Dev handling vidhi discussion

See first of all please don't take it otherwise I just wanted to discuss after party scene, when dev is handling vidhi

From my POV in the party vidhi was dancing and collided into dev and he handled her it was okay looked okay, he let her sit that was okay too but after party when he decided to drop vidhi shouldn't he have asked any female employees with him . We all know that only dev can handle her parents but if any female employees was vith vidhi it wouldn't have looked that bad.

When I saw precap or previous scene when vidhi's father took decision on her behalf it seemed wrong but today any father who comes from very conservative background sees his daughter in arms of some man, who is holding her and she is wearing some odd dress. Anybody would get angry and terrified also , today's time girls are not safe even at workplace, harasser can be someone someone from her office circle who could have taken advantage of her situation. So HP anger is justified.

Dev might like her we are not sure though, but he should have asked any female employees to accompany him. It would have looked responsible and mature action. He was helping her in everything even when he was about to drive vidhi needed someone to care . Not amba or Kanika anyone else. Please don't throw hate comments but to me it looked very odd when man who isn't close to the girls touches her especially when she is unconscious. She couldn't give consent and it wasn't like there was no one else to help. So he had to . Vidhi loves him that's another thing but owner handling an intern in such way would definitely create lots of drama , rumours and negative perception towards the girl and men. Even if the owner has nothing wrong in his mind to me it looked bad.

P.S. I just want a healthy discussion....

Originally posted by: SanchiIndu

See first of all please don't take it otherwise I just wanted to discuss after party scene, when dev is handling vidhi

From my POV in the party vidhi was dancing and collided into dev and he handled her it was okay looked okay, he let her sit that was okay too but afer party when he decided to drop vidhi shouldn't he have asked any female employees with him . We all know that only dev can handle her parents but if any female employees was vith vidhi it wouldn't have looked that bad.

When I saw precap or previous scene when vidhi's father took decision on her behalf it seemed wrong but today any father who comes from very conservative background sees his daughter in arms of some man, who is holding her and she is wearing some odd dress. Anybody would get angry and terrified also , today's time girls are not safe even at workplace, harasser can be someone someone from her office circle who could have taken advantage of her situation. So HP anger is justified.

Dev might like her we are not sure though, but he should have asked any female employees to accompany him. It would have looked responsible and mature action. He was helping her in everything even when he was about to drive vidhi needed someone to care . Not amba or Kanika anyone else. Please don't throw hate comments but to me it looked very odd when man who isn't close to the girls touches her especially when she is unconscious. She couldn't give consent and it wasn't like there was no one else to help. So he had to . Vidhi loves him that's another thing but owner handling an intern in such way would definitely create lots of drama , rumours and negative perception towards the girl and men. Even if the owner has nothing wrong in his mind to me it looked bad.

P.S. I just want a healthy discussion....

🤣you missed that all ladies didn't come forward to save her from embarassment. All were enjoying her tamasha.girl it's true whatever u mentioned above but I have ample of examples where boys are more helpful than girls.its depend on ideologies and background you came from.some years ago if I had mentioned any boy name my parents ear get stand easily and nowadays I says lots of boys name and weird scenario going on in society they will just brush it off.even I get amazed by their so much openness 🤣 now they literally asked me is everything fine.why don't you have any boyfriend 🤣🤣what had u done in your life🤣

hmm good point you have raised and hope we get a good healthy discussion out of it.. and a long reply ahead.

I think Dev overestimated HPs trust in him.. cause till few days back HP was all about Dev sir aap sab kuch sahi karte hai. So Dev was like as long as i take her home safely her dad wont doubt his intentions and will be understanding what transpired.

second.. it was his badluck that Vidhi's parents reached there at the moment which was the worst from a dad perspective.. till that time all Dev was doing was pulling her to make her sit in car, and she was circling around.

lastly Dev couldn't trust other female employees (be it Anaya or Amba or Kanika) even we saw it was Kanika who called her parents.. and Dev saw everyone enjoying the moment when Vidhi was embarrassing herself.. so Dev just couldn't trust anyone And then Dev dint expect her parents to be there... so he thought as long as he can bring her home he will convince her parents..

it was a bad day for Vidhi and hard luck for Dev and bad intentions of Kanika and Yogesh.

