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Posted: 12 years ago
#31
Again "Abuse" ?😳🤣
Lets be practical here,

1)RK(Superstar)
mental abuse- Verbal aggression, Jealous behaviors, Unwedding, psycho phase (his psycho behaviour was after he confirmed if she was still in love with him? Remember studio incident and their dance).

2)Sultan(Gangster)
mental abuse- intimidation, Verbal aggression, Jealous behaviors, Forcing a married woman to divorce her husband, physical
harm to her husband, threatening abt killing her husband, destruction of property, forcing isolation from family.

physical abuse- child abuse, Aggressive behavior, Pointing gun at her, blindfold, forcing himself on her, "inappropriate touching, try to kiss her forcibly" (this comes under sexual assault)

The difference is, if RK mentally abused HIS OWN WIFE at a point, Sultan is Mentally and Physically abusing SOMEONE ELSE'S WIFE aka HIS SIL.
Edited by Looteri_Dulhan - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
#32

Originally posted by: _Mojo.Jojo_


@Bold - So true😆😆😆 Sultan kare to raas leela, RK kare to character dheela😆

Nah!! Sultan kare to chamatkaar, RK kare to balaatkaar..😆
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Posted: 12 years ago
#33
Excellent Post Mojo 👏👏👏

These questions really need to be asked and deserve an answer!
I agree with everything you said!
Something so serious a word as "abuse" has been "abused" quite callously and irresponsibly a lot of times in this forum.🤢😛

Madhu is a strong intelligent woman capable of making her own decisions...if she ascertained the truth of RK's repentance and accepted him back...it was her choice. If she wants to live her life with her husband whom she loves so much...its her damn choice...she is not blind or in denial of any third-angle-louu-saga-in-the-making🤢. She can make up her own mind!😛

Anyone forcing her physically or mentally to such an extent as to cause such distress is abusive. Period.😛

Abuse is generally a repetitive cycle where the abuser continues to hurt the victim believing that is for the victim's own good and/or the abused continues to take it at face value without retaliation. Its a vicious cycle that generally becomes harder to break with time.

RK may have abused her at the altar. But it goes no farther than than that! There was no cycle of pain and suffering 😛. RK never believed what he did was right 😛, only needed to sate his ego. Madhu never took RK's action lying down 😛. She retaliated with words and actions of her own, immediately or at a later time 😛.

On the other hand, we have Sultan who continues to repeatedly abuse Madhu in all manners ...he thinks he is doing all this for her happiness...That Is All Round Confirmed Abuse

If anyone thinks differently...then I will only say this...Madhu isnt the one in denial, take your own blinders off before accusing someone of so serious a crime!🤪



Edited by felicity06 - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
#34

Originally posted by: mm990

Bang on post Chakku!!

Man, I have never seen this much abuse of the word "abuse" in my entire life! This forum really does enlighten your lost soul in unusual ways!

And you're forgetting to add the claim that RK sexually assaulted Madhu. LOL!! Where his fans used to call him jogi and make fun of him for being too shareef, I don't know what made people believe that he sexually assaulted his wife? 😕 Did some special episode air R rated strictly for "mature audiences" that I don't know of?

Okay, forget that, coming to Sultan.

Tell me for how long the people of the forum screamed abuse abuse when he used his son as a bait for his senseless enemy hunt (there was another man in the show who used to use his child for similar purposes, what was he shown to be? A psychopath!) and then decided to forget it for good? I was not there in the forum so I don't know. Really interested to know.

And for how long did people scream psychopath psychopath when he snapped necks without even changing his expressions (understandable though) and without showing any remorse later? Just because the necks he was breaking didn't belong to any main character of the show or any good guys (though we don't know for sure) doesn't mean that they weren't people and it certainly doesn't mean that he didn't commit murders which is a crime punishable by death!

Please do tell me Chakku. I really need to know. 😳



@bold - forget about us lost souls, if "abuse" had a soul, she would have gotten lost from this forum by now 😵

@red - Haawww...Bharia dont you know hesitating to even tie her open dori is abusive? Or making a parda for her to change wet clothes in perverse😛? Or refusing to engage in any physical relationship when the woman declares she is all ready to give that part of herself is tantamount to ra**
😵😵?

@blue - Bhai is King of all Merfolk😉...how will his son learn about catching the aquarian species if he does not give a live demonstration😛?

@pink - Those were criminals...well so is Bhai...but Bhai is Don of all Criminals😛...he killed off all our interest...sach mein Maar Daala!!!!
☺️☺️
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Posted: 12 years ago
#35
For me, ABUSE defines ALL THOSE things RK did with Madhu... and NOT THOSE things which Sultan is doing with Madhu😳

I rest my case🥱
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Posted: 12 years ago
#36

Originally posted by: .BadtameezDil.

For me, ABUSE defines ALL THOSE things RK did with Madhu... and NOT THOSE things which Sultan is doing with Madhu😳


I rest my case🥱

Respect ur opinion n definition of ABUSE!! 🤔
so what is Sultan doing with Madhu? Is he on a rescue mission or giving her the 'taste of love'?
And why is Madhu sticking with an abuser?
Edited by cardio21 - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: felicity06



@bold - forget about us lost souls, if "abuse" had a soul, she would have gotten lost from this forum by now 😵

@red - Haawww...Bharia dont you know hesitating to even tie her open dori is abusive? Or making a parda for her to change wet clothes in perverse😛? Or refusing to engage in any physical relationship when the woman declares she is all ready to give that part of herself is tantamount to ra**
😵😵?

@blue - Bhai is King of all Merfolk😉...how will his son learn about catching the aquarian species if he does not give a live demonstration😛?

@pink - Those were criminals...well so is Bhai...but Bhai is Don of all Criminals😛...he killed off all our interest...sach mein Maar Daala!!!!
☺️☺️


LOL! My bad.. my apologies.. I was too immature to see it from 🤪 perspective. You enlightened me Bhankita. Now I see the light. 🤣🤣
LOL! Yes yes.. Bhai maar hi daalta hai... boriyat and frustration se..DEVA DEVA Bhai is JAAN LEVA! 🤣

Edited by mm990 - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: cardio21

Respect ur opinion n definition of ABUSE!! 🤔

so what is Sultan doing with Madhu? Is he on a rescue mission or giving her the 'taste of love'?
And why is Madhu sticking with an abuser?

That comment of mine was meant for sarcasm🤣
I feel u misunderstood it...! Chillzzz... U won't find ANY of SULTAN SUPPORTING qualities in me...Hard core RK-ian
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Posted: 12 years ago
#39

Originally posted by: .BadtameezDil.

That comment of mine was meant for sarcasm🤣

I feel u misunderstood it...! Chillzzz... U won't find ANY of SULTAN SUPPORTING qualities in me...Hard core RK-ian

Oops!! its tough to pick who is sticking with what definition..
MY apologies..🤗
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Posted: 12 years ago
#40

Originally posted by: cardio21

Respect ur opinion n definition of ABUSE!! 🤔

so what is Sultan doing with Madhu? Is he on a rescue mission or giving her the 'taste of love'?
And why is Madhu sticking with an abuser?


Kashish here you made the same mistake that some member thought charu made in redfox's post🤣. B-Dil is a monitor of RM AT...

I think you just abused your brains by thinking of Bhai so much!
Bhai ke thoughts killed you😭...Maar Daala!😛🤣🤣
Edited by felicity06 - 12 years ago

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