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Posted: 12 years ago
Superb post Chakku 👏
Sultan has emotionally abused his relationship with his son...when he tied him up as bait, physically abused his relation with Madhu who trusted him as a friend, emotionally abused his relationship with his mother whom he promised to give justice and honour etc. And you are so right about him intruding on RK's privacy whereas RK has never done so with him.
When RK threatened Madhu or forcibly kidnapped her or handcuffed her, we saw Madhu protesting but did she spit on him? or bite his hand? She was mad at him for not realising the extent to which he hurt her but she never said herself that he is abusing...insulting her ..yes ..but abusing..never!
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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: EvIlNeSs_RoCkZ

Chakku...i hating RK now...despise him, hate him, whatever 🤢

he is acting like a typical dumb male lead, stupid lover and aadarsh pati 🤢...and on top of that some SBS news has put him in TOP DEEWANE list of TV 🤢...can u believe he was in the list along with ur Naitik ji and Sooraj ji 🤪 i mean yuck! 🤢


LOL don't remind me of that list🤣

RK is long gone🤪 Only an amnesia track or divorce track can bring the old RK back😎


Originally posted by: xxAqeelahxx

Chakku tum ho i didn't know you changed your user name😆


Anyways super post !! but bhai ke phans think there is some reason to him doing all this ab aur kya kahein😆


Ya, it's me Chakku😆

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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: Niki_cool

The greatest definition of Abuse is - Whatever RK does 🤣

If he hugs or caresses Biwi first, then its Physical Abuse 😡
Who does this with your Wife 🤔🤣 I suggest he should start asking for permission first 😡😆
"Biwi May I hug you? " 😳 If Biwi nods then only or else its Abuse 😡🤣

If he gets beaten and thinks about his Biwi, then its *Alag Che* Abuse 😆😆😆
I mean How dare he think about her & utter her name?? 😡 Uska naam sasta pada hai kya ki koi bhi Madhu Madhu bula sake anytime God this is abuse also🤣

And how dare he Punch the prisoners who were some angels in disguise They should have continued talking shit about his wife and he should have listened it Like Bhajan Puraan instead of Abusing them also 🤔🤣


Oh God Nikki what a reply🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

I think RK should go and hug his padosi ki biwi🤣🤣🤣🤣



Originally posted by: titli4love

Bang on ur post. Really there is so much use of the word abuse nowadays. Some fans r barely abusing the word ABUSE to show how filthy the opponent is! I wonder how many truely know the meaning of dat word.. If molesting a married lady, threatening her to divorce her hubby is nt abuse then what abuse is???


@Bold - Basically RK is doodh ka dhula at present, so they are bringing his past🥱
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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: Shazzie

Bang on post!!

But pls dont expect 'some' ppl to understand your post & ur viewpoint. For them, RK is abuser even though he fights for honour of his wife but that creepy gangster portrays 'pure & divine love' even if he is tormenting her in every way, blackmailing her to leave her husband, giving death threats & even getting her husband almost killed! Dont you know, that is the true love every girl wishes for!! I Just hope that none of the gals who appreciate such kind of love, NEVER EVER face such 'pure & divine true love' in real life. It is very disgusting to see double standards of same ppl who made posts about 'what is abuse' on RK are silent when its their fav is concerned!


@Bold - This is the difference between RK fans and other people. RK fans were being cursed and were being wished ILL during RK's psycho track while his fans do not want any ill upon anyone😆

Originally posted by: roma2011

Well Explained 👏👏


I think you are expecting an impossible thing that mature people will understand our immature view point .


Kya karein?😆

Originally posted by: pisces666

In this forum, abuse means anything related to RK or whatever he does.😃Word Abuse has been strictly banned n prohibitted to be used for gangster/bhai/jeth ji / daddy ji of aryan/ widower of ...[ dont know her name😆], kidnapper, killer n so on ...He may threaten, blackmail, kidnap , harrass mentally, physically, emotionally a married woman who loves her hubby crazily n force her to leave her hubby cum lover but DARE any one call that abuse then u r gone😆 He may tie up his own lil handicap son n leave him alone in a jungle at night just to trap other goons but thats not abuse 😆 He may even use his mentally challenged old mother to get someone's wife . But even thats not any abuse.

@Bold - So true. RK is the ultimate abuser😆


Originally posted by: Vipisa

For minority of people in this forum:
RK = Abuser
Sultan = Saint/God (took the avatar as Sultan to teach RK a lesson)

For majority of the people in this forum as well as outside the forum (luckily):
RK = Right Kameena turned love sick puppy
Sultan = Abuser (Ouch!)


I belong to the majority😆



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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: emptyworld

🤣 your ps but sorry normally I just _______ him do not like to take his name also.

