14May21 - Sakshi finds out the truth about PurVir - Page 9

Originally posted by: Manasi_16

I think the main problem here is the lack of depth & thought behind Sakshi character sketch. The Sakshi in Vir's memories and the Sakshi they have brought back from the dead are two very different people.

Probably, when the show started, they did not plan to have Sakshi alive and so it was necessary for to be wriiten as a larger than life character esp since Vir was not shown to be over her death. But when suddenly she was made to be alive, they could not fit in that characterization with the requirement of the current track.

Hence this dissonance and the ensuing mess!

Sahi kaha. Vir ki yaadon ki sakshi aur is sakshi me bahut diffrence hai.

But i am not agree ki saba ka plan sakshi ko wapas lane ka nhi tha. Saba ne bola bhi tha ki kaun saki, wo wapas nhi aaigi but mujhe hamesha se lagta tha ki ye track ti aana hi tha.

But yes jis tarah sakshi ko portray kiya gya tha in vir's heart. Ye uske ekdum opposite hai

Originally posted by: Manasi_16

I think the main problem here is the lack of depth & thought behind Sakshi character sketch. The Sakshi in Vir's memories and the Sakshi they have brought back from the dead are two very different people.

Probably, when the show started, they did not plan to have Sakshi alive and so it was necessary for to be wriiten as a larger than life character esp since Vir was not shown to be over her death. But when suddenly she was made to be alive, they could not fit in that characterization with the requirement of the current track.

Hence this dissonance and the ensuing mess!

Yes.. this is the root problem actually!

Writers never expected ki they will have to re create saki character and thus initially they portrayed her like a divine lady... But now they seem to have other plans !

Plans of making her negative and brought in to disrupt PurVir relationship !

Originally posted by: Srilata.Mineil

We should wait for sometime to get more clear picture of saki character bcoz the back story of her kidnap will play the major role on how she used to be actually and why is she so different than viru description...

Yeah .. we have to wait until everything unfolds.

But no one change overnight right ? Yes, this whole incident would have hurt her and made her forget the margin b/w right and wrong.. she lashed out at PurVir ! Lekin kya koi insan ek dum se kisi ke lie bura soch sakta hai ? I guess no ! Kuch grey traits to usme pehle se hi hoge naa .. and this betrayal prompted them !

Tabhi to prakashi ko itna confidence tha sakshi pe ki she will throw Purvi out ... Agar sakshi me itni achhai hoti, cooperative aur understanding hoti (jaisa Vir ke pov se lagta hai) to prakashi sakshi ko bahar lane ka risk leti hi nhi ... She would have feared ki kahi ye uska sach na bata de.

Par nhi.. she was sure ki Sakshi kabhi sach nhi bolegi Vir se !! And that's what happened. Prakashi janti thi she will never tolerate Molkki islie hi to usko le kar ayi ... taki Purvi ko bahar kr sake !

Haven't watched the episode yet, will watch soon enough.

So Sakshi is insecure that Vir calls Purvi, bawri out of love. If only she knew that he called her that first, because he genuinely thought she is crazy. Also wonder how she will react if she finds out that Purvi dares to call Vir, Krur Singh. 😂

Originally posted by: darkchocolates

Just loved to read your take..A perfect..To the point..Specially just like me you didn't feel any sympathies for her..The best part❤️👍🏼

@bold1 Same..Even I mentioned the same..Was she expecting her husband and her kids to live in grief for 5 years..They were aware or didn't have a dream that she will come one day to them alive..

@bold blue Seriously I wonder what made Vir fall for her..And actually that dialogues where she compared what has changed gave a proper vibe of her turning into a vamp..(Precap sort of confirmed it)

@bold Pink..This was below the belt..And hardly respects anyone..The 0.1% sympathy I had for her just vanished..

@bold Purple It's high time Virendra realizes and accepts whom he wants and needs in his life..You can't keep juggling between 2 wives..

I don't know why the Precap makes me feel that Sakshi will stop Purvi from leaving the house and Didiji might turn negative..And offcourse will to all the planning and plotting to separate Purvi from kids and Vir..(Typical ITV style..😆)

@bold Orange It wasn't necessary for Purvi to apologize..Chalo..Ok she apologized..She never owed an explanation to her..But kya kare..Her characterization has taken a 360° turn by making making her a helpless Bechari type wife..

Aayu, I really think after 5 years of being imprisoned and all puts things in perspective. I am just very surprised that she did not come out of that harrowing experience as a better person.

We are all sympathetic to what she had to endure and being away from her kids and husband. But waapis aake bhi she is totally nakchadhi and entitled elitist. That is when people can not relate to her and stop being so sympathetic.

What gives her the right to disrespect and diss someone "below" her??

