SaJan not bad at all! - Page 2

Originally posted by: jasmeet khaneja

ur right......!!

I just found it strange that Gunjan didn't regret even going through that emotional moment in which they consumated.

She use to be the girl with principle and always kept distance !!BUT then I guess...love changes all....she must have blindely trusted Samrat.

Actually u r justifiable.....BUT people might have a different perspective to this. So...if someone disagrees...just try and understand that they probablly see it in a different way!!

Yeah...i agree
only if i can see where they're coming from. But trusting someone doesn't mean you go off and break all the rules. then why does something as pure as 'marriage' exist? Now what if all the stuff i read on youtube actually comes true and she gets pregnant and God forbids but something happens to Samrat? how is she going to justify this? they showed two 'cultured' girls...and by showing this they kinda ruined it. I mean even someone like Dia knew her boundaries and this was Gunjan....that REALLY sweet and cultured girl?

Amber and Jasmeet, I am not trying to force my view. I am just saying that today people just let loose on them completely.
I fully understand , and even wish they had not done that , cuz personally I found the shy and conservative gunjan and the unabashed Sammy very romantic, and today I seriously wished they had kept that that way.

But I also wanted to explain the other point of how characters progress(because I didnt see another explanation), and mitigate all the negativeness now associated with Sajan as people.
Just that they are not bad or evil, just what they did can be termed wrong.
I hope I do not come across as condoning anything and PROTESTING the other side.

Originally posted by: Amber_x

LOL! i don't think many of us engage in 'premarital sex acts' out of just lust if we're IN LOVE with whoever it is we're with. these things are usually flowing with the emotions or whatever you just described. but trying to show their consummation in a positive manner is still nothing tasteful. I'm sure we won't be giving these excuses to our parents/society/God (if any of us believe in Him) so why don't we just say it wasn't the 'right' thing to show, and by not showing Gunjan displeased with it they kinda ruined her innocence for me too.
just an opinion 😊

@bold:agree....i waz shocked 2 see her reaction.........

Originally posted by: ninand

Amber and Jasmeet, I am not trying to force my view. I am just saying that today people just let loose on them completely.
I fully understand , and even wish they had not done that , cuz personally I found the shy and conservative gunjan and the unabashed Sammy very romantic, and today I seriously wished they had kept that that way.

But I also wanted to explain the other point of how characters progress(because I didnt see another explanation), and mitigate all the negativeness now associated with Sajan as people.
Just that they are not bad or evil, just what they did can be termed wrong.
I hope I do not come across as condoning anything and PROTESTING the other side.

LOL! come on! we're just putting our views forth and trying to understand each other. We're not saying you're trying to force your views on us.
but i can't bring myself to accept any sort of justifications for this. Since I'm not originally from India, i cant say much but being neighbors i'm PRETTY sure we follow the same set of values.
and they butchered Gunjan's character for me. Even Sammy asked her he thought she was going to be mad at him

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I am glad u made this post
i was going to make it after reading so many posts about everyones views, i was like they are completely taking this in a wrong way

I on my side don't consider this a mistake
they both trust each other
and if you say that trusting someone doesnt just mean u go off on them, it sort of does...

if u trust someone blindly, u know that watever u do isn't going to change anything and u know that u wont loose the support if anything happens
what they went through with this act was justifiable.
Yes Gunjan is shown innocent and shy, but that was before...have u seen her now? she's more comfortable around people and Samrat and she is okay with showing her feelings....example: that dare sammy gave her to kiss him when MaYur had just shifted to the new house....the date they had...she wasn't going to cross any limit then but she trusts him
this was justifiable too, it just happened...and if none of them regret it then its not such a mistake
if one regreted this, then it can be called a mistake
the characters have grown since the time this show started...and Gunjan is one of those that has changed alot, she was this coward and always wanting to hide away in her books, but Samrat brought out the real Gunjan and showed her talent to everybody, which made her confident
her shy side went away from that...and the premarietal sex they had shouldn't be considered a mistake
and i dont think CVz are trying to promote anything wrong...this actually happens and everyone is quite aware of that....just cuz Nupur didn't do that, doesnt mean you can start comparing her with Gunjan...
SaJan didnt do anything until they were confident about everything...and now that they are, they don't regret anything and i wasn't shocked with Gunjan's reactions at all

sorry about the long post

agree with the topic maker!

Originally posted by: kris97

Agree with you totally.You put it in the right sense.thats what really happened today with sajan...