Pallavi is still not important for Raghav yet - Page 3

Originally posted by: RainbowUnicorm

Well said..actually he is making her choose between Mandar and him...past and future..and he is twisting her hand to make her choose him.

he was always that manipulative...

so clearly he told her, for the past (dead), ur spoiling ur present & future relations..

he was not at all, thinking, from her POV.just being plain selfish & manipulative ( just for sister's blind love)

Originally posted by: _Blessy_

As if you don't know🙄

Itna bada essay wala post lika hai Tumne with the reason and then asking "Y"

bada ho gaya😲🤣🤣🤣

Raghav disappointed me today😭..though it was expected from him😆

Originally posted by: samarp2

yaa..exactly...boys should know this first...after marriage, for the girl..she comes to her husband house.he is everything for her, when he himself, doesnt support for her.she will feel dejected there...

here they have shown exactly, the reality...where girl what she faces, when her husband doesnt support her at all

Well this is not per se same situation. She is also not fighting for herself but for her late husband. In that context I find Raos..Amma included very forward . Her fight is for her misery as widow that she had faced . His fight is for his sister . But point is in all this his sister is wrong. And he needs to find a way to punish Keerti...

Originally posted by: RainbowUnicorm

Well this is not per se same situation. She is also not fighting for herself but for her late husband. In that context I find Raos..Amma included very forward . Her fight is for her misery as widow that she had faced . His fight is for his sister . But point is in all this his sister is wrong. And he needs to find a way to punish Keerti...

yaa..instead of that, he is supporting her👎🏼, which is unlike him...thats what is Pallavi telling him..

he too knows, he is doing wrong...but for sister, he just wants to close his eyes..he doesnt want to loose her again, whom after much difficulty he found...for that to make Pallu, sad.he doesnt mind ( now).later will just cry for that👎🏼

Originally posted by: samarp2

bada ho gaya😲🤣🤣🤣

Raghav disappointed me today😭..though it was expected from him😆

I can't even rant about my disappointment

Today when he told Farhad tum aisa kaisa MERA wife ke saath baat kar raha hai

No one talks to RAGHAV RAO's wife like that

It was about him not her

He should have said how dare you talk to Pallavi like that

Why si people value other when they are about to lose them

Seedhe se samajh nai aa sakti he will need Mandy to understand what Pallavi means to him

Ma nr bola shadi kar kar li

Ma ne bold chhod Dr tickets Dr si hai you are free

Pallavi insaan hai chabi se chalne wali gudiya nai

Get it ma behen he has suffered for 10 years and now he does everything to keep them with him

Nibba isiliye approve his nahi toh Hyderabad se get out ho chuka hota

Keerti caused an accident she jasbt reflected reflected on her actions chhodo she is denying it to his face when he has given her details

Dheet besharam nalayak ladki hai

He will be so ashamed in front of Farhad when he comes to know she was ready to throw Farhad under the bus

I didn't tell you anything WHY Disnt you think she could have suffered trauma after causing an accident Speak with her tell her it was wrong an innocent life was lost

He never lets an innocent person suffer did he not think about the family of that victim

Parivar apna nahi doosron ka bhi hota hai

Raghav surrenders

Pallavi doesn't get closure she loses another husband another partner the man she is falling in love with again all because of Keerti

She is so hurt not just because he chose Keerti but he sided with the wrong with injustice he is sacrificing himself he is thinking only about Keerti what about her

Why no one ever thinks about her

Where does she stand in his life what does she mean to him

Pallavi silent treatment de isko

Room nikala

He needs to understand that now there is someone in his life He is responsible for her too

He is now the head of his own family

Raghav can't fix the past but he is trying to save present and future since it's a accident he is trying to save preethi future and he also understand pallavi pain that she deserves closure and peace. Will his sacrifice give peace to pallavi when she started to dream a life with him??? He isn't good at handling relationships since he is alone for last 10 years. Yes he could have handled better but it's his learning curve. Same goes with pallavi, she is Verge on punishing the culprit and she also knows RR is protecting someone who is dear to him. As a wife she is hurt and expecting her husband to be on her side but she isn't seeing he is also a brother who protected his family no matter what they treat him. She don't know her husband ready to sacrifice himself for her peace. She also could have handled better. At EOD it's about situation how they both handle it but it doesn't mean they don't love or prioritize each other. They're many underlying emotions which both didn't spilled loudly instead it was on actions. Glad instead of making responsible of each other they're trying to understand what is the reason behind it?? That's the learning curve of a couple.. marriage is never a bed of roses, it's how we handle the situation as a couple and raghvi just started their Martial life, they have very long way to go.. I can understand Raghvi emotions because my husband also have a sister, I also felt hurt and pain when my husband isn't on my side even though he very well know I am right. Yes on that moment and some time I used to be very angry on him but I used to come out and see through him. At EOD he is husband and brother, this relationship going to be their no matter what. Wherever the side he stand opposite person would be hurt, yes sometimes I gone through pain but I couldn't able to deny he is always their for me no matter what so I just cherish that and it's make me to love him more 😊😊😊😊😊.. Its my point about raghvi and I also understand all your views.

