What exactly is 'ABUSE' ???? - Page 3

Originally posted by: mm990

Bang on post Chakku!!

Man, I have never seen this much abuse of the word "abuse" in my entire life! This forum really does enlighten your lost soul in unusual ways!

And you're forgetting to add the claim that RK sexually assaulted Madhu. LOL!! Where his fans used to call him jogi and make fun of him for being too shareef, I don't know what made people believe that he sexually assaulted his wife? 😕 Did some special episode air R rated strictly for "mature audiences" that I don't know of?

Okay, forget that, coming to Sultan.

Tell me for how long the people of the forum screamed abuse abuse when he used his son as a bait for his senseless enemy hunt (there was another man in the show who used to use his child for similar purposes, what was he shown to be? A psychopath!) and then decided to forget it for good? I was not there in the forum so I don't know. Really interested to know.

And for how long did people scream psychopath psychopath when he snapped necks without even changing his expressions (understandable though) and without showing any remorse later? Just because the necks he was breaking didn't belong to any main character of the show or any good guys (though we don't know for sure) doesn't mean that they weren't people and it certainly doesn't mean that he didn't commit murders which is a crime punishable by death!

Please do tell me Chakku. I really need to know. 😳

Originally posted by: taraka2005

Awsm Post Chakku 👏👏👏

As I said earlier to call abuse "Abuse" *Terms n Conditions* apply...if person is RK then his every action regardless of good or bad is term as Abuse and if person is Bhai then his actions are term as rescue mission, lobb 🤢

Originally posted by: _Mojo.Jojo_

@Bold - Do you really want me to answer that? Apart from a handful RK fans, NO ONE screamed abuse abuse or psychopath psychopath at that time😆

Reason.

1. Because it was all done by Sexy Sultan.

2. Because the abuse wasn't done on Madhu😆

Originally posted by: cardio21

Chaaku!! Nice post.. But please see it from a forum's perspective...😉

- apologizing to one's wife for one's misdoings in full public galore is the worst abuse that could be meted to a woman..🤢 She must have felt like a victim

- you missed out the sexual abuse on SR nite 😳

- what bigger emotional abuse than suffocating her with utmost love n dedication.

- and those caresses, loving hugs, all this is included under physical abuse.. Check Wikipedia the definition is changed..😉

And regarding Mumbai ka Sultan..

- u r reading too much behind those sexual overtures, he is just trying to make her feel wanted.. And trying to give her some issh issh moments..🤢

- his manhandling is not physical abuse any more, he said it that this is the last time he is hurting her..

- all this emotional trauma is a part of the rescue mission, he is her self appointed savior..

- he wants to see her happy, didnt u see how he let her make a video as she was feeling happy.. Small gestures count...

and these women can't make decisions in their life, so the man who always lost in his life was 'forced' to turn into a villain by destiny.. Please try to understand villain's perspective before u label the 'friend in need n deed' as an abuser...

Originally posted by: ..natasha..

Physical abuse is

Not touching your wife when she was ready to give in

Forcibly making her stay in your house when you get the news that there was firing where she is staying

If pulling pushing carrassing handholding is Physical abuse...that Madhu ne to RK ki puri izzat hi loot li

Mental Abuse is

Blackmailing a girl who slapped you and forcing her into marriage as you hate her
Then making her like beautiful by treating her father
Giving her all happiness

but I agree that unwedding was mental abuse for Madhu

Love is
Blackmailing a married woman to leave her husband and claiming that you love her more
focibly trying to kiss her and getting closy with married woman...

As I said before RK claimed to hate Madhu and thats y blackmailed her
And Sultan claiming to blackmail Madhu by saying he loves her 😆
Torturing when you hate someone is understandable...tortuing when you love someone is 🤢

Bang on post chakku

Originally posted by: mm990

LOL! My bad.. That's understandable.. Who can be sexier and more desirable than a man who kills people without showing remorse.. pretty sure Ted Bundy and Jack the Ripper must have been real Vogue Magazine cover materials in their time.. 😆

And yeah.. kaunsa abuse? It's not Aryan - Ek Bhindie Roll Ek Victim.. 😆 So, it doesn't matter..

Originally posted by: _Mojo.Jojo_

How do you guys define "ABUSE" ?😆

For me ABUSE is of two types.

1. Mental abuse.

2. Physical abuse.

People say that RishBala are in an ABUSIVE relationship. OK, can you tell me how? They don't fit either of the above mentioned criteria.

1. Mental abuse.

RK mentally and emotionally abused her during unwedding and during the kidnapping track by threatening her about killing himself. Uske baad kaunsa ABUSE?🥱🥱 If you say that RK emotionally and mentally ABUSED her, then I agree. He did abuse her. But if you say that they still are in an abusive relationship, then you need checkup.😆 Anyone who watches the show regularly wouldn't make such statements. The guy gets BEATEN up just because he can't see his wife's character being questioned or people making snide remarks on her. Isn't he your so-called ADARSH PATI NOW?

2. Physical abuse.

If you guys call pulling, holding arms and carrying in arms as ABUSE, then Madhu has definitely been more abusive. She has SLAPPED him five times, pushed/pulled him, held him by his collar and often threatened him. Would you say that Madhu physically ASSAULTED and ABUSED RK?😆 Has RK ever touched Madhu fiercely? Their interactions have always been kinda PHYSICAL. Have you ever seen them talking while standing feet away from each other? Either Madhu is pulling him and asking him stuff or RK is holding her by her arms and asking her stuff. From where does ABUSE come from?

Now coming to Sultan.

Has Madhu ever hit him? Has Madhu ever done anything bad with him? Then why did he always point gun at her? Wasn't that called TORTURE? Why is he MANHANDLING her? Isn't it called PHYSICAL ABUSE? Why is he RUINING HER LIFE when the female has ONLY done good with him and his family?

RK and Madhu were in a REVENGEFUL relationship where Madhu has actually maligned his image. Although in that revenge track, both of them did a lot for each other (like Madhu saving RK's life, Ma-Beta patch-up, RK getting ShaMini married and RK saving everyone from Ballu), yet their hatred had a BASE.

What base does Sultan's hatred have? JEALOUSY? Then what is Madhu's and RK's fault if Sultan is jealous? Shouldn't it be only his problem? Did Madhu ever tell him that after taking revenge from RK she'd run into his arms merrily? She always said that she loved RK and shall love him. So from where does Sultan's filthy actions get justifications?

And people say that RK deserves all this because he often INSULTED Sultan. Did RK invite Sultan to come and break the windshield of his car, or did he invite him to his Bollywood party? I don't think RK even invited him to come and stand infront of his car in the middle of the road and then lecture him about GOOD RELATIONSHIPS😛 If anyone tries to FORCEFULLY barge into your life, then you'll obviously insult him and not do his arti.

Need I say what Sultan did on his marriage day by gatecrashing into his bride's room?🤪 Or gatecrashing into the hawan pooja or forcefully entering the RK mansion without any PROOF?😕

Has RK ever intruded into his PRIVATE SPACE? Then why is he always blamed for fights?😕😆

Now the BIGGEST QUESTION.

What has Sultan ever done for Madhu to make him worthy of her?😕😆

Answer - NOTHING🤣 Just because once he came to the party and got punched for her doesn't make him a worthy dulha for her😆

And lastly, what is the BIGGEST ABUSE?

Answer - Dorey daaloing on your MAA samaan bhabhiji😛🤣 It is not just an abuse on the relationship but also reflects cheap mentality🤢🥱

P.S. Do not NAME CALL Sultan in my post. Call him Sultan. Naam hi kaafi hai😆

What exactly is 'ABUSE' ????