Pallavi is still not important for Raghav yet - Page 4

Originally posted by: meghumonu

We have to think the situation from Raghav's side also. The man has gone through the worst kind of trauma imaginable for any human being. He saw his father and younger brother lynched to death. His own mother and sister hated him and disowned him. He lived alone with no support and had to do every kind of legal and illegal things to support his family . Even then it was not enough and Amma and Keerthi still hated him. From a happy going College boy to a lonely, aggressive, depressed don . Now after 10 years he had reconciled with his mother, his only living sibling his sister is with him and he has a lovely wife who loves him like crazy and who he himself loves as much as she to him. But here comes the tragedy his wife's ex husband was killed by an accident caused by his sister. And everybody knows when it comes to family Raghav is emotional and do not think rationally. He wants to protect his last living sibling at any cost because he knows if he cannot save Keerthi then he will self destruct from guilt and then on the other side is his life partner Pallavi who has done so much for Raghav. She was the one who made efforts and helped reconciliation with his mother. She disowned her own family and chose him as her priority. He knows she can go to any extent for him and here comes the guilt because this sweet girl's life was first destroyed by his sister killing her ex husband and making her a widow in her first wedding night and then he maligned her character for a crime which she did not even commit. Though after all that she has still accepted her marriage with him and has fallen in love with him. He believes that Pallavi deserves someone far better than him and he do not deserve her. His self sacrifice is not only for Keerthi but for Pallavi also as he knows he is not ready to lose Pallavi and separation from her will kill him but he still chose to do it because he wants Pallavi to get a closure and move on and live her life and find someone better to spend her life with. Only when you truly love someone then only you can go to the extent of self sacrifice knowing it will kill you but you do it either way because that is true love.

Well this show portrays reality so well I sometimes get amazed am I watching an ITV show or something from real world? As for Raghav choosing Keerthi over Pallavi aren't we all just become blind when it comes to our family. Rational thinking takes a back place in mind. Also Raghav cannot tell Pallavi that he is doing it so that she can get a closure and move on in life . It will seems like he is doing a favor on Pallavi when in reality it is not and Pallavi this time has the higher moral ground. He do not want to burden her. So Raghvi relationship cannot be expressed in simple terms like she cares for him but he does not.

yeah my goodness this show feels like its happening in the real world

I sympathize more with Pallu in this situation but I do think both of them could have figured something out together

Pallu wants justice for Mandar and Raghav wants to protect his sister

unfortunately there is nothing wrong in both cases, but Raghav is trying to hide the truth and he is throwing himself under the bus for that

I think that is what is hurting Pallu more, at least that is what I pieced from today's episode. She's upset that he is not sticking to the truth 😭

Raghav is definitely hurt and he feels terrible that he is doing this to her, but right now at this point in the relationship it makes sense that he would choose his sister over his wife

He doesn't hate her now but he hasn't got a chance to explore his feelings

it's a slow process, I feel bad for Pallu because it looks like she is realizing her feelings for him, and it hurts to see the person you love say he is choosing his family over you

I love this show! Can't believe ITV is showing such complex situations with deep meanings we can see and connect to! ❤️

Originally posted by: meghumonu

We have to think the situation from Raghav's side also. The man has gone through the worst kind of trauma imaginable for any human being. He saw his father and younger brother lynched to death. His own mother and sister hated him and disowned him. He lived alone with no support and had to do every kind of legal and illegal things to support his family . Even then it was not enough and Amma and Keerthi still hated him. From a happy going College boy to a lonely, aggressive, depressed don . Now after 10 years he had reconciled with his mother, his only living sibling his sister is with him and he has a lovely wife who loves him like crazy and who he himself loves as much as she to him. But here comes the tragedy his wife's ex husband was killed by an accident caused by his sister. And everybody knows when it comes to family Raghav is emotional and do not think rationally. He wants to protect his last living sibling at any cost because he knows if he cannot save Keerthi then he will self destruct from guilt and then on the other side is his life partner Pallavi who has done so much for Raghav. She was the one who made efforts and helped reconciliation with his mother. She disowned her own family and chose him as her priority. He knows she can go to any extent for him and here comes the guilt because this sweet girl's life was first destroyed by his sister killing her ex husband and making her a widow in her first wedding night and then he maligned her character for a crime which she did not even commit. Though after all that she has still accepted her marriage with him and has fallen in love with him. He believes that Pallavi deserves someone far better than him and he do not deserve her. His self sacrifice is not only for Keerthi but for Pallavi also as he knows he is not ready to lose Pallavi and separation from her will kill him but he still chose to do it because he wants Pallavi to get a closure and move on and live her life and find someone better to spend her life with. Only when you truly love someone then only you can go to the extent of self sacrifice knowing it will kill you but you do it either way because that is true love.

Well this show portrays reality so well I sometimes get amazed am I watching an ITV show or something from real world? As for Raghav choosing Keerthi over Pallavi aren't we all just become blind when it comes to our family. Rational thinking takes a back place in mind. Also Raghav cannot tell Pallavi that he is doing it so that she can get a closure and move on in life . It will seems like he is doing a favor on Pallavi when in reality it is not and Pallavi this time has the higher moral ground. He do not want to burden her. So Raghvi relationship cannot be expressed in simple terms like she cares for him but he does not.

