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Mehek25

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Posted: 14 years ago

#11

Originally posted by Prud123

Completely disagree with your post.

1)Vaibhav fell in love with sabina because she wasnt like a regular person he would have met for his projects.He fell in love with her because she was different.She changed him as a person.If you would have scene all their scenes you would have noticed the difference between vaibhav before he met sabina and after he met sabina.She touched the part of his heart that he didnt know existed made him realize what true happiness is .That's why he fell madly in love with her.Unlike his father she didint treat him like an investment.And time has got nothing to do with love.Sometimes you can spent a lifetime with a person and not fall in love because it isnt destined to be like i hope it happens with devki and if you are destined to love someone you will fall in love instantly like it happened with sabina.

2)As far as IMV is concerned if he would have done all this thinking that its best for his son i would have understood but he did all this thinking about his revenge and his benefit.That's the difference and that's what makes him a terrible father.Parents take a lot of decisions that their kids dont like but unlike IMV its for their children's benefit and not their's.And no parent in the world will make their child go through the pain IMV is making vaibhav go through.

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I agree with you....he is doing all this to take revenge on BB who threw him out of his house when he fell in love with his daughter.....IMV has no feelings whatsoever for anyone...he is an egoistic man who loves only himself and thinks that he is God.....the only person for whom he has even an iota of love is his mother...but even for her he will not alter his ways or change his course/plan of action....he walks over everyone in his quest for success...be it his sons, his wife or anyone else......but he needs to remeber one thing...that pride is always followed by a downfall...and as Baas has said..Devki will crush his ego one day...lets see when and how that happens...i can only say one thing...its a great show..completely different from the usual boring saas-bahu sagas....

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sonia77

@sonia77

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Posted: 14 years ago

#12

i think there were some very strong feelings out there...between vabhav sabina...when there's such a strong attraction ..it takes no time to fall in love...😊....

I know that their track will be taken forward..in these soaps being married means not much...😉....they make and break them as they please......well afcourse it seems alot of the kids out here in the forum are excited with vaibhav devaki..and its quite sweet..😊..why not.....but objectively speaking..sabina vaibhav story has not had a closure...😊..and unless they remove sabinas character from the show..i dont feel vaibhav can fall in love with devaki....

I m virani is the worst kind if you ask me...someone neds to put him down...i would love to see that track!..

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koolsadhu1000

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Posted: 14 years ago

#13

Originally posted by: Prud123
Completely disagree with your post.
1)Vaibhav fell in love with sabina because she wasnt like a regular person he would have met for his projects.He fell in love with her because she was different.She changed him as a person.If you would have scene all their scenes you would have noticed the difference between vaibhav before he met sabina and after he met sabina.She touched the part of his heart that he didnt know existed made him realize what true happiness is .That's why he fell madly in love with her.Unlike his father she didint treat him like an investment.And time has got nothing to do with love.Sometimes you can spent a lifetime with a person and not fall in love because it isnt destined to be like i hope it happens with devki and if you are destined to love someone you will fall in love instantly like it happened with sabina.

2)As far as IMV is concerned if he would have done all this thinking that its best for his son i would have understood but he did all this thinking about his revenge and his benefit.That's the difference and that's what makes him a terrible father.Parents take a lot of decisions that their kids dont like but unlike IMV its for their children's benefit and not their's.And no parent in the world will make their child go through the pain IMV is making vaibhav go through.

I know exactly how Vaibhav fell in 'love' with Sabina. I have seen all the episodes .

Nevertheless I feel its greatly over hyped , this falling in 'love' business . They r showing quite a bit of realism in this show and if so , why this over hype of 'love' ? U can stay with a person and not love him for life ..............or u can stay with a person and gradually have a sort of a companionship that culminates into deep love . IMV may be very egoistic , yet , there exists such a relation between him and Charulata. Yes , inspite of the fact that he took dowry . They understand each other very well and its not just helplessness on Charulata's part . Motilal and his wife Baa hardly knew each other.............those were olden zamana days . Yet they developed 'love' . 'LOVE" comes along , it needn't be so sudden and explosive as shown in this show .A few meetings and maybe she touched his human side ...........so what ??? Why wud he be driven this crazy to crush glass in her hand and she crushing glass in her hand and putting tilak on him in blood on holi day etc ....................r we seeing a teenager having a crush ?

