Nupur should APOLOGIZE For a change

Okay, so ever since the MaYur Fight precap has been aired, and The reason leading to the fight, everyone seems to be supporting Nupur. But I'd like to differ here.

I think, for a change, Mayank is being true to his character. He is the cool nerd, the topper of Excel and extremely reserved. He has always despised showing off in public, and I'm happy that trait in him still remains, as of now.

So coming to the fight, the reason is completely stupid. And I don't see why Nupur is right. According to Nupur, she has started feeling that Mayank doesn't love her. Okay, to prove her wrong, let us recount what all he has done for her.

- He organized a date with horrible settings, only because Nupur loves such things.

- He actually wore an ugly locket just for her. (And it wasn't his fault that it got lost, accidents do happen)

- He jumped into the pool to fetch the locket, just for her.

- He made mayapari cutouts for her, no matter how silly thy might be, just for her happiness.

- He's always respected her privacy and decisions, and given her that space.

If a guy didn't love a girl so much, was he out of his mind to do all of this crappy stuff?

Now, on to Nupur, when have we really seen her expressing GENUINE love to Mayank? Has she ever accompanied him to the library, ask him what problems he has, ever shown her concern for him? And SHE loves him more than how much HE loves her? That's a joke in itself.

For Nupur, expressing love means calling him "RAJ", gushing over him and clinging on to him, marofying stupid filmy dialogues, comparing him to film actors? That is not love, that is just mere obsession.

And honestly, Nupur has NO right to say that Mayank doesn't love her. It should have been the other way round. Didn't Mayank explain to her why he didn't like PDA? Then why all of a sudden she's kicking up tantrums? Mayank wanted to go to the library, to catch up on the missed notes, but Nupur didn't let him. Now is that how she shows her love? Library is where Mayank actually belongs. Tomorrow, she might ask him to STOP studying, all in the name of LOWE? Pathetic. I don't think Mayank ever stopped her for anything, so why Nupur?

Mayank has a point. Nupur needs to understand Mayank's personality. He may not be the best in emoting, so she ALWAYS gets him wrong. Maybe he can't express his love, (like he said to her, "main shaayad keh nahi pata, lekin mein bhi bohot hurt hota hoo") That line had really touched me, because that's exactly how he is. And Nupur NEVER understands him.

Had she EVER shown some understanding towards Mayank, her complaint would be justified. When have we seen her genuinely expressing her love to Mayank? It's always Mayank who does everything. If she can show it to him that she loves him unconditionally, then maybe she would have been right. But right now, i think, mayank is right.

And I really don't want Mayank to give in to her tantrums. I want him to ignore her for a while, so she realizes his importance. Since Nupur is yet to fall completely in love with Mayank. She should flashback to whatever he did for her, his explanation at the farmhouse about pda, and she should realize her mistake. I want Nupur to apologize for a change, and NOT Mayank.

guys, i'd really like to know what you'll think.

ur point of view is also right.....i think nupur also understands mayank's point but she doesn't like mayank always says the same things for so many times as log kya sochege.......well agar main nupur ki jagah hoti to main bhi yahi karti.........par vo dono apni jagah par sahi hai....to kiissi ko to sacrifice karna hoga na....aur jab kissi ko aissa karna ho to fight is obvious....so we must not to be worry
mayank hai na vo nupur ko handle kar lega vo nupur usse samaj bhi legi

well I partially agree..completely agree on Mayank loving Nupur a lot and proving that time and again...and I too always feel that Nupur hasnt really showed her love the way Mayank has done by understanding her and respecting her for what she really is..I too feel that it shouldnt be always Mayank who understands her stand..sometimes she should also try and understand him and respect him for what he is"tum sab ho par sabse jyada tum Mayank ho"..she should mean what she said..even if she didnt agree on Mayank's POV about PDA,she could have talked with him about it,rather than telling him that he doesnt love her or is ashamed of her..I understand that she doesnt like hiding her love and feels hurt but rather than doing emotional atyachar on Mayank,she should talk about it with him -make him understand her POV and try to understand his POV too..

what you say is right yaar.. maybe this might be the so called "TWIST" or "EMOTIONAL BONDING"... We asked no fights and breakups but i think what ever we ask for mayur the creatives will do exactly the opposite so that we hate the show as soon as possible and they can show that no one is watching mayur and they can be removed from the show.....

