi..

the way he was looking at Dev n Amba am dman sure he was thinking them as a couple and cause Amba defended Dev he was like acha matlab agar inhe sab sahi lag raha hai to sahi hi hoga

he is a weak minded person.. who changes his stance based on popular opinion around or based on his own comfort.. he allowed Vidhi for job when his friends supported the idea of a girl working.. agar unhe khud decision lena hota to shayad kabhi haan nahi bolte...

He was angry at dev because there was no one else। Who knew if dev did all this or dev let it happen than was going with vidhi , how one can be sure if he was taking her home or somewhere else

P.s. i like this serial and know dev is gentleman but we are talking whether what happened was right or wrong according to general percerptuon in life if such situations occur