Has the difinition of abuse changed? - Page 5

Originally posted by: cardio21

Yes!! Because of the 'villain' of the show we have decided to change our definition of abuse..

- his trying to molest Madhu forcibly trying to kiss her which woukd have been a sexual overture is now his way of making the woman feel wanted!!

- his manhandling her would qualify for inappropriate touching or even physical abuse but he was chivalrous enough to tell her that this is the last time he will give her pain..

- his blackmailing her that woukd be calked emotional abuse is actually his "rescue mission".. As these women don't know anything and can't make their own decisions.. So the 'complete man' appointed himself to be her savior from her abusive husband..

So please don't label an innocent man who lost everything in his life and is tired of his goodness, as an abuser.. There is a reason behind his villainy,, he wants his 'friend' to see that she is unhappy with the

Love of her life who loves her equally!!

He is anytime better than the psychoabusive husband, who never tried to take advantage of his wife physically, who kidnaped her only after realizing that she still loves him. Who died twice trying to save her life so that he can take revenge from her..😆

What is good about a man who apologizes to his wife in full public galore for his misdoings..

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Originally posted by: felicity06

I forgot to mention some things...maybe it will help some souls...even if Bhai is doing this for some hidden "good" reason that still does not justify his actions.
The end does not always justify the means!
No matter what "golden" reason he may have, whatever he is doing is still the wrong and his intentions cannot justify the pain and humiliation and suffering of an innocent woman! Will she ever forget what he put her through ? Has Bhai ever shown any remorse even to himself that he should be shown leniency???

Originally posted by: felicity06

I forgot to mention some things...maybe it will help some souls...even if Bhai is doing this for some hidden "good" reason that still does not justify his actions.
The end does not always justify the means!
No matter what "golden" reason he may have, whatever he is doing is still the wrong and his intentions cannot justify the pain and humiliation and suffering of an innocent woman! Will she ever forget what he put her through ? Has Bhai ever shown any remorse even to himself that he should be shown leniency???

Originally posted by: mm990

Oh remorse! the word refreshes a fond memory. I once had a conversation with an enlightened soul who said RK is a psychopath and Sultan's character is a breath of fresh air for the show! 😳

I guess we really need to upgrade to this new dictionary for our own good because not only the meaning of the word "abuse" has been changed but many words have abandoned old meanings and adopted new ones. I always thought a psychopath is someone who enjoys the misery of victims without showing any kind of remorse. I think I don't need to tell anyone whom this word fit perfectly if you go by the old meaning of it.

And yes, there can be no good reason for torturing any woman let alone a woman who is not only married and in love with her husband but also is the one who Sultan owes his and his son's life too. Even if he is playing Karma-Karma or Revenge-Revenge with RK for some delusional reason, he is using Madhu as a pawn just like he used his own mother!

So far, I fail to see any redeeming quality in him!

Originally posted by: mm990

I guess we really need to upgrade to this new dictionary for our own good because not only the meaning of the word "abuse" has been changed but many words have abandoned old meanings and adopted new ones. I always thought a psychopath is someone who enjoys the misery of his victims without showing any kind of remorse and not someone who asks for forgiveness time and again, even once kneeling in front of his victim and confessing his crimes publicly. I think I don't need to tell anyone whom this word fit perfectly if you go by the old meaning of it.

Originally posted by: Poluk

you rightly said means have to justify the ends. If Bhai is right then so are the terrorists who kill innocent people because it will help them in establishing their cause or making the Governments bend.

Originally posted by: _Mojo.Jojo_

The definition of abuse keeps changing in this forum from RK to Sultan😛