The South India cults that worship Iravan put great focus on a pastime in which he died a heroic death during the 18-day Battle of Kurukshetra. With great ceremony they honour Aravan's self-sacrifice to the goddess Kali, which he is said to have enacted in order to ensure her favour and thus bring victory for the Pandavas. According to Kuttantavar legend, Lord Krsna awarded three boons to Aravan for this self-sacrifice. One of these boons the Lord satisfied in His female form of Mohini, who became married to Aravan.
This pastime is re-enacted in Tamil Nadu with an 18-day festival. First there is a ceremonial marriage, then a celebration of their widowhood following the ritual re-enactment of Aravan's sacrifice.
The Draupadi cult emphasizes another boon associated with Aravan and the Kurukshetra war. In this pastime, Krsna allows Aravan to witness the entire duration of the Mahabharata war through the eyes of his severed head, which was hoisted on a pole overlooking the great valley battleground. The severed head of Aravan is a common motif in Draupadi temples. In the taluks of Thajavur, Kumbhakonam and Pattukkotai, Aravan's head is enshrined permanently in a mandapa or within a temple niche. The largest known Aravan head is found at the Hajiyar Teru temple in Kumbhakonam.
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