Samrat, Mayank and Gunjan's Actions r Justified! - Page 2

Originally posted by: VampirePrincess

@talkativetaurus(m surry even i dunno ur name) - m zara...u can call me zeejay thts ma nick:)
Firstly thnx for liking my post. I think loss is understood truly only when one goes thru it...otherwise ppl relate to it as an empty feeling which is not true.
8 years is a long time...i myself have finally moved on after 2 precisely 3 yrs of mourning for a closed one.

Ofcoz hun there's a lot to discuss on this issue....will b glad to hv u here again.😊

yes exactly, 8 yrs is a long time ... but the consequences always remain . ppl force and move with life cos they r still breathing but there r still the effects.

zara...........WOW.this is just so beautiful.heart touching.AHHHHHHH i need sum more adjectives now.i am enlightened.i never knew u write so well and i thnk the forum needs such people who have a positive thinking.

god u hav explained everything so well.every character.i am speechless.just too flawless.i admire u for opening this topic.🤗

SaJan and Mayu: 3 lives which has been devastated.but life says move on and that is what they have done.gunjan has become the counsellor.
as even shruti said, i love these lines!

But Loss and Death is something the brain registers first and not the heart.

the heart never registers nethng.once it starts its emotional pour down of feelings it never stops!

but the feeling's return- Of sadness, loneliness, guilt and despair, when the calender marks the date of her death.

true very true.DEATH of a person.wish i need not speak much about this topic.DEATH is sumthng u dont even expect wud happen.and sumtyms death becomes so dear 2 u that u feel like dying atm.and that is what samrat is trying 2 do.he is trying 2 die every minute.but fate doesnt give his way.

and gunjan,mayank.they r the perfect examples of how life must move on and especially gunjan.u hav said it very rightly.she finds peace in solving the problems of others and she probably feels better when she spectates the pain of others.

life says that.there r so many people in this world who have nothing in their lives other than pain and disgust.they hav nothing.they live for nothing but still they live.when u r in pain just look around and see and then u will cum 2 knw that there r so many people around u who have seen much more pains than u or are probably facing such situations.

one such actually incident which got me emotional was the BHOPAL gas tragedy.sorry for going off topic but i feel its very much necessary that people know about the harsh reality.no offense meant but nupur is just a fictional charcter but what about those people who suffer frm nature's harsh actions?BHOPAL gas tragedy has seen sum of its worst conditions ever in INDIA.worst that tsunami,the mumbai terrorist attack.20,000 people lost their lives.think about their family.

i has witnessed an interview recently where a lady lost 6 of her family members.now what wud u call that?if she had a sudden outburst and showed agony she wudnt hav gained nethng.still she is alive.for what? for life.for the rule of life.

Its our brain that hallucinates and shrieks the non-existence of a beloved, our heart plainly loves.
Its the Undying Love with not only romance and fluff, but pain, despair,loss and sacrifice included as well:)

LIFE MUST MOVE ON!and that is what MJHT has beautifully portrayed!and as u said most of the serials show hallucinations and mental disorders which so doesnt happen(maybe i am wrong) yes due 2 neuro problems u go 2 depression and hallucinations also do happen but at the initial stages.by then it is registered in ur mind that the person has left the world forever.

@bold black that is what is life.life never gives everything 2 every1 and life doesnt mean it gives u happiness every time.it gives u pain,guilt and despair too.

@zara thanku so much for this topic and yes hope that nupur fans learn that agony,frustration and wrath is not the solution 2 such situations but patience,faith and love. :)

regards,
aabha

hey Zee truly a beautiful topic!!!! 👍🏼

I loved dis prt:

But the fact lies.
That there is no end to mourning, but it is the ability to move on with life.
They have emerged from the phase but it keeps recurring, they have accepted and adapted themselves samrat as a trustee, mayank as a car engineer and gunjan as a counsellor, they have found their means to survive(even samrat he's waiting for death)...but the feeling's return- Of sadness, loneliness, guilt and despair, when the calender marks the date of her death.

At times in life there are things that we don't want to happen but have to accept, things we don't want to know but have to learn, and people we can't live without but have to let go, because there is something called as destiny...

None of us want to accept the death but we accept the void they have created, no one wants to know how it's to live without the person who means life to you, yet u learn to live. Death, loss and void created are same for all but the learning to live with the loss makes the difference.

And i have to say that MJHT has truly portrayed loss in a very apt and wonderful way!

