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Posted: 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Nyc post...though i wont talk abt the physical violence here...

Abuse is not just what can be seen...its also what is inflicted on the soul & the minds. The real tragedy is some women think that abuse is part of life & equality & respect are alien terms. In some societies you are considered an oddity if u fight for your rights, to the point that you would soon start questioning your own sanity and righteousness.

i have often wondered(and it is in regards to society as observed my moi)...
1. When women are blessed with more compassion, why do some of them use it against other women?
2.Why does compromise become an essentially woman trait if not from the beginning of her life...then down the track?
3. When a divorce happens, why is it mostly the girl's fault & why does the world try & make the girl understand?
4. Why does a family still crave for a son & why do daughters have to struggle to be considered heiress apparent?
5. What was the original need to have 2 sets of opposites denoting the 2 sexes in almost all the languages...girl/boy & man/woman, ladka-ladki & aadmi-aurat & the list goes on?? Why cant a girl always be a girl & what's the need to accentuate her transformation into woman?
6. And worse still...i now hear of females inflicting male violence too. Why??

Violence has no justifications & no perpetrator is excusable. If u raise your hand or volume, no matter what the provocation, u r still a wrongdoer. It is more horrendous when as part of the modern world, you do it against a woman or child.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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well what that UNO Secretary Ban ki moon is giving message for others, is he considering what he is saying?

What about the torture on Dr. Afia Siddiqui? Ban ki moon is the UNO's secretary general. for what? only for speeches n giving messages? y UN can't stop that?


I don't believe she is a terrorist but for a moment if v believe she is or was a terrorist does it make sense to make a women prisoner with men who gang rap her every day. she has been tortured so much that v can't even recognize her. If they think she is a terrorist better to kill her than torture her every day n making her a gone case
Details about dr. Afia
http://www.draafia.org/about-aafia-siddiqui/


Dr. Afia before



in American jail after torture


Islam gave rights to women in the beginning, the women were being sold, they were being buried alive just immediate after their birth just for being a girl, islam stopped it not verbally like ban ki moon but practically. Islam gave a women respect of a mother, sister, daughter and a wife. The right of the mother is 3 times more than father of children.

Prophet Mohammad Peace be upon him said Paradise lies under the feet of your mother (Mu'jam al-Kabeer 2/289 Hadeeth # 2202)

@TM thanks for making such post, whatever i replied is just coz of Banki moon's statement. I normally don't visit ML just came to check something n found ur post. Women can't be saved by only giving statements, it should be practical which is not seen. only in america a women get raped in 1.3 min acc to FBI statistics 1990 that is what have been reported not the relation by their own choice.

[YOUTUBE]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EYNHZ4s4z0c[/YOUTUBE]


NO OFFENSE to any one, i just wrote what came in my mind after reading Ban ki moon's message, that double face n double standards of UN...


TM made a good post 😊 i appreciate her for it


Edited by hukshila - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Thank you for this message! Its so important that even though we all say that our world is progressing and becoming modern, where is the change in women abuse? The most modern couple could be facing problems with abuse. Its really sad how these things are hardly given importance with the commericial world of today...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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huslika story is moving and very sad,i wish no woman suffers like that..but i feel who are we to question un as they stil have acomplished a lot,many places it had failed in past...but still we should look at positive aspect ...i want to say this topic is for all women no m,atter what they follow or beleive in...thanks for bringing this to our attention...be it a forgein woman suffering in iranian prison,soudi prison on falsified allegations or in american prison...all suffer same and all deserve respect
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: sami01

huslika story is moving and very sad,i wish no woman suffers like that..but i feel who are we to question un as they stil have acomplished a lot,many places it had failed in past...but still we should look at positive aspect ...i want to say this topic is for all women no m,atter what they follow or beleive in...thanks for bringing this to our attention...be it a forgein woman suffering in iranian prison,soudi prison on falsified allegations or in american prison...all suffer same and all deserve respect


Lets not discuss what UN is doing n what not doing, they just do whatever is in benefit of super powers most of the time without bothering the common people, here on this link you can see what Israelis are doing with women n UN is silent as usual, one of my online friends keeps on posting updates like this which hurts so much😭

http://occupiedpalestine.wordpress.com/2011/11/29/stone-cold-justice-israels-detention-torture-of-children-policies/


[YOUTUBE]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EBPZwZ8rCgA[/YOUTUBE]

[YOUTUBE]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2RnPcvruJaE[/YOUTUBE]



Edited by hukshila - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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hmmm all i can say huslika is taht they r doing a lot ..it is easy to critisize...people suffer all over the world..and they belong to all faiths...united nations is makinga huge effort to restore human rights for women,helping a lot we shoudl appreciate tahn critisize
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Posted: 13 years ago
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we again have difference of opinion here, as i stated not only faith but they do whatever super powers wants to do. what i mean to say that UN didn't try to stop them even they can but they are not going to do as they just do what is beneficial for them. that's my opinion about that.

its good if you believe they are working well. 😊

no further arguments as we both are looking at pic from different ends so no comments
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Posted: 13 years ago
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thanks huslkia..yes
Un has its limitations,even i hate the veto effects and israel influence on united states...
but i feel if we ignore that aspect ..they r doing a lot on humanatarian basis..be it floods in Pakistan, or earth quake on turkey and they stand for palestinian people as much as they can with their hands tied...suffering of that region is a tragedy which is shameful conduct in modern world... but i agree influence of Israel and united states needs to decrease and israel needs to understand that hostility wil egt them no where...india and indians support palestinians and their sufferings..but yes its a big debate...
lets not bring what a particular faith says about women abuse...though its a hard fact that two most women abusing countries are soudi arabia and iran tooo ...along with many more...just my thoughts
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: sami01

thanks huslkia..yes

Un has its limitations,even i hate the veto effects and israel influence on united states...
but i feel if we ignore that aspect ..they r doing a lot on humanatarian basis..be it floods in Pakistan, or earth quake on turkey and they stand for palestinian people as much as they can with their hands tied...suffering of that region is a tragedy which is shameful conduct in modern world... but i agree influence of Israel and united states needs to decrease and israel needs to understand that hostility wil egt them no where...india and indians support palestinians and their sufferings..but yes its a big debate...
lets not bring what a particular faith says about women abuse...though its a hard fact that two most women abusing countries are soudi arabia and iran tooo ...along with many more...just my thoughts


i didn't have research about iran but my iranan friends never complained like this, rest Allah knows. About Saudia that is the only country where rape ratio is less than all world coz of strict law implications while in america this ratio is very high, a women is being reaped in 1.3./minuts acc to FBI statistics 1990 that is what have been reported not the relation by their own choice. ref to the video i have posted on last page. Women abusing is every especially in developed countries inspite of all their security arrangements n laws


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