All this for u👍👍👏👏👏🤗🤗.. exactly if he say it sure it's favor.. many underlying emotions between them now which both are not spilling. He don't yet pallavi crazily fallen for him and she is no way leaving him, pallavi don't know he is ready sacrifice himself for her to move on because he feels he don't deserve her😔😔😔. pallavi pushed today to say all the words I was on your side always because she was so hurt as a wife, those are the exact words I also used to say to my husband when he isn't on my side. That's why I love this show, they show the real how normal couple react 😊😊.. both don't know what other feels, when they travel they will eventually come to know

Originally posted by: DivyaaaV

yeah my goodness this show feels like its happening in the real world

I sympathize more with Pallu in this situation but I do think both of them could have figured something out together

Pallu wants justice for Mandar and Raghav wants to protect his sister

unfortunately there is nothing wrong in both cases, but Raghav is trying to hide the truth and he is throwing himself under the bus for that

I think that is what is hurting Pallu more, at least that is what I pieced from today's episode. She's upset that he is not sticking to the truth 😭

Raghav is definitely hurt and he feels terrible that he is doing this to her, but right now at this point in the relationship it makes sense that he would choose his sister over his wife

He doesn't hate her now but he hasn't got a chance to explore his feelings

it's a slow process, I feel bad for Pallu because it looks like she is realizing her feelings for him, and it hurts to see the person you love say he is choosing his family over you

I love this show! Can't believe ITV is showing such complex situations with deep meanings we can see and connect to! ❤️

This is reality is it not we did not give up on our love till the last moment fighting to the bitter end expecting that one day he/she will understand and will reply back with same amount of love. ❤️

Originally posted by: gayatherry88

All this for u👍👍👏👏👏🤗🤗.. exactly if he say it sure it's favor.. many underlying emotions between them now which both are not spilling. He don't yet pallavi crazily fallen for him and she is no way leaving him, pallavi don't know he is ready sacrifice himself for her to move on because he feels he don't deserve her😔😔😔. pallavi pushed today to say all the words I was on your side always because she was so hurt as a wife, those are the exact words I also used to say to my husband when he isn't on my side. That's why I love this show, they show the real how normal couple react 😊😊.. both don't know what other feels, when they travel they will eventually come to know

To think a day will come when we see a realistic portrayal of love and a married relationship instead of OTT drama !! Sandeep Sickand take a bow!! You have absolutely created a masterpiece of a show!!

Jahaan tak mujhe lag raha hai it's not about Keerthi vs Pallavi really... It's about protecting his family vs the right/ morally just thing to do... Like practicality vs idealism... In all this, his emotions for Pallavi are kinda on and off and mostly laden with guilt for not doing the right thing or the RR style nonchalance ki I am right I will handle it... I am unable to understand his POV wrt his own marriage in this matter, however conflicted it might be, it's not making sense for me... Apne aap ko jail bhejna kaunsa closure hua bhai if you sit down and think seriously? And especially when that person knows the real culprit is someone else... Oopar se what happens to Pallavi if he goes to jail, Pallavi uss closure ka kya achaar dalegi..

Somebody was discussing a scene on Twitter where Kaka is thanking Raghav and kind of blessing him for being a supportive husband to Pallavi, and that user kind of felt that it was a special moment for both of them as somebody from deshmukh family or a father figure was blessing their marriage... Such an heart touching awiiee kinda emotion I felt reading that post and boom I shift to the show to watch that scene and bro I am disappointed and how... 🥺

Kul milake mujhe toh Raghav Rao apni hi koi trip par gaya hua lagta hai, kabhi guilt trip kabhi protection trip... 😆

Ye meri bhadaas hai, I might change my views btw agar kal ka episode acchha hua toh.. 😆

Originally posted by: DivyaaaV

yeah my goodness this show feels like its happening in the real world

I sympathize more with Pallu in this situation but I do think both of them could have figured something out together

Pallu wants justice for Mandar and Raghav wants to protect his sister

unfortunately there is nothing wrong in both cases, but Raghav is trying to hide the truth and he is throwing himself under the bus for that

I think that is what is hurting Pallu more, at least that is what I pieced from today's episode. She's upset that he is not sticking to the truth 😭

Raghav is definitely hurt and he feels terrible that he is doing this to her, but right now at this point in the relationship it makes sense that he would choose his sister over his wife

He doesn't hate her now but he hasn't got a chance to explore his feelings

it's a slow process, I feel bad for Pallu because it looks like she is realizing her feelings for him, and it hurts to see the person you love say he is choosing his family over you

I love this show! Can't believe ITV is showing such complex situations with deep meanings we can see and connect to! ❤️

It's pain but that's the reality. We all experience in our life's. I never who love and pain is bigger on a couple because both are right on their on own ways. Many things we can't say it too loud instead we need to understand their actions and emotion's. Husband and wife relationship is very different from others because love, hurt, pain, possessive, jealousy everything would high when we love each other a lot. It's a journey, which is painful but yet beautiful ❤️❤️ that's what I learned on this five years of marriage 😊😊

