@niva big hug dearie...this is precisely how i feel but was feeling to lazy to type i guess we hv some pichle jaman ka naata😉
@riti agreed pandavas were at fault too specially yudi. He ws d main culprit of being soo gulliable to hv been lured into the game by shakuni. Regarging BANS,wat i feel is that they have lost their father n the only person who could fill that void was their elder bro. Throughout their lives yudi treated them as his childrn rather than brothers. So considering the sensitivity of relationships during dwapara yug,i guess there was no chance that they could hv disobeyed their elder brother. Yaa u cn argue that dusshy ws also obeyin his bro by disrobing drau, here it comes to the difference of the mindsets of yudi n duri, one is sheer saintly stupidity n other is evil power hungry cruelity. Plus i guess this issue is a conflict between swadharma n adharma which i guess will be more clear post geeta.N regarding redemption yaa pandavas did redeem themselves. God is not partial. He gave evrybdy the chance but they dint see it. The one who worked hard,faced hardships got the divine knwledge is taunted of being the so called favorite...Coming back to karna, i m really srry but i have never heard that he stayed on wid duri cos he wanted to redeem by choosing the loosing side. I always heard that he really did beleive in duris cause n stayed back because of his trust n indebtness to his frnd.if otherwise, i wld be egar to see the citations.When i meant that choosing to be in loosing side was his redemption. I didnt mean that he stick to loosing side for that reason. He stayed on dury side for loyality thats true, but he had the chance of getting kingdom and giving it to dury which he refused...isnt that strange that he refused that ..which could clearly help his friend...here is citation for above statement i made-" If king Yudhishthira, of virtuous soul and well-controlled senses, cometh to know me as the firstborn son of Kunti, he will never accept the kingdom. If, again, O slayer of Madhu, this mighty and swelling empire becometh mine. I shall, O repressor of foes, certainly make it over to Duryodhana only. Let Yudhishthira of virtuous soul become king for ever. He that hath Hrishikesa for his guide, and Dhananjaya and that mighty car-warrior Bhima for his combatants, as also Nakula and Sahadeva, and the sons of Draupadi, is fit, O Madhava, to rule over the whole earth."And yaa some ppl also say he was sorry n apologised to her aftr he found out she was his SIL. But wat b4 that?? Hadnt he caused pain to her b4 that n why feel remorse only wen u find out the true relation...But still having said all this i agree that there are respectable sides to his personality, but imo they dont compensate fr the adharma