Originally posted by: ..dreamygatz..
@bold: not just Karna, ppl would protest against everyone present there.. if any husband today dared to stake his wife, he will be the main accused!
Sorry, I don't believe he is the main one to be accused, because what you're saying is that if someone stakes their wife, then other have a right to strip her and the fault is the husband's. The fault is the husband's, but only for staking her. We should give fault where it lies. Yudhisthir is to be blamed for staking her, no doubt, just as Raja Harischandra is blamed for selling his wife and son in the black market, BUT Yudhisthir cannot be blamed for her disrobing, because that was perpetrated by the Kauravas and Karna, and even if Draupadi can be considered a slave because Yudhisthir staked her, a slave too is a human being. She too should be treated with respect. She does not deserve to be disrobed. What irks me is that we Pandava supporters criticize them for their crime in the dyut sabha. We do not look for excuses to make them seem blameless. We accept that Yudhisthir committed a crime in staking his wife, and we accept that the other Pandavas committed a crime in sitting quiet while Draupadi was disrobed, but why do the Kaurava supporters want to whitewash their favorite characters? Why can't they accept that Duryodhan, Karna and the other Kauravas committed an equally disgusting crime by disrobing Draupadi, that too during her menstruation?
The Pandavas' crime was their silence during their wife's humiliation. It was a big crime indeed and cannot be defended.
The Kauravas' (including Karna and Shakuni) crime was to physically abuse and disrobe Draupadi. No matter if the husband sells the wife, it does not give anyone the right to abuse her, whether she is a servant or a queen.
Both sides were equal to blame, there is no "main" culprit.
It is easy to blame Yudhisthir as the "main" culprit of the dyut sabha, because people love the character of Karna, and some even Duryodhan. While the bystanders are to be blamed for sitting quiet, that does not make the perpetrator right. People love to blame Yudhisthir for the disrobing, because they reckon that he gave the Kauravas and Karna a right to abuse Draupadi, so what the Kauravas did cannot possibly be considered wrong, can it? They were just having their way with a servant, which is of course fine and not morally wrong. 😕