Great article Bheegi...đ
Very thoughtful indeed...đ
Every person in the epic, thought about the war from their own perspective...
As for Draupadi being pro-war, I don't think that she wanted killing at this scale. She only wanted the Kauravas, Shakuni, Karna and Jaydrath to be killed.
We cannot overlook that Draupadi was a woman, and even though she was extremely intelligent and different from women of her time, it shouldn't be overlooked that women in those days were more knowledgeable about feminine stuff, than wars and battles.
She probably didn't realize that her desire for justice would bring about such a large scale destruction.
As for the Pandavas, they fought the war to get back their land...Draupadi's vastraharan was only an excuse that was used...Ofcourse, they tried hard to avoid war, but thanks to Duryodhan's insecurity, greed and ego...war eventually took place.