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Now something abt Hariprasad..

So it wasnt wrong for HP to behave the way he did.. but not trusting her own daughter was WRONG.

his own statement kya hua, kyu hua, kaise hua mujhe farak nahi padta kyuki nateeja mere samne hai.. like your daughter is so vulnerable and drunk and instead of asking her "Beta tu kaisi hai, kya hua tujhe.. are chot to nahi lagi" with zero empathy for her he had just anger in eyes for witnessing Dev n Vidhi... he had ZERO trust in Vidhi..

on the way too he was like mera abhiman thi ye ladki but aisa karegi maine nahi socha tha... like why he dint even think to ask her what happened ? Why she wore the dress? why she drink alcohol?

he was like the Judge who declared his decision without even listening to the parties involved why things happened this way.

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So HP needs to trust his upbringing, his daughter.. a kid never does wrong cause they want to.. they go on wrong path cause they find theit parents not trusting them enough to be able to share whats bothering them and then people outside manipulate them and take advantage of them.

Parents arent owner of their Kids... they are their guardians.. and kid needs trust n unconditional support

Originally posted by: Scissor

🤣you missed that all ladies didn't come forward to save her from embarassment. All were enjoying her tamasha.girl it's true whatever u mentioned above but I have ample of examples where boys are more helpful than girls.its depend on ideologies and background you came from.some years ago if I had mentioned any boy name my parents ear get stand easily and nowadays I says lots of boys name and weird scenario going on in society they will just brush it off.even I get amazed by their so much openness 🤣 now they literally asked me is everything fine.why don't you have any boyfriend 🤣🤣what had u done in your life🤣

I agree they all were enjoying on vidhi's expense but he is boss he can order any employee to accompany him and handle vidhi . One girl seems her friend now a days who offered a glass of water to vidhi.

Our pPOV is based on our upbringing and environment we live in so from my POV if my boss handles any girls like that sure there would be lot of rumours he is also 50+ and you won't believe when he asked me to do some work instead of male employee everyone was like why you? They didn't question our character but it's like we are almost in same situation he is head of the office and I am junior employee with almost same age gap. So evenn if he says any work directly to me people keep passing remarks like you are his favourite now .

Vidhi's parents do belongs to a place where this isn't appreciated when a man is so close to the girl who is intoxicated. Even in general if any parents see their daughters in some men's arm at 1 am in such conditions they will feel terrified for their daughter

Originally posted by: SanchiIndu

he is also 50+

just a correction. he is 45 years exactly Dev here

Originally posted by: Telly_Addict

hmm good point you have raised and hope we get a good healthy discussion out of it.. and a long reply ahead.

I think Dev overestimated HPs trust in him.. cause till few days back HP was all about Dev sir aap sab kuch sahi karte hai. So Dev was like as long as i take her home safely her dad wont doubt his intentions and will be understanding what transpired.

second.. it was his badluck that Vidhi's parents reached there at the moment which was the worst from a dad perspective.. till that time all Dev was doing was pulling her to make her sit in car, and she was circling around.

lastly Dev couldn't trust other female employees (be it Anaya or Amba or Kanika) even we saw it was Kanika who called her parents.. and Dev saw everyone enjoying the moment when Vidhi was embarrassing herself.. so Dev just couldn't trust anyone And then Dev dint expect her parents to be there... so he thought as long as he can bring her home he will convince her parents..

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I agree they all were enjoying on vidhi's expense but he is boss he can order any employee to accompany him and handle vidhi . One girl seems her friend now a days who offered a glass of water to vidhi. Even if they didn't care about vidhi they would have handled her better.like holding her when she can't stand her ground. Generally if there is another girl with vidhi it would have made good impact on her father also if anyone saw them in such conditions vidhi's reputation would have been spoiled while she was hugging him and too close

Another perspective is that dev was so concerned about vidhi and her family that he didn't thought what society and his employee will think about their equation. Otherwise he was shown as someone who cared too much when amba closed the door in office.

it was a bad day for Vidhi and hard luck for Dev and bad intentions of Kanika and Yogesh.

