My take on the Pallavi-Mandaar situation - Page 4

Originally posted by: lateuser1234

No I don't hv to. I saw less then 10-15 sec of episode before R arrived at D house. That is y I m sure Online TRP will be down for sure. Its not about ITV, its about story. If as an art and story something bores u then u wont read it. Others may like it their choice. I feel this part of book is stupid.

The way it was being shown and maturity incarnated she is shown, her behavior is almost 180 deg. So these inconsistencies is wt absurd for me. A fun fact... Ppl justifying her action in accident case that R is emotional and P is right to correct him when it was about her sister he cared and had been away for 10 years and had history with are saying she is not wrong.

Let me be blunt. She is two timing and cheating on Raghav. U dont need to always hide physically to cheat. U cn do that with talks and manipulation too. Reason can be x y and z but that just would be helpful in her redemption arc. Here it is still cheating.

I really think that actor is good. His subtle acts r well calibrated but 95% of times his features r exaggerated and thus looks creepy nd bad.

I'm sorry but you lost me at two-timing and cheating. We can call her stupid, impulsive and carelessness right now but how does it all amount to cheating?

Let's not forget it all happened on the same day, finding Mandar, bringing him to the Ds, love confession, him not eating food.

It would be emotionally overwhelming for anybody and again I would say he was niether lost nor is he some relative. He was presumed dead and was her husband for all intents and purposes. She lived as his widow, in his house, amongst his family for 2 years and too suddenly see him alive is a shock to put it mildly.

She is still very much in love with Raghav but let's give her some time before pronouncing her as a cheater. It's a very tricky situation and she not only needs guidance but trust also which RR is giving and I'm sure she will come out stronger

Originally posted by: ..sur..

I'm sorry but you lost me at two-timing and cheating. We can call her stupid, impulsive and carelessness right now but how does it all amount to cheating?

Let's not forget it all happened on the same day, finding Mandar, bringing him to the Ds, love confession, him not eating food.

It would be emotionally overwhelming for anybody and again I would say he was niether lost nor is he some relative. He was presumed dead and was her husband for all intents and purposes. She lived as his widow, in his house, amongst his family for 2 years and too suddenly see him alive is a shock to put it mildly.

She is still very much in love with Raghav but let's give her some time before pronouncing her as a cheater. It's a very tricky situation and she not only needs guidance but trust also which RR is giving and I'm sure she will come out stronger

Check what is cheating nd two timing definition. Its text book. We shouldn't put emotions in common things.

Originally posted by: ..sur..

I'm sorry but you lost me at two-timing and cheating. We can call her stupid, impulsive and carelessness right now but how does it all amount to cheating?

Let's not forget it all happened on the same day, finding Mandar, bringing him to the Ds, love confession, him not eating food.

It would be emotionally overwhelming for anybody and again I would say he was niether lost nor is he some relative. He was presumed dead and was her husband for all intents and purposes. She lived as his widow, in his house, amongst his family for 2 years and too suddenly see him alive is a shock to put it mildly.

She is still very much in love with Raghav but let's give her some time before pronouncing her as a cheater. It's a very tricky situation and she not only needs guidance but trust also which RR is giving and I'm sure she will come out stronger

@bold: good point. Just because a lot of us are criticizing / wondering why Pallavi is soo agreeable to D-fam/Mandar/Dr demands, I don't think that means she's cheating. She herself has said multiple times that she loves Raghav, she's Raghav's wife, forever. It would be wrong to just ignore this.

I think the issue is in front of D fam, unless it's a situation where Raghav is wrongly accused, she does not yet have the courage to openly say I'm placing Raghav above you (the family). Family is family, but even parents you grew up with your whole life are people you can go against if they're wrong. In this situation, Mandar, D-fam (& the Dr especially), are wrong to ask all of this of Pallavi. Pallavi just needs to recognize that. By staying silent or not even remotely protesting, she's given implicit approval. We all could read her expressions, but expressions won't change the situation.

I really think everyone's just a bit unsettled by how easily she can push Raghav to the side when D-fam comes calling. That's what's got everyone a bit perplexed & irritated. She knows he'd be upset, yet doesn't text, or call or think to let him know. I'm sure she'll redeem herself. She doesn't want to lose Raghav, but Raghav can't be the one who always bails her out of these situations. Eventually she'll need to stand up for herself. It's something that as wife, she has to eventually fix. If she wants that future with Raghav, if they have kids, etc., she can't always come running back to her maayka every time they have a problem. She's not their band aid. I'm sure this situation is where she'll figure out how to balance both D-fam & Raghav. This will be a learning experience for her.

Originally posted by: fria319

@bold: good point. Just because a lot of us are criticizing / wondering why Pallavi is soo agreeable to D-fam/Mandar/Dr demands, I don't think that means she's cheating. She herself has said multiple times that she loves Raghav, she's Raghav's wife, forever. It would be wrong to just ignore this.

I think the issue is in front of D fam, unless it's a situation where Raghav is wrongly accused, she does not yet have the courage to openly say I'm placing Raghav above you (the family). Family is family, but even parents you grew up with your whole life are people you can go against if they're wrong. In this situation, Mandar, D-fam (& the Dr especially), are wrong to ask all of this of Pallavi. Pallavi just needs to recognize that. By staying silent or not even remotely protesting, she's given implicit approval. We all could read her expressions, but expressions won't change the situation.

I really think everyone's just a bit unsettled by how easily she can push Raghav to the side when D-fam comes calling. That's what's got everyone a bit perplexed & irritated. She knows he'd be upset, yet doesn't text, or call or think to let him know. I'm sure she'll redeem herself. She doesn't want to lose Raghav, but Raghav can't be the one who always bails her out of these situations. Eventually she'll need to stand up for herself. It's something that as wife, she has to eventually fix. If she wants that future with Raghav, if they have kids, etc., she can't always come running back to her maayka every time they have a problem. She's not their band aid. I'm sure this situation is where she'll figure out how to balance both D-fam & Raghav. This will be a learning experience for her.

Yes! The lack of retaliation is the only thing that gets me. She doesn't want to do any of this but her protest is niether express nor implied. She needs to tell them in certain terms that all she wants is for Mandaar to settle in his family and she can't give him anything else and I hope this happens sooner.

1st of all pallavi should stop to present a big list of promises before raghav because these don't sound euphoric with her actions. She is in twisted mind & oscillating situation. Her voice even becomes collapsed before mandar when mandar demands her coming back to him with loud voice before raghav as if she herself doesn't know with whom she should come. I don't give any importance on her promises that she is giving to raghav in their bedroom. So according to my opinion she only gives hope to raghav when she is ready to do action against mandar & when she is ready to protest mandar when he claims her as his wife forcefully.