Some people become sad, Some withdrawn and some regret, It's regret, i think that really is the worst kind of pain, guilt is bad, and sadness is bad, but regret is the sickly combination of both, which never allows u the peace till to get forgiveness or set thing right. And for people like Samrat they take this approach of regret, he regrets his living, he has learnt to live by the day with the memories of past and move on, yet by the end of the day he regrets his existence by trying to kill himself, and yet again the new day brings him a hope to live, hope to seek forgiveness to relieve him of his guilt and have a new beginning with the ones he loved..

Everyone is always going through tough things; the irony in it is that everyone thinks what they're going through is just as hard as what you are. Life isn't about surviving this, it's about understanding this and moving in the positive way, and Gunjan has exactly done that. Taken a positive approach to life, understanding and accepting the emptiness and filling it by solving others problems and yet revisiting her pain through them everyday...

Memory is a way of holding onto the things you love, the things you are, the things you never want to lose. Mayank has moved in life by holding his memories of his love which he never wants to lose. It's his cherish memories that gives him strength to move on. and it's these memories makes him bitter as never wants to lose them.

Death or void created isn't the greatest loss in life. The greatest loss is what dies inside us while we live. The death of someone we know always reminds us that we are still alive - perhaps for some purpose which we ought to re-examine. It's possible to go on, no matter how impossible it seems, and that in time, the grief . . . lessens. It may not go away completely, but after a while it's not so overwhelming. Nupur's one line on naya Samrat, nayi Gunjan, naya mayank and nayi Nupur gives so much positive message that with each end there is a new beginning and life has to move on '

I would just like to quote a few lines from the 2003 movie Uptown Girls: "Every story has an end. But in life, every ending is just a new beginning. People come, people go ' they'll drift in and out of your life, almost like characters in a favourite book. When you finally close the cover, the characters have told their story and you start up again with another book, complete with new characters and adventures. Then you find yourself focusing on the new ones. "

Hope made some sense ... just got carried away... zee jay girl 👏👏👏👏👏👏 fantastic post sweety...

realy nyccc n wonderful post..
u hv actuly decribed dere actions vryy wel

althgh its sumwhere true..bt stil wen its shwn on d tv..it seems quite hard 2 believe sch actions cz it hurts 2 c dem like dis...

I dont like to quote so...posting it all at once:)

@harish_mjht- m sorry to hear abt ur loss, yes i agree with u, its not easy to Move on. thnx:)

@kiely- thnx dear:)

@marian- thnx hun:)

@shruti- thnx dear, am glad u liked this post, i can understand the feeling, i saw a closed one dying every day....from a cheerful happy n bright student i saw the dead look in her eyes, her hollow smile and her hidden tears, She was ill and after months of struggle she gave up...my soulsis...n well 2 years n i think she's still a part of my life, feel miserable at times though, feels as if just like before she will walk in through the door:)

@mugdharajatfan- m glad i could justify mayank's actions and thoughts to u😊 thnx!

@mjhtmayur- thnx dear:)

@talkativetaurus- yes thts very true:) effects always remain..thts wat memories are for right? they always live.

@Aabha- thanks a lot dear:) i luv ur post as well...beautiful👏 u have elaborated the points beautifully ⭐️
And no probs hun, abt Bhopal tragedy, I know even i feel so bad, its my city..i mean in india m from bhopal...i have been there for vacz, n ma fam members were there when the whole tragedy took place, but none of them got affected...i know the details of the whole incident, but the sad part is, tht many ppl are aware of it now...when those ppl didnt get justice, this incident has been narrated to me since childhood, as to how bad situations were, It was total destruction, human's and animals all dead..totally demolished, it is truly heartbreaking tht all those ppl who have been fighting since so many yrs for justice have been disappointed so terribly by the so-called-justice.
I cant agree more, I felt MJHT has headed towards the end of its glorious journey with the season 2 idea, but when i saw it, i think tht MJHT has infact done a fabulous job! Its truly amazing they have handled the whole death and loss so well! Hats Off to them! 👏
hope that nupur fans learn that agony,frustration and wrath is not the solution 2 such situations but patience,faith and love. :)
Cant agree more...!:):)

@Adya- thnx dear:):)

@aarthi- Beautiful Post hun 👏 👏
My fav lines in ur post
Death, loss and void created are same for all but the learning to live with the loss makes the difference.⭐️

About samrat- I quite much agree, but regret is always there, i dont think regret comes only when there is an accidental/sudden death. Regret comes in many forms, some express regret by praising the dead, 'she was like a saint' or among the lines 'i should have treated her better, she was special' regret always comes with loss.
The worst incident i guess i can associate with regret was when i had 11th exams...a newbie who later became a part of our gang in skool..she hated her dad coz he used to drink a lot, he was addicted to it, we had our final's and she didnt come for the exam, we were sick worried and i guess we felt it before we were told, coz she didnt answer our calls or nythin..after the exam we heard the sad demise of her father, she regretted her own words, she kept saying i never hated my dad, tht he was the best...today she has moved on, and is supporting her mother and younger siblings.
This just shows Life moves on...and one has to go with the flow.
i agree Time Heals, it always does😊
About the beautiful lines u have quoted- Yes And when we start up again, we still carry the magic the first book created in our hearts.

