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I wanted to put my views forward after seeing all the responses today.
First of all, one CANNOT separate Passion from Love where a man and a woman are concerned!
What else will separate 'Love' for you parents, family, friends, OTHER THAN Physical attraction!!
'Pure Love' is without passion!! really?! Do you guys think that our spouces/husbands/boyfriends shouldnt be attracted to us and we shudnt be attracted to them!
Regarding comparing Sajan and Mayur- Guys, Mayank ans Samrat are two very different people.
Mayank's character is defined by his calm, mental stability and logical manner, hes more towards the conservative type. Samrat on the other hand has always been gregarious, impulsive, believes in showing off everything he feels to the outside world. Hes always been ostentacious . He's the more emotional one who cannot hold back what he feels. They also come from very different family backgrounds.
OK, Gunjan and Nupur have had the same upbringing but , their interactions with their boyfriends has been completely different.
Both underwent changes when they came to the new city and met these new boys and were in their constant company and finally fell in Love.
Both have had different issues to face with their Lovers.
Samrat had always been insecure about Friendship, love and relationships in his life. He had acted quite erratically, and irrationally hen he thought Gunjan was going away from him. And Gunjan would actually cry simply when ACTING a scene of theor Breakup.
So there has been insecurity there always.
They reconciled after actually going thru the terrible feeling of having lost the other forever.
Their consummation shouldnt be considered a thought act , it just happened. People do all sorts of things wen they go thru emotional turmoil and then get saved from it.
They just got overwhelmed and the only next step to bring them closer was this. They trust each other so blindly, soo much and the Love has been proven soo many times, there was no hesitancy , and later no regret for either of them.
I am not condoning/ supporting pre-marital sex, cuz that is not what this is about. Its about not doing an absolute 180 on Sajan's character and trying to understand where the CV'c are coming from.
Again just my view. Mayur and SAjan are each greta and they have stuck to their characterizations.
We shouldnt get THAT OFFENDED about it.
And yes, sorry about the long post :)
First of all, one CANNOT separate Passion from Love where a man and a woman are concerned!
What else will separate 'Love' for you parents, family, friends, OTHER THAN Physical attraction!!
'Pure Love' is without passion!! really?! Do you guys think that our spouces/husbands/boyfriends shouldnt be attracted to us and we shudnt be attracted to them!
Regarding comparing Sajan and Mayur- Guys, Mayank ans Samrat are two very different people.
Mayank's character is defined by his calm, mental stability and logical manner, hes more towards the conservative type. Samrat on the other hand has always been gregarious, impulsive, believes in showing off everything he feels to the outside world. Hes always been ostentacious . He's the more emotional one who cannot hold back what he feels. They also come from very different family backgrounds.
OK, Gunjan and Nupur have had the same upbringing but , their interactions with their boyfriends has been completely different.
Both underwent changes when they came to the new city and met these new boys and were in their constant company and finally fell in Love.
Both have had different issues to face with their Lovers.
Samrat had always been insecure about Friendship, love and relationships in his life. He had acted quite erratically, and irrationally hen he thought Gunjan was going away from him. And Gunjan would actually cry simply when ACTING a scene of theor Breakup.
So there has been insecurity there always.
They reconciled after actually going thru the terrible feeling of having lost the other forever.
Their consummation shouldnt be considered a thought act , it just happened. People do all sorts of things wen they go thru emotional turmoil and then get saved from it.
They just got overwhelmed and the only next step to bring them closer was this. They trust each other so blindly, soo much and the Love has been proven soo many times, there was no hesitancy , and later no regret for either of them.
I am not condoning/ supporting pre-marital sex, cuz that is not what this is about. Its about not doing an absolute 180 on Sajan's character and trying to understand where the CV'c are coming from.
Again just my view. Mayur and SAjan are each greta and they have stuck to their characterizations.
We shouldnt get THAT OFFENDED about it.
And yes, sorry about the long post :)
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