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priyanwada

@priyankumupal

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Posted: 13 years ago

#51

I'm a huge believer in the Sabina and Vaibhav, it was really sad for me that Vaibhav got married to Devki. Still I think if Vaibhav went ahead and got married, he needs to maintain that relationship with the utmost faith.

No one forced him to marry, as in if he really wanted to be missing and loving Sabina, he could have done that too. He chose to get married on the rebound. The way he is suffering in her memory now, he could have done that while being single. No need to drag someone else in to ruin their life. Devki frankly deserves better.

I don't agree though that love isn't important. Its a reason for living for most people. Love comes before everything else, it sure comes before business. Please don't insult Vaibhav and Sabina's love as useless. That too had people who admired it. As for Sabina abandoning the basti kids, we don't know if she left them. She's not their warden, she's just does social work for them. She can have another life

Anyway Vaibhav really needs to get a grip and stand by his decisions. If he got married to Devki, he has to remember Sabina as the sweet memory of his first love and try to move on in life. If he cannot do that, then he is a cheat. Actually he is already a cheat, hurting Devki in his drunk state talking of Sabina. Emotionally he is cheating on her.

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Anmol Jain

@intruderfast

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Posted: 13 years ago

#52

once vv siad to d khuddari kabhi aankon kii patti nahin banni chahiye

even love should not make one blind to other reations

if iit does i say dont fall in love

call me old school, but i treat marriage as very serious business

i would have sympathised with vv had he been forced into this marriage

i hate when ppl dont take marriage srsly

he was never, it was his decison in the end

he had every right to not marry a person he did not love and stay single and drown himself in sabina memories

but he chose to marry devki, he told her he will never be able to love her but did he put a condition that if i want i will leave u anytime and go to another lady , no

he has married devki, he has responsibilities towards her, he cant escape from it

its another thing that devki will not mind it a bit

and even imv exposure of whole sabina mess would lead to nothing

yaa he can accuse imv for keeping sabina out from his life

but imv said yes i did manipulate her but u went to her , but also she lied to u ,she could never confess u the truth

he will say sabina came to mandap, and then left herself, i did not make her leave (which is true)

imv will say ok i did keep u away from sabina but abt marrying devki, u cannot blame me

for that, his father never forced him to marry devki,

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sonali.19281

@sonali.19281

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Posted: 13 years ago

#53

@Paaji: I said the EXACT same thing.. 😆in my post.. S ran away in the scene when VV asked her to marry him. .WHY.. IMV blackmail came muchhh later.. even when in tht van D came to meet her.. she had made up her mind.. to not reciprocate to Vs proposal.. coz she saw it unfeasible.. and she saw tht VV wld have to give up a lot..

and YES.. any sentiment that BLINDS you from your responsibilities towards your family.. and others is doomed from the very beginning coz tht sentiment doesnt have the power to nurture.. it will only destroy things on the way.. Sabina jitna bhi irritating ho.. at least her mind was in the right place with what she did not want.. also after knowing everything if V runs to S.. wld S accept him.. wld she like to live with the burden of being responsble for the disharmony in Virani family.. for Ds pain.. she herself said her love is not tht selfish.. most ppl cant see Sabina for her convictions although they claim to love her.. S isnt all abt LOVE either..😉

Charu said the same to VV.. no one FORCED YOU to get married.. she will be so pissed at the compromise condition he put in front of D.. he is gearing up to hear from her big time😆 and what EXPOSE IMV man.. master found out.. so what.. its not like they dont expect IMV to do it.. besides VV has no right to question IMV.. when it comes to Sid and Nirali he agrees with IMVs course.. but for himself he expects exception.. puhleez.. I am gonna make a post this evening like I said. .

