I appreciate your topic but can't agree with you.......!!
Based on what we saw till now, their reactions are not justified......
Leave sam apart......he is under nerves breakdown, so his condition/reaction can't be controled........and I beleive he is the only one who didn't move on......!!
We can see that both Mayu and Gunji did some effort to reach at where they are now........Mayu, a professor is a job that can't be get untill you are focused and giving your 100% effort..........so he moved on coz he had ambition after Nup's death and could achieve that ambition
Gunji, though didn't show much about how she became councellor,.........but we can expect that she was focused too and gave her 100% till she had this job........so she moved on coz she had ambition after Nup's death and could achieve that ambition
But Sam is a trustee coz his Mum invested in Excell......and it seems she put him as a trustee.........he never had to be focused or give his 100% to be in that job..........so there is no evident that he really could move on..........
Yes he works and act as a trustee.............but is it because he really loves this work and dreamt about it?!!..........is this work satisfies his own desire or satisfies the conditions around him.......?
He said I won't let anyone else do what I did..........I think this indicates what really is driving him to work as a trustee...............The guilt feeling........his work is only a part of the whole process of punishment he is making himself go through.....
He still not muture as you said........otherwise, he wouldn't try to kill himself...... a person who try to help students at morning whereas try to kill himself at night............this is more complicated than maturity!!!
Mayu's actions aginst Sam is not justified in my pov........and so is Gunji's..........living in greif doesn't give the right to hurt or ruin other's life..........how if that other is a friend or fiancee who shared your happiness and pains......!!.......it seems like Mayu forgot all the support he got from Sam to get marry Nupur...........and Gunji forgot the days when Sam could lose his life just to bring back happiness in her life...
If both don't want to cont their relation with him,.......then fine, no problem it's their own choice........but to affect emotionly on others in a way that hurts, like blaming everything on them,........then this is not correct or even justified.......
I've lost my sis in a similar accident.........the driver was driving fast..........so police caught him to be judged in court.......but my mum forgave him.............and she kept visiting his family and support them untill the end of his trial..........I wondered then why she is doing so....?!!
She told me " I forgave him coz my doughter won't come back anyway, and I believe pictures of the accident that he would see everynight before sleepnig would be more than enough to make him never repeat his mistake...........and I keep visit his family coz now I realize the meaning of losing a dear, so I can feel their pain and I don't want my doughter to be a reason for ruining the life of a whole family (his wife and kids)"
It was one of the best lessons I've learned from my mom......
Don't you think in Nup's few scenes after death she showed her dissatisfaction ragarding this seperation between Mayu and Sam..........Do you think she is happy seeing this seperation between the 3?!!!
Now this makes me ask myself,..............by leaving and blaming him in such a way............is the friendship and the love we saw in season1 was so easy to be broke in such a way and for such reasons...?!!................what if Sam could succeed in killing himself............wouldn't both Mayu and Gunji be a reason for his death and hurting his family....?!!!
And knowing Mayu and Gunji for 2 years now..........I'm 100000% sure there is a forth party who played games on them............coz both have pure hearts that can't hurt anyone.........it's just impossible!!.........I have full trust on these 2 ...........Otherwise, their actions are not justified in my pov........
Edited by yasri - 15 years ago