Like I guessed, you're making a generalized statement based on your own experience. I'm sorry that you had a bad experience, but there are others who have experienced the love of a joint family as well. How can you just disregard them and call all joint families trash? And how can you know whether or not it's personal to me?
Standing up for your self-respect is good, but sometimes a little bit of sweetness achieves what bluntness can't. And yes, there are situations where you should never compromise, but if you're not even willing to try, then maybe you are just as flawed as them.
I guess when it comes to trying I am very logic oriented and I don't want to waste my energy on futile pursuits!! Perhaps my sweetness is only reserved for my parents and friends . And as for personal I said don't take it personally I just said my viewpoint about a certain thing it is not necessary for you to agree with it. Just agree to disagree that's all. Let's forget about this topic and discuss the show. And I would request you please don't be angry on me. 🤗