IMV stands for what he believes in.. where as the others sway either ways for convenience.. as he very clearly told master.. itna shaukh hain nyay ka to karo.. par know tht yer justice to one will only be unfair to the other.. so chose your battles.. know who or what you stand for..😊

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Anmol Jain

@intruderfast

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Posted: 13 years ago

#54

ur a fan of salman sonali😆😆😆kyaa choice hain😆
imv exposure will lead to nothing , jitnaa vv blame karega usse jyaada imv blame karega uskoo😛
charu toh jamkar lagaayegi , she will feel so betrayed , uske bday ke din vv ne promise kiyaa tha

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sonali.19281

@sonali.19281

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Posted: 13 years ago

#55

Originally posted by: intruderfast
ur a fan of salman sonali😆😆😆kyaa choice hain😆
imv exposure will lead to nothing , jitnaa vv blame karega usse jyaada imv blame karega uskoo😛
charu toh jamkar lagaayegi , she will feel so betrayed , uske bday ke din vv ne promise kiyaa tha

Salman is like my first crush ever...😆 and well for once me n my bro liked the same girl-sonali bendre.. pretty she is.. and they made such a good looking pair in this movie.. and cute they were.. like VD😆underplayed romance.. sucker for those

IMV exposure will defo not do anything.. only person who will be a lil surprised is D.. rite now VV is at the receiving end with d compro marriage deal out😆 waat hain uski.. bada kaha tha he wont betray D..

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dolly

@tiny15

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Posted: 13 years ago

#56

Originally posted by: sonia77
Tiny ...dont you think its better to walk out rather than living in a forced relationship?.where your husband cant love you...and in this case worst so because he is madly in love with someone else!!...things are fast changing now...and the Viranis are pretty much portraying India's high society where extra marital affairs and divorce has become common unfortunately!...and i think this is exactly what they will show...as vaibhav will move out and sabina will finally accept him...i dont see why devaki should stay in a marriage of compromise!...and why vaibhav should not get an opportunity with the woman he loves...and lost for no fault of his whatsoever!...
More than anything else i would like to see IMV exposed and run down...they should stick to that theme. and connect the two maybe...but ya..for sabina vaibhav lovers..their track would be a treat...😊...and even if its for a bit it will be nice to in the least see them get an opportunity to be together...because they never really got that..did they?...we saw them meet..fall in love...and over!...nothing in between...so that track is due..😊..yes devaki is lovely..i would so like to see her with someone who loves her..having said this i do feel the triangle will be ongoing as it will add masala tto the show..which i suppose they need for trp's...

sonia though i agree that no1 shud live in a forced marriage but once wen u'd decided 2 get married after knowing then its better 2 stick wid the marriage.V wasn't forced 2 marry D. he cud'd opted out of it after S left her due 2 IMV's manipulations!!!he cud'd easily chose 2 back out of the marriage & had said 2 IMV that he can't luv D as isn't able 2 4get S but now he can't. if things start happening like this then i think divorce rate"ll shoot up in India !!

@bold i wud also like rather luv 2 see IMV exposed & humiliated.though i also want D wid the prsn who luvs her but its better that V starts luving D & its still not betrayal 2 S.if he can't 4get S then 2 it doesn't mean he can't luv D!!😊

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Anmol Jain

@intruderfast

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Posted: 13 years ago

#57

Originally posted by: sonali.19281

Salman is like my first crush ever...😆 and well for once me n my bro liked the same girl-sonali bendre.. pretty she is.. and they made such a good looking pair in this movie.. and cute they were.. like VD😆underplayed romance.. sucker for those

IMV exposure will defo not do anything.. only person who will be a lil surprised is D.. rite now VV is at the receiving end with d compro marriage deal out😆 waat hain uski.. bada kaha tha he wont betray D..

its really wierd how so much our likings match

salman sonali r one of my fav jodi, i have watched hssh so many times just to watch that pair

yeah me too a sucker for these shy awakward type of romance, they have their own charm

or maybe i too suck at expressing myself thats why i so connect to these sharmila pairs

😆

vv kii full vaat hain , and i am loving it, at this point of time i feel no sympathy also for him😡