It looks more as if he got the hots badly for a woman perhaps for the first time in his life . And they wear off . All this nonsense of Sabina only being janam janam ki saathi and dard bhara rishta is so unrealistic and silly ..............am i to understand all her rishtas with the 3 directors with whom she was linked r janam janam ka rishtas too ? How many janam janam rishtas does she exactly have then ? Surely if she outgrew them she can outgrow Vaibhav too ?

And so can he . Its high time he and his brother Siddarth realize the importance of marraige as an institution and stop behaving like silly smitten teenagers waiting for their 'perfect love' .

Charulata told Devki the truth ..........any situation u get in life , shud be turned positive with proper handling .Thats exactly what Devki is doing and thats exactly what Vaibhav is NOT doing .

As far as Sabina's great love goes ..........Why did she listen to IMV's threats and dump Vaibhav then ? So many times Vaibhav asked her if his Dad had threatened her with something . If so , tell me Sabina ! U see , he knows his father very well . He even knew that his father had sent him to Singapore to get him out of the way . He KNOWS how his Dad operates . Had Sabina told Vaibhav , Vaibhav would have handled his father ............he has the same stubborn blood . But Sabina did NOT show adequate trust in Vaibhav's capabilities to handle the situation and buckled before IMV . Was this what the great l;ove' was all about ? That it took simply one meeting to toss it out of the window ? So in the end she gave more consideration to practical things than Vaibhav's heart and love didn't she ?

I am not against Sabina. Very nice , brave woman . I rather like her . But marraige aint a joke and if Vaibhav and Sid have married , they shud grow up . 'Love' etc happens . But it not the end of life at all .

And no , i don't believe IMV is a terrible father at all . He is a complex man . His choice of Devki was not just for revenge ...........thats part of it .He is a multi tasker . When he held Baa's hands in his office and told her to at least believe in his love for Vaibhav ..........it was hundred percent true . Whatever his personal agendas may be ..........and they r by the hundreds ..........he does know Devki is a very good proposal cum match for his son . On a personal level she is every man's dream bahu or wife . So in all , he did look for Vaibhav's interests too . He wud not bring a failure bahu or a worthless bahu just to spite Baa or just to fulfil his revenge .

He also enjoys the challenge ..........he never wanted Devki to sit at home . He wanted her to help him in business too . When she told him she will be his rival , he didn't mind that , he rather enjoys those challenges . Maybe he has confidence in his ability to curb her there .........and maybe he will be unpleasantly surprised for the first time in his life .

What we will see is Devki facing a tough battle on both personal and professional level and coming out a winner and IMV grudgingly coming to admire his opponent . She is everything he is .........she is his positive roop .😊

Just my thoughts .

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koolsadhu1000

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Posted: 14 years ago

#14

Originally posted by: intruderfast

a very good post👏 i dont find imv evil , he is selfish yes and so am i and many other ppl, that does not mean i support his each and every move yes , but he believes he is doing it for his family's benefit, he definately cares 4 his family,

i feel cares 4 devki too otherwise he would never have made her the bahu of his house,

i say this because devki is the daughter of the woman he loved very much

baa and baabuji r too mahaan, , but in these dyas its tough to survive with these values, u have to be smart and cunning, come on its a real world

i like charulata's character very much , she is one of the best character , she supports her husband , takes care of his parents too and is a support system to her chilDREN

and reg vaibhav sabina , i agree completely , i cannot connect with them at all, it was so fast , it never looked real first of all,

i always prefer real romance , not over the top or feeka feeka ones , isiliye i never liked jag anandi in balika vadhu although they r very popular, i preferred jag gauri cos it looks real.

where as devki vaibhav relationship looked completely real , their interacvtions , slowly and gradually their friendship is growing , its so easy to connect with them, i am really looking forward to their story

and devki, she is the best character from this show ,a multi tasker

a perfect woman i must say takes care of his family, still focused on her career , practical yet good, ambitous yet down to earth

I agree totally with ur post . Each word . I too believe in REAL romance . It doesn't come like the fizz of coke . It takes time .