Originally posted by: Suppss

I'm so agree with you dii 🤗

Each and every point you reviewed is what I felt too. Why should mata ji hold PurVir responsible for everything that happened? And in this conditions too, she lied and dint tell the name of the real players behind this creepy game. Isn't this also a visbwaasghat? How can she allegate Vir for moving ahead in his life?

Normally when a person breathes his last, he/she always wishes ki uske jaane ke baad uski family khush rhe... And here we have an ajooba jo khushi dekh kar gussa kar rhi hai ! 🤦🏻‍♀️ Use koi farak nhi pada vps ki plight se, the depression and loneliness he suffered after her supposed death... KK was more concerned ki shaadi kyo kar li ?

She had problem with nicknames too... Aree yaar what special favors you did for your family to earn their love back? But now you're trying to blame Purvi for taking your place... SERIOUSLY? you were more after Vir, Mukhi ji ke sath time spend karna hai .. lekin what about kids? When did she bother to take care of them herself ? NEVER !! and then she wants them to love the mother whose love is unfamiliar to them... HOW? This family belongs to you.. but once you were gone why should they suffer? Yes, everyone mourns on death but did she want then to continue this mourn forever ? Is behaviour se to mujhe ye sadist lagi !!

Purvi ko kis baat ke lie zimmedar thehra rhi hai kk ? You said it right dii.. she has earned each and everything - bachho ke pyar se le kar Vir ki patni ka darja... Sab kuch she attained by her efforts !! Unlike saki who got it by default ..😏

KK crying about the sleeping arrangements was the creepiest thing she could have said. There was nothing unusual if a couple sleeps together but she made it sound like adultery!! You were gone for years ... sabko kya sapna ayga that you are still alive? Nhi naa to how are they responsible for changing with time? Vir never replaced you, he still holds a place for Sakshi.. Purvi ne apni alag jagah banai hai uski zindagi me wo bhi apne karmo se.. aur saki ne use bhi zaleel karne me koi kasar nhi chhodi

Yes her breakdown was expected and a natural reaction to the nude reality... But they are not to be blamed .. tm Vir ko kaise kos sakti ho for remarrying ? Asli gunhegaaro ke saath to tm khud haath mila chuki ho... How are they betraying you ?

Coming to Purvi .. I again agree with you ki she doesn't owes any explanation to mata ji !

Apologise karti aur chali jaati.. there was no need to stay and sunao apni jeevan katha. Vir has already told about it sakshi. I don't know why she sounded so pitiable in front of sakshi ? What reaction was she expecting after narrating her hardships? Drama create krne ke siwa I don't think uska kuch aur matlab tha ... Saki is not someone to sympathise with her

Aur kare bhi kyo? Sautan ko saheli koi nhi banata (jagat maata ko chod kar).

Sakshi ka gussa jayaz tha par rational bilkul bhi nhi. Agar itna sab gusse me bakne ke baad wo thande dimag se soch kar koi samjhdaro wala faisla leti to baat thik thi... Par we know aisa nhi hoga !

This episode laid foundation for a negative sakshi !

For performance.. PriAm nailed it again. They dint have much dialogues par unke expressions aur body language was sufficient! Toral ka abhi tak ka best performance tha ye but obviously PriAm ke comparison me feeka tha...

@ bold - Her dialogues and expectations that day made me think along such lines too.

@italics - I think that is beyond KK's comprehension.

Originally posted by: midniteangel

Shree wonderful analysis n thanks for d tag!!😳

I was having mixed feelings ysdy n after d precap I found myself analysing d episode again..

I sympathised with saki but even I dont agree to some of d accusations she put forth on purvir.. still I overlooked it as I thought it was coming from a broken woman who lost everything again..

As u mentioned KK wanting her family to wait for her for 5yrs is not right.. Vir didnt know that she was alive n locked up, if had known he wud have never married again..

It's high time that KK point d fingers towards d real culprit who has destroyed all their lives instead of blaming vir for moving on.. coz Vir itself told KK that he married again coz of Maa n MS.. maa was d one who kept KK locked up, connect d dots KK!! Prakashi is d one playing a game here

Well d biggest mystery here is how can someone like Vir be in love with KK n shower all those praises about KKs character when not even a single trait has been shown after she returned... this is a major letdown as d character has been written poorly.. so d only positive attitude I saw in ysdys episode was KK remembering purvi in her FB n agreeing that pur is good..

Pur was empathetic of KKs state that she only told half d truth again n hid d fact that purvir r in love... this is going to be used against purvir if they dont openly accept their relationship..

Amar n priyal excelled in their parts as purvir n toral surprised me with her acting.. so I liked ysdys episode but d KKs character sketch is not in alignment with how she was portrayed in d beginning thru Virs thoughts..