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sonali.19281

@sonali.19281

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Posted: 13 years ago

#58

Originally posted by: intruderfast
its really wierd how so much our likings match
salman sonali r one of my fav jodi, i have watched hssh so many times just to watch that pair

yeah me too a sucker for these shy awakward type of romance, they have their own charm

or maybe i too suck at expressing myself thats why i so connect to these sharmila pairs😛😆

vv kii full vaat hain , and i am loving it, at this point of time i feel no sympathy also for him😡

u kidding me😆.. last nite I was catching this movie online.. I ffed only to watch their parts🤣.. the movie got over in 30 mins😆.. but yup I get what you mean.. I talk a lot.. but I cant be romantic either.. In fact I make faces if anyone says anything mushy around me🤣 n they know something sarcastic is on their way..😆 n fact tht both of us like VD says we like subtlety..😉

@ bold: same here..ghost of kicks dont listen to talks.. baaton ka waqt gaya.. Charu samne se maregi.. IMV ki maar dikhegi nahi par sabse zyada lagegi😆 D is here to stay in the Virani household.. either VV pulls up his socks or dies..😛

P.S par mujjhe koi pratham nahi mangta.. besides.. maybe they dropped tht idea.. and decided to merge pratham and VV in VV.. 2 in one😆 cute bhi.. lekin loser loverboy bhi..1 month tak is loverboy ne pakaya hain.. apni khayalo ki mallika ke saath.. time for cute and mature businessman and husband VV to resurface now

Edited by sonali.19281 - 13 years ago

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koolsadhu1000

@koolsadhu1000

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Posted: 13 years ago

#59

Originally posted by: tiny15
@kools though i don't agree wid ur posts on IMV & abt S & v luv etc. but i agree abt Marriage no luv is greater than it!!
though i always wanted S wid V but now both V & D r married so atleast V shud remain wid her. i agree its not easy 2 4get ur luv even if its only 1month old or 3yr.old but wen u'd accepted the marriage then theres no need 2 run after the past!

but i also disagree abt S didn't teach V anything!! if we'd seen MB then i alway found V as alittle version of IMv barring IMV's cunningness & evilness in the name of business!! and defntly S'd taught V 2 live life 2 fullest!! he wasn't shown havng any school or college frnds so we can assume he was frndless till he met S & even he doesn't know abt luv & it was also taught him 2 by S.

and i agree wid baapu that IMV can't b able 2 do anything if any of 3 decides 2 do anything & hes rt. that IMV will get hit by that "laathi' which doesn't've sound but hit wid full force & i m waiting 4 that 2 happen.

i 2 wants 2 revolve this show more on business stories & less on luvstories!!but i also want IMV 2 lose everytime 2 one or 2 the oder prsn. it"ll really make tracks & show interesting!!

@sonia though i agree abt S &V but i don't think its rt 2 think or want 2 D 2 go out of the marriage & i don't think CVs"ll ever do it!!and if they do then its not rt thing 2 do!!

dolly , see . meri soch aisi hai :

Love Bove is fine till u marry . Marraige is a big commitment , with promises made in front of GOD and society . It ain't a joke . U may have 10 affairs before the marraige , once u marry , they cease to have ANY meaning . U gotta focus on making ur spouse happy . Or divorce her set her free and do what u want ...no problem . Lekin by staying married u cannot tell ur spouse Hey I wont touch u , I bwill treat u like guest and Sigh on my former crush in my dreams. This is not respecting marraige .

Shaadi ki hai toh theek tarah se nibhao .

Love etc dismiss karna hi padta hai . Yeh sab shaadi ke pehle theek hai , shaadi karne ke baad woh kuch maayne nahi rakhta . Your earlier loves and crushes r secondary . Best tossed out .

Vaibhav shud not have married then . Yeh farce karne ki kya zaroorat thi . If ur SO committed , so truthful to a one month affair in which the lady never said YES even once to u and all u had was her eye expressions { according to him } then show guts to tell family I am NOT marrying for LIFE if she cannot be my life partner. Bas , baat khatam .Koi Force nahi kar sakta ...na father , chahe kitna bhi boora ho , Na mother . Stay unmarried . I have seen many guys like that .