One more thing that zapped me was Sabina telling Devki in first meeting that we will always have Dard Ka Rishta . I was like Huh ??? Do people talk like this in real life ?

Im making these points coz if we r read , they keep dialogues realistic in future .

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koolsadhu1000

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Posted: 14 years ago

#15

think there were some very strong feelings out there...between vabhav sabina...when there's such a strong attraction ..it takes no time to fall in love .

I agree that there was strong attraction . It happens . But one outgrows it too . Thats exactly my point , that it hapens all the time . But now he has married . And thats serious . Whats this constant Ille Ille music he hears before giving any thought to Devki who is his life partner ? The sum total of all his meetings with Sabina cannot become his LIFE u know . And they were few . To get this much under his skin , more shud have been shown but CVS didnt show it .

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sonia77

@sonia77

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Posted: 14 years ago

#16

Like i said earlier..less logic or sense should be expected from a soap opera..😉....they will suit themselves and decide which girl to shove vaibhav to!!!....i only think sabinas role is limited to the vaibhav track..whereas devakis isnt!..she seems to have a big role out here in connection with the father and his business.....i am not very happy with the way this show is moving...its dragging and theres no movement as such....i had started watching it regularly..but seemed to have lost intrest yet again...

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dolly

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Posted: 14 years ago

#17

@TM i don't agree wid the analysis. its not imv's parents who r selfish but he is himself selfish & selfish 2 the extent 2 harm oders & destroying oder's lives. actually he thinks himself more impt than oders!!

baa defntly wants 2 teach him a lesson but not 4 herself but 4 the sake of humanity & oder ppl!!its not bad 2 think of themselves 2 get rich but 4 it who asked 2 destroy oder's life!! and now if baa is supporting devki then it means she also acknowledging this fact that now devki is DIL & needs 2 b protected from him but IMV simply wants revenge from BB &thatswhy hes using devki & this is the reason he didn't let sabina marry vaibhav. if sum1 finds such parents as egositic then its not possible 4 them 2 see the truth!!

one thing i like both sabina & devki but still facts r facts!!! it was clear from the scenes btn vaibhav & sabina that there was/is luv btn them. if sum ppl don't like sum pairing then its fine but why 2 say its not gud bcoz we don't like it!!🤢🤢and going wid sum1 on date doesn't mean u luv that prsn. in our country there r so many arranged marriages where ppl never go on date until they get engaged but later on their marriages r more successful than those ppl who went on date ,fall in luv wid that prsn & married!!i m not saying vaibhav devki's marriage won't b successful bcoz these CVs now shown marriage so it"ll defntly make 2 work as in indian shows generally marriages r not shown 2 b broken until oder prsn is evil or purely inhuman!!

and just bcoz sabina is an actress & was linked up wid sum1 doesn't mean shes a cktless & just bcoz devki has more interest in acadamics doesn't mean shes sum super woman!!🤢🤢this thinking is pathetic. if just bcoz sabina was linked up wid sum1 by media makes her cktless or less worthy than devki then why u ppl r watching these show after all the ckt of devki is also played by an actress who may in furure got linked up wid sum1 by media!!😲🥱🥱🥱

and its a fcat that IMV is the most selfish human being shown in this show. may b sidharth is a coward but atleast hes a human being & wants truly his bro's happiness.and whereas iMV is concerned he'd himself stated that 4 him his sons & esply vaibhav is an investment!!

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dolly

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Posted: 14 years ago

#18

Originally posted by: intruderfast

a very good post👏 i dont find imv evil , he is selfish yes and so am i and many other ppl, that does not mean i support his each and every move yes , but he believes he is doing it for his family's benefit, he definately cares 4 his family,

i feel cares 4 devki too otherwise he would never have made her the bahu of his house,

i say this because devki is the daughter of the woman he loved very much

baa and baabuji r too mahaan, , but in these dyas its tough to survive with these values, u have to be smart and cunning, come on its a real world

i like charulata's character very much , she is one of the best character , she supports her husband , takes care of his parents too and is a support system to her chilDREN

and reg vaibhav sabina , i agree completely , i cannot connect with them at all, it was so fast , it never looked real first of all,

i always prefer real romance , not over the top or feeka feeka ones , isiliye i never liked jag anandi in balika vadhu although they r very popular, i preferred jag gauri cos it looks real.

