Has the difinition of abuse changed?

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Posted: 12 years ago
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The question keeps coming to my mind.
Has the definition of abuse suddenly changed because Sultan is the one doing it this time?

I mean there were ten thousand and one posts saying RK is the villain for harassing Madhubala and keeping her with him by force (which I totally agree was wrong on his part) and what not; and that Sultan was a better choice for her as he knew how to maintain relations, respected women, dont force his choice on her, in short he was good as compared to RK's evil, according to some.

and now that he is doing things far worse than RK, forcing her to divorce her husband whom she loves more than anything else, maligning her reputation in court, threatening to kill her husband, he is still justified. Why? Because he is actually saving her from RK or because he is being forced due to some unknown reasons. So he is still good according to the same few people. and all he is doing is not enotional abuse? Double standards much.
Even if its either of the two which I am sure it is not, he is wrong in forcing her hand. PERIOD.
His character has become one of the most disgusting ever, a leech who not only wants to break his half brother forever but also wants the said half brothers wife. There is nothing good or nice about it despite what people might say. Its nothing but puke worthy to see him falling lower and lower with each passing episode

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Posted: 12 years ago
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of course ! the definition of abuse has changed for Sultan 🤪 bec. he's on a noble mission 🤢 but something that did not change was Madhu..she doesn't know she's being abused by the superstar, similarly, she doesn't realize how she's being abused..oopppsss sorry.."rescued" by Sultan..but sadly, the moral policing & social servers exist only to show her that she's foolishly in love with RK...she should run to Sultan as his love is real, pure & divine..just like Ballu's love for Padmini..like SRK's love in Darr & Anjaam..like Dobriyal's love in Saubhagyavati Bhav..it's we delusional souls who don't understand the definition of "true love" tch tch
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Agree to each n every word of yours. Double standards prevail in forum n are appreciated by mods also.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Definitons are subject to change as per the fancies of moral police 🤪
We immature fangirls simply say what we see with our eyes...unfortunately that is called biased view ...must be something wrong with sooo many eyes
Great post😊
Hope it survives 😛
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: _charu_

of course ! the definition of abuse has changed for Sultan 🤪 bec. he's on a noble mission 🤢 but something that did not change was Madhu..she doesn't know she's being abused by the superstar, similarly, she doesn't realize how she's being abused..oopppsss sorry.."rescued" by Sultan..but sadly, the moral policing & social servers exist only to show her that she's foolishly in love with RK...she should run to Sultan as his love is real, pure & divine..just like Ballu's love for Padmini..like SRK's love in Darr & Anjaam..like Dobriyal's love in Saubhagyavati Bhav..it's we delusional souls who don't understand the definition of "true love" tch tch



@red : poor confused still-in-denial-about-her-looouu-for-her-step-BIL wife of abusive superstar

@blue : Such great and tall examples of pure divine loouu...hero of most died "rescuing" their loouu...hope Sultan follows into their footsteps very soon🤣🤣
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Yes!! Because of the 'villain' of the show we have decided to change our definition of abuse..


- his trying to molest Madhu forcibly trying to kiss her which woukd have been a sexual overture is now his way of making the woman feel wanted!!

- his manhandling her would qualify for inappropriate touching or even physical abuse but he was chivalrous enough to tell her that this is the last time he will give her pain..

- his blackmailing her that woukd be calked emotional abuse is actually his "rescue mission".. As these women don't know anything and can't make their own decisions.. So the 'complete man' appointed himself to be her savior from her abusive husband..


So please don't label an innocent man who lost everything in his life and is tired of his goodness, as an abuser.. There is a reason behind his villainy,, he wants his 'friend' to see that she is unhappy with the
Love of her life who loves her equally!!


He is anytime better than the psychoabusive husband, who never tried to take advantage of his wife physically, who kidnaped her only after realizing that she still loves him. Who died twice trying to save her life so that he can take revenge from her..😆
What is good about a man who apologizes to his wife in full public galore for his misdoings..
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Of course. Everything is acceptable as far as the Slimy Slithering Snakewa. We need to pull up the Webster dictionary. It will define abuse for us obtuse Rishbala fans. It will clearly state that Sultan is a paragon of a male and whatever he does is divine and can never fall in the category of abuse. With his God Complex, how dare we think he is being abusive?
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Posted: 12 years ago
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The main thing is that RK's fans will reamin RK's... And RK's Haters will remain Sultan's fans... No matter what they do is right or wrong... Whats right or wrong that doesn't matter to fan groups...
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: cardio21

He is anytime better than the psychoabusive husband, who never tried to take advantage of his wife physically, who kidnaped her only after realizing that she still loves him. Who died twice trying to save her life so that he can take revenge from her..😆
What is good about a man who apologizes to his wife in full public galore for his misdoings..
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@bold : hawww...how dare that psychoabusive superstar manipulate and blackmail her emotionally by nearly dying twice!😡
She should remove the blinders from her still-in-denial eyes and see him for what he really is😆

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