I do not why P has to be jagatmata. Why should she convey Purvir relationship as so tucchh and neecha? She need not say that VPS loves her but she should just keep her mouth shut and not go about convincing that even now VPS loves KK.

Haadd hai yaar that she will do be-izzatti of her own relationship??

Originally posted by: Srilata.Mineil

Loved ur take...and I agree with everything u wrote about didiji....

It really pinched me as well her dailogue about izzatdar aurat....I wanted to write it but thought may be I am overthinking about that dailogue...

She need not have to be soft to purvi but she don't need to be harsh as well....she needs to understand that purvi is also a victim now after she returned itna andha hona bhi acha nahi hai ki us khud ke alawa kisi aur ka pain and suffering na dikhe...uske liye is bandi ne khud naukrani bulwaya aur isko puevi ko.wo.izzat dena bhi nahi aa raha hai....may be she will compose herself and on Monday hopefully thoda wisely behave kre...

You would think that after spending 5 years imprisoned and tortured someone would have more empathy, humility and kindess. Abhi tak toh nahin dikhaya KK has that. But again as you said wait for future episodes.

Originally posted by: Ziva01

First of all lovely review Shree❤ and thks for tag dear🤗

Well i saw the repeat telecast last nite just to be sure abt certain PurVir and didi reaction in some scenes😳

1. Vir was flabbergasted when didi ordered him to leave ...his shocked expression revealed it all ...he was at least expecting her to understd in wht circumtances his unwanted wedding with Pur took place and but She was less bothered that Viru was neglecting the kids and living in his own shattered world.

Vir was hell shocked as if he is discovering another didi here whom he has never encountered.

As you said didi selfish level is amazing here ...all She can see is that Viru and kids have moved on and this isn't going down well with her ...she so wanted them to keep crying and grieving for years and this is above my understanding 😳

2. When Pur was revealing her side of story ...how Viru made it clear from day 1 that She ll never be his wife ...didi expression were alert there as if her mind is working how to get rid of Pur now as She still has a chance to win back Viru and the kids ...didi knows there is definitely attachment between PurVir now and Pur revealing that Viru has never accepted as his wife is s golden chance to work on.

Also when didi accused her taking revenge on her ...Pur was hell shocked same as Vir here...she was also expecting her understd but in vain.

In precap didi accused Pur to fall in love with Viru is another mind game of hers to make her feel guilty just like She did with Viru regarding bed sharing stuff🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️....i think didi ll definitely trigger Pur to leave because Pur was determined to win back her family whom She has won after going through so much hardship and bearing so many unncessary wraths of Viru...Pur isn't a person who accept defeat so easily but didi has certainly mentionned such thgs which forced her to leave else She ll hv never leave her family behind.

Ziva, I love to read your thoughts and takes on the episodes. I rewatched the episodes too to remove bias and be more objective and neutral

@bold1 - yesssss!!

@bold2 - good observation and looks like that is what is going to happen.

@bold3 - that was so out of the blue. I did not expect KK to understand Purvi's pain but accusing Purvi of a lie? too much

Originally posted by: nycgal

So, here I am with my 2$ and 2 cents on Friday's episode..
I know we have discussed this topic to death so appreciate your patience my friends.

I will break this down to 4 parts to make it easier to talk about.

Part1 : In Purvi's room

Completely understand KK's shock . Expected reaction from her.

I actually cheered for her when she announced she is just Sakshi and no more SVPS. Great!! You do not need a man to make you complete.👍🏼

She was very right to say that she was betrayed because of not being told the truth. It is insulting too to be not told of this truth. I know, doc ne bola tha to not give her any sadma.

BUT to imply that she was betrayed by his shaadi after her demise is not true. How and Why is that betrayal?

One thing to point out in this scene -even though KK had the lines, Purvir's body language conveyed a lot. It is easy to overlook people with no dialogues but here Purvir were amazing as usual. Their body language showed pain, grief , some shock that KK found out the truth this way BUT at no point of time did their body language convey shame at being found together. They are man and wife and they have accepted it. They did not jump apart or flinch when they saw KK. I think that was pretty important to convey the sanctity of Purvir relationship.

Part2 : Purvi's erstwhile bedroom

I quite liked the flinching and the following scene. where KK asks not to be touched. I also understand her desolation, desperation, fear when she asked VPS what would she do. All natural reactions for someone in her place.

The googly and disconnect for me started when she started yapping about the talks of 5 years pehle and the promises he made to her.

VPS yeh bhi promise kiya tha kya he would also be like living dead if she happens to die? I am just surprised at her utter selfishness here. What did she expect ?? VPS would make a shrine in her name so that he and the kids could pray to her everyday?? Not only that , they should have wallowed in grief, pity, depression just because she was dead???