@ar4ever- thnx dear:) Deaths on TV dont affect me much, bcoz i knw it was fiction and tht the actor still lives, probably one of the reasons i always try not to get attached to a serial or a character but the actor and the work unit:)

A case i associate to nupur will be wen i lost my young relative...i wasnt attached to her as she lived in india She was 14 and we had met in a relative's marriage, i had travelled to another place, when within a week i got the call informing abt her death in an accident, it was a shock.I was left with one thought in my mind She was too young to Die.

Many tragedies i have seen...but there are people who have suffered through far more worst.
Am glad that many members have opened up and discussed about their feelings and loss😊
When a person shares their loss with sum1, grief lessens, it feels light at heart. It feels good.

just one word loved ur post to the core.........

@juhi n mayadika- thnx dear😊

Originally posted by: aarthi.ramani

At times in life there are things that we don't want to happen but have to accept, things we don't want to know but have to learn, and people we can't live without but have to let go, because there is something called as destiny...

None of us want to accept the death but we accept the void they have created, no one wants to know how it's to live without the person who means life to you, yet u learn to live. Death, loss and void created are same for all but the learning to live with the loss makes the difference.

Death or void created isn't the greatest loss in life. The greatest loss is what dies inside us while we live. The death of someone we know always reminds us that we are still alive - perhaps for some purpose which we ought to re-examine.

I would just like to quote a few lines from the 2003 movie Uptown Girls: "Every story has an end. But in life, every ending is just a new beginning. People come, people go ' they'll drift in and out of your life, almost like characters in a favourite book. When you finally close the cover, the characters have told their story and you start up again with another book, complete with new characters and adventures. Then you find yourself focusing on the new ones. "

Hope made some sense ... just got carried away... zee jay girl 👏 fantastic post sweety...

@bold darn it aarthi.u hav outspoken me.

DEATH is sumthng which is uncertain.DESTINY.thats creative and sumtyms even dangerous and sum times it plays so bad that u r left with nothing but regrets,pain,cherished memories which leaves u in despair.i have personally faced such a trauma.i wud repeat DEATH is uncertain.i hav lost by 1st cousin my dearest bro.it was a shocker.he had just gone 2 take a bath and dint return for 15 mins.when my mother's sister went inside and saw he was dead (not interested in explaining the whole scenario)

void.thats sumthng that accompanies death.its sumthng which is unavoidable.it haunts and taunts u so badly that u ought 2 get into depression.u feel like bursting out crying and thats when u need a support.a moral support and even when u dont have that the guilt,regret kills u frm inside.

@blue can i keep hugging for u this! it is just so beautiful!🤗

@maroon beautiful re.beautiful quotation.but then i hav one single doubt.characters tell u many thngs but what about their memories?even though u move on memories never move on! it haunts u every where!

Originally posted by: Aabha.M

@bold darn it aarthi.u hav outspoken me.

DEATH is sumthng which is uncertain.DESTINY.thats creative and sumtyms even dangerous and sum times it plays so bad that u r left with nothing but regrets,pain,cherished memories which leaves u in despair.i have personally faced such a trauma.i wud repeat DEATH is uncertain.i hav lost by 1st cousin my dearest bro.it was a shocker.he had just gone 2 take a bath and dint return for 15 mins.when my mother's sister went inside and saw he was dead (not interested in explaining the whole scenario)

void.thats sumthng that accompanies death.its sumthng which is unavoidable.it haunts and taunts u so badly that u ought 2 get into depression.u feel like bursting out crying and thats when u need a support.a moral support and even when u dont have that the guilt,regret kills u frm inside.

@blue can i keep hugging for u this! it is just so beautiful!🤗

@maroon beautiful re.beautiful quotation.but then i hav one single doubt.characters tell u many thngs but what about their memories?even though u move on memories never move on! it haunts u every where!

abzs sweety thanks for reply it means so much dear... agree with ur each word ... Death uncertain and unavoidable, yet unacceptable..