where as devki vaibhav relationship looked completely real , their interacvtions , slowly and gradually their friendship is growing , its so easy to connect with them, i am really looking forward to their story

and devki, she is the best character from this show ,a multi tasker

a perfect woman i must say takes care of his family, still focused on her career , practical yet good, ambitous yet down to earth

anmol i don't agree wid u & esply on IMV.😒 he doesn't care abt his family!! if he'd cared abt them then he wudn't'd gone wid devki -vaibhav marriage but let his son marry his luv!!

in BV i want say that jag-anandi pair is more real than jag-gauri!! anandi & jag r shown 2 grow up 2gether & their friendship & later on luv has grown until jag has not mesmerised by materialism!! but leave this.

u may not connect wid vaibhav -sabina though i agree there luvstory was abit fast but still not unreal!!

and whereas baa & bapuji r great but they r human also!! wats the use of getting rich if u loose ur humanity.

and just bcoz he has kept his parents wid him doesn't mean he luvs them v. much. after watching epis where IMV himself acknowledged his sons as investment i doubt that he luvs his parents truly. i think hes more concerned abt his image also & just his image luk gud 2 outer world he has kept them as a trophy!!

no doubt devki is one of the best ckts in the show!!

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koolsadhu1000

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Posted: 14 years ago

#19

Originally posted by: tiny15

@TM i don't agree wid the analysis. its not imv's parents who r selfish but he is himself selfish & selfish 2 the extent 2 harm oders & destroying oder's lives. actually he thinks himself more impt than oders!!
baa defntly wants 2 teach him a lesson but not 4 herself but 4 the sake of humanity & oder ppl!!its not bad 2 think of themselves 2 get rich but 4 it who asked 2 destroy oder's life!! and now if baa is supporting devki then it means she also acknowledging this fact that now devki is DIL & needs 2 b protected from him but IMV simply wants revenge from BB &thatswhy hes using devki & this is the reason he didn't let sabina marry vaibhav. if sum1 finds such parents as egositic then its not possible 4 them 2 see the truth!!

one thing i like both sabina & devki but still facts r facts!!! it was clear from the scenes btn vaibhav & sabina that there was/is luv btn them. if sum ppl don't like sum pairing then its fine but why 2 say its not gud bcoz we don't like it!!🤢🤢and going wid sum1 on date doesn't mean u luv that prsn. in our country there r so many arranged marriages where ppl never go on date until they get engaged but later on their marriages r more successful than those ppl who went on date ,fall in luv wid that prsn & married!!i m not saying vaibhav devki's marriage won't b successful bcoz these CVs now shown marriage so it"ll defntly make 2 work as in indian shows generally marriages r not shown 2 b broken until oder prsn is evil or purely inhuman!!

and just bcoz sabina is an actress & was linked up wid sum1 doesn't mean shes a cktless & just bcoz devki has more interest in acadamics doesn't mean shes sum super woman!!🤢🤢this thinking is pathetic. if just bcoz sabina was linked up wid sum1 by media makes her cktless or less worthy than devki then why u ppl r watching these show after all the ckt of devki is also played by an actress who may in furure got linked up wid sum1 by media!!😲🥱🥱🥱

and its a fcat that IMV is the most selfish human being shown in this show. may b sidharth is a coward but atleast hes a human being & wants truly his bro's happiness.and whereas iMV is concerned he'd himself stated that 4 him his sons & esply vaibhav is an investment!!

My dear nobody said We don't like Vaibhav Sabina pairing . Don't misunderstand . What was said was The Sabina chapter didn't take off ...........now toh he has mARRIED , so let her go ! Constantly sighing over Ille Ille music when he voluntarily gave commitment to a girl and accepted her as wife is not done ! Now where does the question of not liking Vaibhav Sabina pairing come ?😕

Infact had they married , it wud be welcome but they didn't ! It was more Sabinas decision , Vaibhav was ready to marry her ! So Ab kya karenge ? Sigh over her and make wife miserable ?

