My take on the Pallavi-Mandaar situation

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Posted: 4 years ago
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All our emotions are really high because of this track but hear me out guys:

Even I didn't like Pallavi rushing back to the Ds and Almost getting ready to feed that Bandar but we must not forget that Mandaar was her husband for intents and purposes.

Not as a living person but Pallavi has lived with his death for 2 years As his widow and in his house. She has visited the police station daily to get an update on his death. She has never loved him but he was her husband and that accounts for some affection atleast


I am not saying that Pallavi has some soft spot for him but to suddenly see a dead man alive and that too your husband can jolt any person and Pallavi is no different.

Right now she must be in such an emotional state that she can't think straight. She simply can't say, "OK! Tata bye, my work here is done"

It's her ex-husband we are talking about not some random family member. Unless and until it's proves that he is fake, she would still be tied to him.

So we should all give her some time to evaluate the situation and come out stronger and become PRR in front of Mandaar as well

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Posted: 4 years ago
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I have no problem with Pallavi going to D house or helping Mandaar. I can understand her feeling responsible towards the family. She can do it by going there in broad daylight with her husband, MIL or devar. I am sure they will go with her. What was the urgency? No grown up man dies if he doesn't eat one time.

The biggest problem here is she didn't wait for RR who had gone to bring her a gift. Even if we ignore that why didn't she atleast callhim on the way to explain the situation. The whole scenario looked like she didn;t even think of RR once before doing all these. RR has a reputation to maintain in the society. Media will have a field day if they get the wind of the sitation. RR might not care about his reputation but how will he feel reading nasty stuff written about his wife.?

Regarding feeding Mandaar... it was gross. She is smart enough to trap Sunny and Keerti and to even fool RR but couldn't think of any way to avoid it? . No woman feeds any man other than her husband, father , brother and son.? Herethough its not even proven he is Mandaar. He can be an imposter too. It was total cringy. Can't justify.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Cannot blame pallu as she is in between love and responsibility. Yes she must choose one side but not this time as she is trying to balance...

Her heart is gem of gold and cares for others 😊 ….

One side she is thinking of mandar due to her D’s fly even she does not love him . Anything happens to him ,all of them will blame pallu and the lady doctor is becoming a pain🤬🤬by supporting mandar

Another side her love for Raghav ❤️ is her present and future no doubt . Her soul and body belongs to RR !!!

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: Jiarao

I have no problem with Pallavi going to D house or helping Mandaar. I can understand her feeling responsible towards the family. She can do it by going there in broad daylight with her husband, MIL or devar. I am sure they will go with her. What was the urgency? No grown up man dies if he doesn't eat one time.

The biggest problem here is she didn't wait for RR who had gone to bring her a gift. Even if we ignore that why didn't she atleast callhim on the way to explain the situation. The whole scenario looked like she didn;t even think of RR once before doing all these. RR has a reputation to maintain in the society. Media will have a field day if they get the wind of the sitation. RR might not care about his reputation but how will he feel reading nasty stuff written about his wife.?

Regarding feeding Mandaar... it was gross. She is smart enough to trap Sunny and Keerti and to even fool RR but couldn't think of any way to avoid it? . No woman feeds any man other than her husband, father , brother and son.? Herethough its not even proven he is Mandaar. He can be an imposter too. It was total cringy. Can't justify.

True! The feeding was cringy but Pallavi in being arm twisted especially by that irritating doctor. Pallavi must come to her senses soon

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: ..sur..

True! The feeding was cringy but Pallavi in being arm twisted especially by that irritating doctor. Pallavi must come to her senses soon

She has all her senses intact in her dealings with Raos. 😆I woud have happily given her time to come to senses if it hadn't involved RRs reputation which he has earned only because of his sheer determination and hardwork.
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Posted: 4 years ago
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She was nervous and didn’t know how to handle the situation. I think she feels like she owes it to the deshmukh family to help Mandar get better. So I’m gonna ignore her actions this time. I just hope she doesn’t make a habit out of it. I kind did wish she went straight yo Raghav and told him that Baba called and asked him to accompany her to the Deshmukh house. I feel like that would have help solidify their relationship (not that they don’t trust each other -but it would have been a sense of reassurance for both). I also really felt bad for Raghav as Pallavi gave Sunny and Keerti an opportunity to taunt him and also make her look bad in front of Amma. I feel like Amma is being really restless about how all of this is affecting Raghav- Amma might have a convo with Pallqvj soon, especially one Manday comes to the RR mansion (as amma was seen in the BTS).


— I also really hope that Pallavi asks Raghav to come along with her to the puja at the Deshmukh’s, rather than him also being asked/ or him just saying he is coming also.


I really want Pallavi to talk back to the doctor and Sulochana Kaku, telling her no she will be there to help out, but that all she can do. It is not her responsibility to feed him and convince him if he is angry. I mean she has no relationship with him. It was an arranged marriage and he “died” the day of their wedding. So they are basically still strangers to each other. i really hope Raghav come with a lawyer and be like Pallavi is legally my wife because you were dead! im waiting for those lines to shut Mandar and his family's actions. i really hope Aai is on pallavi's side and doesnt go negative due to her Son's childishness.