I noticed her resentment that they moved ahead with their lives when she was held captive and kept thinking about them everyday. It was moot to her that there was no way for them to even entertain the possibility that she was alive and kept prisoner. How can she hold it against them?Just because she had a very tough 5 years, she wants them to experience similar pain by drowning in grief and not moving forward in life? Whatever happened with her was very wrong and unfortunate but why should the husband and kids get punished as compensation for her time in the khandar?

As a wife/mother should she not be happy that her family found peace and happiness even after her death? She needs to wrap her brains around the fact that irrespective of Purvi's presence/absence people do adapt and move ahead in life. Her expectation that EVERYTHING would be frozen in time for her to come back and pick up from square 1 is just so bizzare that I cannot relate to it. Change is the only constant in life and her family was right and justified in moving ahead.

KK had no idea she would ever escape the khandar. Luck,fate or whatever intervened and she escaped. I am surprised she learnt no life lessions during her captive days. Life is short and live it to the fullest? Uske baad bhi she is all rona dhona ki yeh log khush hain without her?? How is moving on in life after a partner's or parent's death a vishwaasghat??

I am very curious to know how VPS used to jhelo her. I had such high expectation from her as a human being going by the tareefon ke pul that VPS used to tie for her. Well, madam has been such a huge let down. She definitely has traits of being a narcissist apart from being privileged and entitled.

She has always been "humse zyaada aapke liye kaun important hai" " I am most important for you". I just do not think she developed these traits overnight.

I won't talk too much about KK's dialogues of Purvir sleeping together.( we ALL have the same opinion on this)

By implying he gave in to $exual gratification, she just dissed and insulted him so badly. She knows what kind of a person VPS is and that was just hitting below the belt. VPS's face also registered the shock at her implication. He did not flinch or hang his head in shame because he knows the truth between Purvi and him.

One thing will never cross KK's dimag - that things just did not fall on Purvi's lap. I really do not expect her to understand or acknowledge the struggles of Purvi. I mean why would she?

When she spoke about how VPS and her kids like Purvi, she does not know that Purvi EARNED that place. She just assumed Purvi had it very easy.

KK was loved by VPS just because she was his wife. The young J+M loved KK because she was their mother. So, this love was default hers. KK did not have to earn anything.

But Purvi ko kuch default nahin mila - na bacchon ka pyaar na hi pati ka pyaar aur izzat.

Her dialogue about izzatdaar aurat? Was it meant to imply Molkkis are not izzatdaar?

I do get KK is right in many ways. Some of her questions were valid. But others were meh.

VPS letting her vent out was good. He definitely should have told the complete truth about how his present feelings for Purvi.

WHat I did not agree upon ( like so many of you) - It is not KK's job/responsibility to be kind and just towards Purvi. Kyun hogi woh??

The only person who is reponsible to ensure Purvi's dignity is upheld is VPS himself. The SOoner he gets that, faster he will take actions.

Part3 : VPS's bechaini

Amar nailed it and then some. Enough said.

Also, VPS needs to understand he can't keep both women happy. He is the sole sutradhaar of how things will end up between the 3 of them. Tough choices but they have to be made.

He has to choose 1 path and put a fullstop to the drama.

Part4 : Purvi visiting KK

I understand Purvi coming and apologizing for the truth being hidden. She should have just left after that.

WHY did she have to talk about her Ram kahani and how she was betrayed by her own dad?? Again, she does not OWE KK an explanation. KK bhi kyun sune iski safaiyaan?? Again, life lesson - you just can not expect everyone to sympathize with you. Why would they ?

VPS ke samne izzat and samman samman chilati rehti hai. KK ke samne khud chali gayee apni insult karwane.

I do not support the irrational dhokka line from KK but sorry bolke Purvi ko cut lena chahiye tha.

P.S. - I have never watched Toral in a show before. She was good today but she did not hit it out of the ball park for me. As many have said, we have such powerhouse performers in Amar and Priyal that anyone else in the frame needs to have amazing acting chops.

Shree.. . 👏👏👏👏.. Bang on... 🥳👍🏼

Don't know what to say.. 

You said everything what i want to say on this.. 😝

I agree with your every word...

Loved your review.. ❤❤❤

First Time jab maine saki wala scene dekha mujhe uske liye bura laga.. Second time dekha to laga ki ye kitni selfish hai yaar... Aur third time mai uski jealousy ko enjoy kar rahi thi..😝😝🙈🙈🙈🙈

Sorry.. Par uski jealousy dekh kr maja aa raha tha.. 😝🙈😁😁