Regarding date point ............again u misunderstood ! Infact Im saying exactly what ur saying that even arranged marraiges bring forth deep love and commitment ! Love can be found in marraige to Devki too , at least give her a chance , breaking off with Sabina isnt the end of the world !

And before calling someones thinking pathetic , please , please understand the post properly . I am NOT saying an actress bahu isnt good enuf . I am merely telling the mentality of eighty percent of parents in India ............they will makechoices this way only . Maybe they have their reasons as the acting profession has its own pros and cons !

Not once did I call Sabina characterless . But the fact remains that she was linked to 3 directors ...........and IMV pulled out an entire dossier on her . And she did not refute it ! That definetely doesnt make her characterless .............she may have had 3 beautiful meaningful relationships ..............but that doesnt mean the boy's Dad has to like it , his thoughts may differ , thats all !

Regarding IMVS selfishness ..........I have myself admitted in my post in the FIRST sentence .

Regarding BAA 😊 bahu has not even stepped in for one day and she is doing politics saying I will instigate her against u ...........to son ! In my opinion its not done ! When she brought Sabina to mandap had she even wondered how much shame , humiliation Devki will face if marraige broke at last minute ? What if Bhawanji Bhaa got an heart attack or something ? He is an old fashioned little dear , the old man !

All I can say is if IMV is selfish and egoistic , Baa is no less ! Sri Krishna indeed !😆😆😆

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dolly

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Posted: 14 years ago

#20

i know sum of ur points r nice ones!! though i agree that devki -vaibhav r now married so vaibhav shud b wid her but atleast he shud b given time as he luvs sabina. and 2 get out of luv & move on takes time!! i myself'd said that if its shown that sabina moves on & vaibhav also moves on wid devki then its fine!!! bcoz atleast devki is a gud human being.

but abt baa i don't agree wid u. she'dn't done any politics. earlier she simply wants 2 give vaibhav his luv back & now it didn't happen she wants new DIL 2 b protected.and just 2 satisfy his ego & taking revenge hes using devki!! she has 2 opt 4 such measures as IMV only understans such tactics. if sum1 even do gud 2 him he thinks its his rite & oder's duty 2wards him but he himself is pathetic ckt. i don't know how sum1 such hypocrite & pathetic ckt b made a protagonist whether in a novel or in a show!! wat type of values hes giving that 2 bcum rich u've 2 cut oder's throat &u don't've 2 make ur deeds so great that riches themselves kisses ur feet!!

if sum oder prsn oder than IMV'd done such thing then i wud'd atleast tried 2 understand that they r conservative ppl(though still it doesn't give them the right 2 force their ideas or thinking on their kids) but here IMV isn't thinking abt his family or sons. he earlier did this wid sid & now wid vaibhav. and if u'd seen sum past scenes u'd heard IMV saying vaibhav & sid as investment!! so here politics is being played by only one prsn i.e. IMV!!and if baa is saying that she wants 2 break his "ghamand" then wats wrong in it?? is it bad 2 make sum1 realize his own mistakes like baa is doing wid IMV. and if any parent does this then it doesn't mean they've bigger ego. i didn't find any1 wid such a big ego oder than IMV in this show. he really needs 2 b thrashed & esply psychologically as he doesn't think oder's life is worth or even more impt than himself!!

his parents & esply baa is v.understanding & mature lady. she knows where & 2 wat extent materialism is impt but she also knows widout values in which her elder son is lacking these riches r not worth a "kaudi"!!and so bringing her own son's downfall is more impt 2her as he doesn't deserve 2 b rich if hes not human enough! and till this i'dn't find a single quality in IMV 4 which i shud praise him!!

sorry 4 long post but can't accept such things even in reel !! 4 me humanity is bigger than anything else. watsoever height one may go but if u lack in humanity then u r nothing!! even Dhirubhai Ambani who was self-made prsn never left his humanity & humbleness. true self-made ppl r down 2 earth though sum may b a bit of proud of themselves but not arrogant or egostic like IMV!!🥱🥱

Edited by tiny15 - 14 years ago

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