Am totally with you..

I understand why nupur feels bad, but she never tries to understand mayanks pov.

She wants him to be romantic(or more like filmy romantic), leave library and notes, she wants him to act all coupley. In short she wants him to be what he is not.
Where as mayank does things that she likes, you ve pointed out all the things that mayank has done only because nupur likes it.

May be coz she doesnt actually love mayank. thats why she easily said shayad ye pyaar hai hi nahi where as mayank could not ever hear it, he stopped her from finishing the sentence.

Originally posted by: Bronze.

Am totally with you..

I understand why nupur feels bad, but she never tries to understand mayanks pov.

She wants him to be romantic(or more like filmy romantic), leave library and notes, she wants him to act all coupley. In short she wants him to be what he is not.
Where as mayank does things that she likes, you ve pointed out all the things that mayank has done only because nupur likes it.

May be coz she doesnt actually love mayank. thats why she easily said shayad ye pyaar hai hi nahi where as mayank could not ever hear it, he stopped her from finishing the sentence.

Exactly. Did Mayank EVER ask Nupur to STOP being filmy, and ask her to change? He loves her for who she is, so she should love him for who he is too! But each time we keep seeing Nupur express her "Love" to Mayank by calling him Raj. It's like, she loves Raj, NOT Mayank.

Originally posted by: preethis

what you say is right yaar.. maybe this might be the so called "TWIST" or "EMOTIONAL BONDING"... We asked no fights and breakups but i think what ever we ask for mayur the creatives will do exactly the opposite so that we hate the show as soon as possible and they can show that no one is watching mayur and they can be removed from the show.....

What ever it is i really want to know how much mayank is going to do now to calm nupur... (but i reallly want the opposite to happen)... maybe another horrible cut out or may be he may put their picture in notice board and make it public...

Preethi, creatives will NEVER take our requests seriously. If THIS is the twist, i'll seriously BANG my head on the wall. And i DON'T want Mayank apologizing to Nupur, I want Nupur to apologize to him. This time, i support Mayank completely. He is ABSOLUTELY right in my opinion.

Originally posted by: Bul3

well I partially agree..completely agree on Mayank loving Nupur a lot and proving that time and again...and I too always feel that Nupur hasnt really showed her love the way Mayank has done by understanding her and respecting her for what she really is..I too feel that it shouldnt be always Mayank who understands her stand..sometimes she should also try and understand him and respect him for what he is"tum sab ho par sabse jyada tum Mayank ho"..she should mean what she said..even if she didnt agree on Mayank's POV about PDA,she could have talked with him about it,rather than telling him that he doesnt love her or is ashamed of her..I understand that she doesnt like hiding her love and feels hurt but rather than doing emotional atyachar on Mayank,she should talk about it with him -make him understand her POV and try to understand his POV too..

Yup, maybe they could talk it out. But have MN EVER talked in general? All we see is Nupur complaining each time and Mayank trying to manofy her. But this time, i want it the other way round.

Originally posted by: utfracks

Exactly. Did Mayank EVER ask Nupur to STOP being filmy, and ask her to change? He loves her for who she is, so she should love him for who he is too! But each time we keep seeing Nupur express her "Love" to Mayank by calling him Raj. It's like, she loves Raj, NOT Mayank.

I think mayank is a little too understanding for putting up this RAJ madnss.
I dont anyother guy would like being compared to another guy(even if he is fictional).

How would nupur feel if mayank compares her with some other girl? am sure she will be totally pissed..