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Posted: 16 years ago

#31

Originally posted by: gr8_mms
ur point of view is not wrong but nups is also rite i mean y mayu having prob to show his love to every1 ???

Because Mayank said that he DOESN'T like PDA. Shouldn't Nupur respect that then? Instead of arguing with him?

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adi_gupta

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Posted: 16 years ago

#32

totally agree with preet

becoz thier is so chidish behaviour of nupur

even i think she and gunajn

the creative showing her selfish she even think of gunajn

at least if this is the reason of fight then this is useless

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Posted: 16 years ago

#33

Originally posted by: gr8_mms
ur point of view is not wrong but nups is also rite i mean y mayu having prob to show his love to every1 ???

actually what does nupur want mayank to do??? talk lowwe dowwe all the time ignoring the surroundings? hold her and sing love songs??? Why cant she once decide to do something mayank likes??? Its high time she realise that real (😆 now what am I talking) life is not like a movie story where the hero and the heroine can show affection anywhere and everywhere

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430105

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Posted: 16 years ago

#34

Originally posted by: shamil

actually what does nupur want mayank to do??? talk lowwe dowwe all the time ignoring the surroundings? hold her and sing love songs??? Why cant she once decide to do something mayank likes??? Its high time she realise that real (😆 now what am I talking) life is not like a movie story where the hero and the heroine can show affection anywhere and everywhere

You said it. Nupur needs to wake up to reality.

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Hgrhrnwl

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Posted: 16 years ago

#35

*sigh*....i agree Rachna...every word. But the fact remains that no matter how much we want it to happen like you said...what's the point in even speculating...?

Everything's already been ruined....and i have no doubts that this time too it will be HIM that will have to bow down. She'll never let her pride go...

And we'll probably see ANOTHER confession by him in front of everyone....and my guess is that even THAT won't satisfy her....

Nupur never really did anything ever for him. He did everything for her.

In fact the Nupur in those talant parade days understood him better than this one....even then she knew how hurt he would be to know she cheated on project....she CARED then. Right now the only one who cares about their relationship is him.

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Sookie

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Posted: 16 years ago

#36

Originally posted by: utfracks

Exactly. Their relationship never grew or matured. It is still naive. I agree that Mayank is more mature, whereas Nupur is naive, but that doesn't explain her silly behavior. She was innocent and smart at one time. What has happened to her now?

Mayank is definitely the stronger one here. He ACCEPTS Nupur the way she is, loves her for who she is, and never asks her to change. So why is it that Nupur can't do the same? Sure one good thing Mayank learnt is to loosen up a bit, but here, Nupur is trying to change his COMPLETE personality, which i detest. Infact, she should be influenced by mayank, and act sensible and mature sometimes. That is what i call growing in a relationship- changing for the good, inheriting the partner's good traits. Not trying to make your partner someone he is not.

In this relationship, Mayank has ALWAYS been the giver. There is no BALANCE. This relationship lacks understanding, and as a result, it leads to constant conflicts, which are always initiated by Nupur.

Quite frankly, I would not want to say that Nupur is fully wrong. A person cannot change who she or she is very rapidly. There are few people who can adapt quicker but few, like Nupur would take longer to adapt into newer roles.

Now it completely falls in Mayank's hands as to how he should proceed. If he understands the duality that Nupur faces, then he would back off and make her realize in her own time. But the risk of losing her is also there given the fact that she might be innocent but she is far more stubborn.
The other option he has is to placate her and do what she wants while simultaneously telling her that he is doing it for only her and that is not the way things should really work.

Nupur, internally is conflicted with her choice, I think. There are times when she is wondering what a guy like Mayank is doing with her. Really, I wondered that too. But we cannot help what our mind + heart chooses right? And all we have to do is trust. And that trust in his decision is lacking.

I can rant for ever on these two I think!
:-)
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430105

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Posted: 16 years ago

#37

Originally posted by: hgrhr
*sigh*....i agree Rachna...every word. But the fact remains that no matter how much we want it to happen like you said...what's the point in even speculating...?
Everything's already been ruined....and i have no doubts that this time too it will be HIM that will have to bow down. She'll never let her pride go...

And we'll probably see ANOTHER confession by him in front of everyone....and my guess is that even THAT won't satisfy her....

Nupur never really did anything ever for him. He did everything for her.

In fact the Nupur in those talant parade days understood him better than this one....even then she knew how hurt he would be to know she cheated on project....she CARED then. Right now the only one who cares about their relationship is him.

I ABSOLUTELY agree with EVERYTHING you said. TP days Nupur knew much more about Mayank than this lowe struck Nupur.

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archieeps

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Posted: 16 years ago

#38

Originally posted by: hgrhr
*sigh*....i agree Rachna...every word. But the fact remains that no matter how much we want it to happen like you said...what's the point in even speculating...?
Everything's already been ruined....and i have no doubts that this time too it will be HIM that will have to bow down. She'll never let her pride go...

And we'll probably see ANOTHER confession by him in front of everyone....and my guess is that even THAT won't satisfy her....

Nupur never really did anything ever for him. He did everything for her.

In fact the Nupur in those talant parade days understood him better than this one....even then she knew how hurt he would be to know she cheated on project....she CARED then. Right now the only one who cares about their relationship is him.

You stole the words right from my mouth Nidhi! Honestly, Nupur loved Mayank way more before the confession, even before her realisation, than she does now....It"s quite pathetic, really

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430105

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Posted: 16 years ago

#39

Originally posted by: archieeps

You stole the words right from my mouth Nidhi! Honestly, Nupur loved Mayank way more before the confession, even before her realisation, than she does now....It"s quite pathetic, really

You're right kainath. Nupur loved him even before realising. She always cared for him. But now, she has changed. And not for the good, but for the bad.

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archieeps

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Posted: 16 years ago

#40

@ Rachna:

Exactly...you know, I frankly wouldn't mind them now breaking up - at least that would be less painful to watch rather than torturing your eyes seeing Mayank behave like a bondservant answering to all of Nupur's silly whims...I can't see him getting his dignity stripped again....but of course, the creatives treat MN like vermin, so all of us should just brace ourselves for seeing an enthralling declaration of love, in front of the whole, darn, college...aww, how fweet :)

Edited by archieeps - 16 years ago

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