But if u marry , Nibhao . Then u gotta consummate , Have children , give other sukhs etc etc . Otherwise marraige becomes like bitter karela and one spouse withers away like an unwatered plant .{ His own parents for example . Still mind u , IMV did consummate , have 3lovely children and was a good provider . Since it was arranged marraige she did not demand love etc for liong time . but later , after years of companion ship she DID . nd hence the unhappiness .}

Lekin this marraige is turning out to be even more awful . He is drinking , full day doing sabina sabina like Devdas etc ...Seedhe bol do wife ko , You GO . Better this way .

I dont like playing around with institution of marraige . My mother always said ...Ishq Vishq TILL marraige is ok , After marraige , ONLY life Parter shud be best friend and ur sol;e purpose Or responsibility .

Love shud not be over hyped and this is what Vaibhav is doing . Aise bahut affairs hote hai , itni ehmiyat dene ki kya zaroorat ? All this is in mind only ...these r mind games . One gotta get a grip . Mee khayalat thode poorane hai .😊

Edited by koolsadhu1000 - 13 years ago

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mbloves

@mbloves

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Posted: 13 years ago

#60

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Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

dolly , see . meri soch aisi hai :

Love Bove is fine till u marry . Marraige is a big commitment , with promises made in front of GOD and society . It ain't a joke . U may have 10 affairs before the marraige , once u marry , they cease to have ANY meaning . U gotta focus on making ur spouse happy . Or divorce her set her free and do what u want ...no problem . Lekin by staying married u cannot tell ur spouse Hey I wont touch u , I bwill treat u like guest and Sigh on my former crush in my dreams. This is not respecting marraige ....very nice👏👏

Shaadi ki hai toh theek tarah se nibhao .

Love etc dismiss karna hi padta hai . Yeh sab shaadi ke pehle theek hai , shaadi karne ke

Vaibhav shud not have married then . Yeh farce karne ki kya zaroorat thi . If ur SO committed baad woh kuch maayne nahi rakhta . Your earlier loves and crushes r secondary . Best tossed out .

, so truthful to a one month affair in which the lady never said YES even once to u and all u had was her eye expressions { according to him } then show guts to tell family I am NOT marrying for LIFE if she cannot be my life partner. Bas , baat khatam .Koi Force nahi kar sakta ...na father , chahe kitna bhi boora ho , Na mother . Stay unmarried . I have seen many guys like that .

But if u marry , Nibhao . Then u gotta consummate , Have children , give other sukhs etc etc . Otherwise marraige becomes like bitter karela and one spouse withers away like an unwatered plant .{ His own parents for example . Still mind u , IMV did consummate , have 3lovely children and was a good provider . Since it was arranged marraige she did not demand love etc for liong time . but later , after years of companion ship she DID . nd hence the unhappiness .}

Lekin this marraige is turning out to be even more awful . He is drinking , full day doing sabina sabina like Devdas etc ...Seedhe bol do wife ko , You GO . Better this way ....agree

I dont like playing around with institution of marraige . My mother always said ...Ishq Vishq TILL marraige is ok , After marraige , ONLY life Parter shud be best friend and ur sol;e purpose Or responsibility ...👏👏👏

Love shud not be over hyped and this is what Vaibhav is doing . Aise bahut affairs hote hai , itni ehmiyat dene ki kya zaroorat ? All this is in mind only ...these r mind games . One gotta get a grip . Mee khayalat thode poorane hai .😊....no dear..."..i appreciated" 👏👏

i am so happy... ki aaj ki generation apne parents ke khayalat ko purana nahi manti,, mein bhi nahi...poorane khayalat hi indian culture ki pehchan hai...aur future bhi, esko kehne main koi sharm nahi...hey👍🏼👍🏼 "kool1000".👍🏼👍🏼.."hats off "dear.👏...👏...👏.👏very brilliant answer... dil kush ho gaya...tusi great ho...es mb forum ki jaan ho...i have no words...🤗.🤗only for u...ha! ha!

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