Would they keep asking her to come back, had Pallavi’s marriage not happenEd recently but like year ago? Would they keep asking her to come back, had she been married of with the Deshmukh’s permission (let’s say not raghav)? I also love it how Baba who doesnt ever listen to Pallavi, is now so sweet!!!

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: annjose1998

She was nervous and didn’t know how to handle the situation. I think she feels like she owes it to the deshmukh family to help Mandar get better. So I’m gonna ignore her actions this time. I just hope she doesn’t make a habit out of it. I kind did wish she went straight yo Raghav and told him that Baba called and asked him to accompany her to the Deshmukh house. I feel like that would have help solidify their relationship (not that they don’t trust each other -but it would have been a sense of reassurance for both). I also really felt bad for Raghav as Pallavi gave Sunny and Keerti an opportunity to taunt him and also make her look bad in front of Amma. I feel like Amma is being really restless about how all of this is affecting Raghav- Amma might have a convo with Pallqvj soon, especially one Manday comes to the RR mansion (as amma was seen in the BTS).


— I also really hope that Pallavi asks Raghav to come along with her to the puja at the Deshmukh’s, rather than him also being asked/ or him just saying he is coming also.


I really want Pallavi to talk back to the doctor and Sulochana Kaku, telling her no she will be there to help out, but that all she can do. It is not her responsibility to feed him and convince him if he is angry. I mean she has no relationship with him. It was an arranged marriage and he “died” the day of their wedding. So they are basically still strangers to each other. i really hope Raghav come with a lawyer and be like Pallavi is legally my wife because you were dead! im waiting for those lines to shut Mandar and his family's actions. i really hope Aai is on pallavi's side and doesnt go negative due to her Son's childishness.


Would they keep asking her to come back, had Pallavi’s marriage not happenEd recently but like year ago? Would they keep asking her to come back, had she been married of with the Deshmukh’s permission (let’s say not raghav)? I also love it how Baba who doesnt ever listen to Pallavi, is now so sweet!!!

Yess I wish she makes it loud and clear to Mandaar that not only Raghav but she herself wants to be her wife and they love each other. She must keep that doc in check coz she is becoming too commanding

Also Pallavi needs a voice of reason to get out of this haze and that can be Amma. I have no hopes from Aai as she would definitely want Paalvi to be a Deshmukh again

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Posted: 4 years ago
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She shouldn't give up upto any shit. Going there, making him understand and all of this is still understandable. But feeding him ? It would have been okay if they lived as husband and wife but they didn't even live for 24 hours, he is just husband of name sake so doing this to a complete stranger and now not even her husband is weird.

If she wasn't feeding him, he wouldn't have died.

I hope next time Pallavi takes a stand. But looking at the upcoming picture big Mandar and Pallavi I am sure we r in for more disaster

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: Guguminti

She shouldn't give up upto any shit. Going there, making him understand and all of this is still understandable. But feeding him ? It would have been okay if they lived as husband and wife but they didn't even live for 24 hours, he is just husband of name sake so doing this to a complete stranger and now not even her husband is weird.

If she wasn't feeding him, he wouldn't have died.

I hope next time Pallavi takes a stand. But looking at the upcoming picture big Mandar and Pallavi I am sure we r in for more disaster

I think all this is done to drive a wedge between them. SunKi aur someone else might take this chance to badmouth Pallavi in front of Raghav. Raghav must keep his trust intact on her and Pallavi must uphold the sanctity and trust of their new found love

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Posted: 4 years ago
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If this matter goes to court

sayavaadi harishchandra ki behen won't stand a chance in front of Mandar's lawyer

he trapped your brother

yes bu

he forced and blackmailed you

yes bu

she won't get a chance to say i want to be in this marriage with Raghav out of my own will i love my husband



RR's reputation will be on stake and media will have a field day When family is why not media

i'm scared of one thing which i bet SunKi will do

call Pallavi RR's mistress They won't wait for any ruling of the court

Pallavi married to Mandar living with RR I can bet on it Sunny's words out of Keerti's mouth


Raghav is right and he knows the world and deshmukhs more than Pallavi

he knows they have used her and will continue to

Her achhai is her own enemy

sanki made it sound like pata nahi kya ho gaya so she informed amma and left

yes she could have informed him on her way but her mind was preoccupied


She's happy that her aaibabakabeta is back

all she felt for Mandar during their phone convos was izzat

she doesn't know the truth

she is being manipulated

Raghav's fear she isn't getting the magnitude of it


mandar won't die if he doesn't eat one meal

that doc omg is she insane telling a woman to feed a man against her will Pallavi was uncomfortable she must have sent a silent prayer and god sent Raghav

she was relieved to see him


Pallavi is blind when it comes to trashmukhs

she couldn't see his expression

it gave me the creeps


Pallavi better come to her senses for her own sake


let her be she will learn her lessons but if you don't learn your lessons on time you fail


more than being irritated with her because of her goodness i feel sorry for her


she needs to wake up fast and show how strong she is i'm not saying as PRR but P herself enough of your shit gth


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