Originally posted by: Chahat_A_Doshi

Today when he told Farhad tum aisa kaisa MERA wife ke saath baat kar raha hai

No one talks to RAGHAV RAO's wife like that

It was about him not her

He should have said how dare you talk to Pallavi like that

Why si people value other when they are about to lose them

Seedhe se samajh nai aa sakti he will need Mandy to understand what Pallavi means to him

Ma nr bola shadi kar kar li

Ma ne bold chhod Dr tickets Dr si hai you are free

Pallavi insaan hai chabi se chalne wali gudiya nai

Get it ma behen he has suffered for 10 years and now he does everything to keep them with him

Nibba isiliye approve his nahi toh Hyderabad se get out ho chuka hota

Keerti caused an accident she jasbt reflected reflected on her actions chhodo she is denying it to his face when he has given her details

Dheet besharam nalayak ladki hai

He will be so ashamed in front of Farhad when he comes to know she was ready to throw Farhad under the bus

I didn't tell you anything WHY Disnt you think she could have suffered trauma after causing an accident Speak with her tell her it was wrong an innocent life was lost

He never lets an innocent person suffer did he not think about the family of that victim

Parivar apna nahi doosron ka bhi hota hai

Raghav surrenders

Pallavi doesn't get closure she loses another husband another partner the man she is falling in love with again all because of Keerti

She is so hurt not just because he chose Keerti but he sided with the wrong with injustice he is sacrificing himself he is thinking only about Keerti what about her

Why no one ever thinks about her

Where does she stand in his life what does she mean to him

Pallavi silent treatment de isko

Room nikala

He needs to understand that now there is someone in his life He is responsible for her too

He is now the head of his own family

Completely agree with u Chahat👍🏼

He needs to know her importance in his life...just cause Amma told him to marry he married..

But doesn't feel her importance yet ...but wants her to give importance for him👎🏼.. priority to him..

What about Pallavi's importance in his life...that doesn't hold any value at all

We have to think the situation from Raghav's side also. The man has gone through the worst kind of trauma imaginable for any human being. He saw his father and younger brother lynched to death. His own mother and sister hated him and disowned him. He lived alone with no support and had to do every kind of legal and illegal things to support his family . Even then it was not enough and Amma and Keerthi still hated him. From a happy going College boy to a lonely, aggressive, depressed don . Now after 10 years he had reconciled with his mother, his only living sibling his sister is with him and he has a lovely wife who loves him like crazy and who he himself loves as much as she to him. But here comes the tragedy his wife's ex husband was killed by an accident caused by his sister. And everybody knows when it comes to family Raghav is emotional and do not think rationally. He wants to protect his last living sibling at any cost because he knows if he cannot save Keerthi then he will self destruct from guilt and then on the other side is his life partner Pallavi who has done so much for Raghav. She was the one who made efforts and helped reconciliation with his mother. She disowned her own family and chose him as her priority. He knows she can go to any extent for him and here comes the guilt because this sweet girl's life was first destroyed by his sister killing her ex husband and making her a widow in her first wedding night and then he maligned her character for a crime which she did not even commit. Though after all that she has still accepted her marriage with him and has fallen in love with him. He believes that Pallavi deserves someone far better than him and he do not deserve her. His self sacrifice is not only for Keerthi but for Pallavi also as he knows he is not ready to lose Pallavi and separation from her will kill him but he still chose to do it because he wants Pallavi to get a closure and move on and live her life and find someone better to spend her life with. Only when you truly love someone then only you can go to the extent of self sacrifice knowing it will kill you but you do it either way because that is true love.

Well this show portrays reality so well I sometimes get amazed am I watching an ITV show or something from real world? As for Raghav choosing Keerthi over Pallavi aren't we all just become blind when it comes to our family. Rational thinking takes a back place in mind. Also Raghav cannot tell Pallavi that he is doing it so that she can get a closure and move on in life . It will seems like he is doing a favor on Pallavi when in reality it is not and Pallavi this time has the higher moral ground. He do not want to burden her. So Raghvi relationship cannot be expressed in simple terms like she cares for him but he does not.

Good thread with so many inputs…. Will catch later .