.

Now something abt Hariprasad..

So it wasnt wrong for HP to behave the way he did.. but not trusting her own daughter was WRONG.

his own statement kya hua, kyu hua, kaise hua mujhe farak nahi padta kyuki nateeja mere samne hai.. like your daughter is so vulnerable and drunk and instead of asking her "Beta tu kaisi hai, kya hua tujhe.. are chot to nahi lagi" with zero empathy for her he had just anger in eyes for witnessing Dev n Vidhi... he had ZERO trust in Vidhi..

on the way too he was like mera abhiman thi ye ladki but aisa karegi maine nahi socha tha... like why he dint even think to ask her what happened ? Why she wore the dress? why she drink alcohol?

he was like the Judge who declared his decision without even listening to the parties involved why things happened this way.

.

So HP needs to trust his upbringing, his daughter.. a kid never does wrong cause they want to.. they go on wrong path cause they find theit parents not trusting them enough to be able to share whats bothering them and then people outside manipulate them and take advantage of them.

Parents arent owner of their Kids... they are their guardians.. and kid needs trust n unconditional support

I do agree parents needs to be supportive but sometimes when you see that your child is in bad condition and you told them to be cautious so many times you get angry , it doesn't mean one doesn't care about their child but sometimes even we get angry over our loved ones when we see them suffering because of something we previously warned them not to do. He saw she is safe and sound but something bad happened or not someone didn't misbehave with her or not is not clear until she gets her senses back and he might be too worried about that.

He has shown too kuch trust in dev just like our parents sometimes trust our teachers most but dev should also understand that she comes from very conservative family and if she is on the road with a man in such condition no father would be happy no matter how much trust they show it's respect gratefullness more than trust what i understood. From someone very wealthy family and still down to earth who made their daughter's career and

Originally posted by: Telly_Addict

just a correction. he is 45 years exactly Dev here

I was telling about my boss ...that even if he is 50+ people do talk about him if he gives even a little importance to someone (junior female employee)

Okay got it you are telling Dev's age☺️

Originally posted by: SanchiIndu

I was telling about my boss ...that even if he is 50+ people do talk about him if he gives even a little importance to someone (junior female employee)

Okay got it you are telling Dev's age☺️

ok ok got it.. my bad

Originally posted by: SanchiIndu

I agree they all were enjoying on vidhi's expense but he is boss he can order any employee to accompany him and handle vidhi . One girl seems her friend now a days who offered a glass of water to vidhi.

Our pPOV is based on our upbringing and environment we live in so from my POV if my boss handles any girls like that sure there would be lot of rumours he is also 50+ and you won't believe when he asked me to do some work instead of male employee everyone was like why you? They didn't question our character but it's like we are almost in same situation he is head of the office and I am junior employee with almost same age gap. So evenn if he says any work directly to me people keep passing remarks like you are his favourite now .

Vidhi's parents do belongs to a place where this isn't appreciated when a man is so close to the girl who is intoxicated. Even in general if any parents see their daughters in some men's arm at 1 am in such conditions they will feel terrified for their daughter

If someone feel terrified with rumors then I can't say anything.........because I never backout just because people talking about me I just even get more close to that person .peer will talk for 3 months or 3 years after these rumors dies slow death.and trust me I have many such persons who even admire me for my decisions

Originally posted by: SanchiIndu

I was telling about my boss ...that even if he is 50+ people do talk about him if he gives even a little importance to someone (junior female employee)

Okay got it you are telling Dev's age☺️

God given mouth to speak.it depends on us whether we use it to praise someone or just abuse someone..........trust me I came from more conservative and orthodox family than vidhi........it's my good luck that I have such supportive parents.at least vidhi parents let her meet prospective groom in my society girl and boy can see each other face properly after marriage only.......

Still I am not agree with your support for HP.sorry I can't defend him❤️