@shruti, adding to ur post, therez a lot of difference in imagining a situation and actually facing it..the diff bw theory and practical..rk never wanted her to pursue a career but act in his film which was supposed to be rk's film focussed on him..if he cant deal with her stardom, i wont blame it Bec he never wanted it in the first place nor does she..he had planned this movie , its making and success in a different way , the outcome of it was unexpected for both him and Mb. Rk couldn't anticipate Madhu getting popular coz he believed that the film will not succeed..but when he did anticipate how her stardom will affect their life, , near the lake, did Madhu understand? She came back to him saying tht she will set everything alright..infCt she dismissed his fear and foresightedness as misunderstanding
if he didn't give anyone else the credit for his success, mr. Mehul didn't give it either to his team or anyone associated with it, he gave 100% credit to madhubala, who btw was never interested..the irony is that he only said ke movie script ke base par chalti hai, actor par nahi, when rk was in question..
typing..
why is rk's insensitivity highlighted and what he did for Madhu is easily forgotten? What about tht time when he ignored sultan trying to convince Madhu to run away frm the wedding?
what abt tht time when Madhu supported sultan against rk post their marriage?
what do we have to say about his sensitivity when he didn't let Madhu feel guilty for sultan chapter in their life? For the criminal diaries which she was writing? Whose reputation suffered due to it? When media accused him of having underworld connections? What abt those times when he was ready to die for her dignity?? When he slapped ab for abusing his wife?
what about those times when he reprimanded his family for Madhu? When he offered his help, it was rejected by Madhu n she wanted to deal with it alone, is tht his fault? Who did the nivarans and hide the same from rk? This is the same woman now who is spewing venom on their llife..who forgave dipali when rk did her pack up?
what abt his love and letting Madhu to take every single professional decision for him? Who trusted his wife and supported her efforts? He tried his best to give her Madhu wala pyar but what did he get in return? Didnt he kill his ego on several occassions and placed madhu's wish over everything?
who decided to do the fire stunt after making tall claims on protecting her baby?
after compounding his problems, when she got pregnant, we expected him to battle it out for himself, Madhu, baby and his film..who was the one who palla jhaado all her responsibilities of film after pregnancy and after its success, enjoyed every bit of adulation coming her way and claiming to be unaffected by it? Why do we forget tht if he blamed Madhu , it was Bec he saw the signing amount cheque with her?
i already predicted this scenario the day Madhu convinced him for heroine oriented film.. N whatever is happening today is a mixed bag of results..
if he is capable of not loving anyone more than himself, i call that a human trait.whoever claims to be doing it may be lying..nobody can negate their existence , even for their loved ones, it happens only in movies, serials and novels..we talk of selflessness , egoless and self righteousness,but practically its impossible to define them..n people like madhu hardly exist..bec if a person is selfless or loves someone more than himself, there is no place of self respect or his own existence..humans are driven by all emotions, be it love, ego, arrogance, jealousy , so on and so forth..they overpower a human mind at, different places..
nobody is happy to see rm in pain but,they invited it upon themselves and this was anticipated, given their past actions..the one who takes the decisions will he held accountable for it
Edited by _charu_ - 11 years ago
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