Raghav is a typical husband who will take his wife for granted until she leaves him and makes him work for her. Sad reality of so many marriages, this one is no different. He is filled with guilt of hurting her, he does love her even though he may not say it to her explicitly as other couples do, but he does love her. On the other hand, he is filled with guilt of never being there for his family, and being an indirect reason for the destruction of his family. He will not be able to balance the two, because the latter weighs heavily on him over what he's done to Pallavi. The only time he will work to balance the two is when she actually stops working on this marriage and leaves him. I want her to leave, because she's been too understanding and too accepting, and often in real life, when you're all this, you'll be walked over and over by those you love. So once in a while, say, "I'm done with your shit, now you fix it".

I also want Raghav's past to make an entry again. Since they've moved into RR, we've not seen him go to the old annex where he's housed the replica of their home. This is an apt time to bring this in and it may also show viewers why Raghav is choosing his sister and not wife. Like I said, his family weighs heavier on him.

I feel for Pallavi but she's not been strict with him. Bohot dheel di hai, now tighten your hold on your husband woman, otherwise you'll be another secondary citizen at home.

Originally posted by: gayatherry88

It's pain but that's the reality. We all experience in our life's. I never who love and pain is bigger on a couple because both are right on their on own ways. Many things we can't say it too loud instead we need to understand their actions and emotion's. Husband and wife relationship is very different from others because love, hurt, pain, possessive, jealousy everything would high when we love each other a lot. It's a journey, which is painful but yet beautiful ❤️❤️ that's what I learned on this five years of marriage 😊😊

It is very difficult for young or teenage viewers to understand the reality and maturity of Raghvi relationship because they are not some teenage couple or a couple from some toxic show. Only people with deep EQ or married people will understand the underlying emotions of these characters.

Originally posted by: Doc

Agreed to.the core..

He needs a reality.check..!

And wats the use of defending a sis..whi just hates him a lot..

🤣

Brothers r made n carved to function like this. But she s a little too much ungreatful.. otherwise in real life too siblings do stuff like this i have seen one of my friend's brother take blame of an accident he didn't go to jail tough d victim just had a fracture n they got out of court settlement. But yeah such stuff happens..

But a lot s at stake for Raghav. We r all thinking it s pallavi's agnipariksha but the actual agnipariksha s of RAGHAV. Kahi bhi jaye dono taraf se bas isiki haar hai. My heart goes out for d brother in him who wants to protect his sister while she keeps adding troubles his way. Hopefully it gets sorted soon.

Otherwise isme hi ulajh k rehjayega aur bandar aake biwi lejayega..

Originally posted by: Ubiquitos

Jahaan tak mujhe lag raha hai it's not about Keerthi vs Pallavi really... It's about protecting his family vs the right/ morally just thing to do... Like practicality vs idealism... In all this, his emotions for Pallavi are kinda on and off and mostly laden with guilt for not doing the right thing or the RR style nonchalance ki I am right I will handle it... I am unable to understand his POV wrt his own marriage in this matter, however conflicted it might be, it's not making sense for me... Apne aap ko jail bhejna kaunsa closure hua bhai if you sit down and think seriously? And especially when that person knows the real culprit is someone else... Oopar se what happens to Pallavi if he goes to jail, Pallavi uss closure ka kya achaar dalegi..

Somebody was discussing a scene on Twitter where Kaka is thanking Raghav and kind of blessing him for being a supportive husband to Pallavi, and that user kind of felt that it was a special moment for both of them as somebody from deshmukh family or a father figure was blessing their marriage... Such an heart touching awiiee kinda emotion I felt reading that post and boom I shift to the show to watch that scene and bro I am disappointed and how... 🥺

Kul milake mujhe toh Raghav Rao apni hi koi trip par gaya hua lagta hai, kabhi guilt trip kabhi protection trip... 😆

Ye meri bhadaas hai, I might change my views btw agar kal ka episode acchha hua toh.. 😆

Raghav is stuck between typical idhar kua udhar ghai!! One hand he wants to save Keerthi his only living sibling and on the other hand he wants to give closure to Pallavi and help her move on with her life because he loves her so much!! It is true love only where it gives you the strength to let go and self sacrifice knowing it will kill you but he is doing it regardless. He wants Pallavi to move on in her life and find someone better suited for her because in his mind he still thinks he is not good for her after all the suffering she has gone because of him. But he do not understand that by doing all this Pallavi is not moving away from him but in return is deeply falling in love with him as her love for him only increases because of his actions. She understands what pure and true love is and for Pallavi family comes before everything and any man who values family is perfect for her. Now seeing Raghav destroying himself to protect his sister she is further falling for him because she knows this man deserves her love every bit of it. If he can do it for a sister who do not even love him then what can he do for her when he falls for her. She still has hopes that Raghav will love him back just like she loves Raghav.

This is reality is it not we did not give up on our love till the last moment fighting to the bitter end expecting that one day he/she will understand and will reply back with same amount of love.