You said everything and now nothing is left to be said from my side just that it was Madhubala and RK's story and it will always remained their story and about _______ many more will come in future as well as I guess to separate them but sooner or later they will go but Rishbala fans will understand Rishbala and support them and some people who hates Rishbala will never understand because they don't want to understand.. they can understand ______'s cheap act/behaviour but not pure love. I am convinced if in future anybody xyz (from Kaka to anyone) will also come by chance to break Rishbala then that person will also be understood but not rishbala.
So if Rishbala will never be understood so why to bother them with our lecture. Abuse is realising our mistake and saying sorry, realising our mistake and trying to fill all gaps of hatred, loving your wife and only thinking about her security 24*7, protecting her identity... (I mean I remember Chakku.. RK never asked anybody else to remark against Madhu even when he hated her... whatever he did he did with badnam apne saath, kiya revenge se pyaar apne saath kiya and more he never used her... and that is why Madhu forgive him because he knew he left her in stupidity.)
About holding hands and pinning to wall and etc blah blah scenes.. I am not watching it first time in television so it is not new to me to react on it... they are normal scenes that almost all serials have when couple hate each other any how at starting same goes here..
About party and all humiliation yes he did so with her but he also repent for his act.


Thank you for the wonderful reply Shahi.

I agree, no matter how many Ss come in RM's lives, they'll always be together. And yes, pinning to the wall and stuff is very normal in hindi shows, why make a fuss of it?🥱


Originally posted by: DushtDanaf.

RK & MB were in a relationship of mutual love, hate and obsession. there was no abuse there unless it was from both sides; and it was never a repetitive cycle. the only time he's been intentionally cruel to MB was during the unwedding.


Sultan was never in any such relationship with the female, it makes me cringe to think that the gangster assumes some disturbed sense of right on MB just because she's given herhusband express permission to love and dote on her unconditionally.


Agree with you. RK was never intentionally mean to her except for unwedding, while Sultan is intentionally harassing and torturing her🤢


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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: Poluk

The definition of a psychopath as per Normal dictionary is:


"A person with an antisocial personality disorder, manifested in aggressive, perverted, criminal, or amoral behavior without empathy or remorse."

Further the list of the symptoms of a psychopath as per Medical sites:

Unreliability, disregard for obligations, no sense of responsibility, in matters of little and great import.

Untruthfulness and insincerity.

Antisocial behavior which is inadequately motivated and poorly planned, seeming to stem from an inexplicable impulsiveness.

Inadequately motivated antisocial behavior.

Poor judgment and failure to learn from experience.

Pathological egocentricity. Total self-centeredness and an incapacity for real love and attachment.

General poverty of deep and lasting emotions.

Lack of any true insight; inability to see oneself as others do.

Ingratitude for any special considerations, kindness and trust.


In my opinion the show has progressed from abuse to the point where physcopathic tendencies r being shown


And no wonder these can be seen in Sultan clearly😆😆😆


Originally posted by: -SanaLuvAbhay-

Defination of abuse changes according to ppl's convenience and their love/hatered for a character/actor..!!


Agree😆



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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: raj80

bang on Chakku...
Acc to some in this forum whatever RK does is called abuse...and whatever Sultan does is divine...



No wonder🥱


Originally posted by: Biks44

Superb post Chakku 👏

Sultan has emotionally abused his relationship with his son...when he tied him up as bait, physically abused his relation with Madhu who trusted him as a friend, emotionally abused his relationship with his mother whom he promised to give justice and honour etc. And you are so right about him intruding on RK's privacy whereas RK has never done so with him.
When RK threatened Madhu or forcibly kidnapped her or handcuffed her, we saw Madhu protesting but did she spit on him? or bite his hand? She was mad at him for not realising the extent to which he hurt her but she never said herself that he is abusing...insulting her ..yes ..but abusing..never!


Thank you and agree. When Madhu was kidnapped by RK, she was willing to get kissed by him in the studio. Where is the abuse?😕
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Posted: 12 years ago
Woah this post is still open?!?! 😲 I thought, it was already closed down, due to poor soul, sultan's bashing. My poor Bhai! *Tears for Bhai* 😭 😭 🤣

Well Chakku, that's not how you define ABUSE, according to some highly intellectual people. 🤓 Abuse is WHATEVER RK does to Madhu, be it caring, loving, pushing, pulling, getting beaten for her or whatever.

As for Bhai, he is the perfect man for every girl. To every girl, it will be a nightmare, errr I mean a loving "dream" coming true, if she gets Bhai. 🤪 After all, he is such a gentleman.
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Posted: 12 years ago
@SNoshin- I didn't bash, just stated the facts🤣🤣

Yeah, whatever RK does is calle abuse while what others do is called a DIVINE ACT.
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Posted: 12 years ago
Chakku!! - Even the TOI article is very clear about what is abuse and who is abusive!!

Now there should not be any DOUBT about it!! Isnt it?

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