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Posted: 12 years ago
#21

Originally posted by: _charu_


bec. she doesn't realize that she's in an abusive relationship..the victims of abuse always tend to give another chance to the abuser, we need to enlighten them that they're being victimized ..and Sultan is doing just the same 🤢 hence he's the real "hero" 🤢

n how does it matter if Madhu asked for any help? we should help people before they ask for it 😆 that's charity..a noble deed..


Oh Ho I forgot my Bhai, your Bhai, Sultan Bhai is Robin Hood 🐷
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Posted: 12 years ago
#22
Nice Post

Agree with ur each n every word...
When it comes to Bhai n his actions...every wrong turns into right coz he is GOD se uparwala Gangsterrr

Just for Bhai social morals, ethics, woman empowerment, any kind of abuse, domestic violence can go to hell...All rules n regulations regarding social behavior are excursively applicable for RK

U see its like *Terms n Conditions* Apply...to called abuse "Abuse" it depends upon whether the person is RK or Bhai...

if its RK's love, care then its emotional abuse and Madhu is doormat and if its Bhai's manhandling, blackmailing, abuse then its rescue mission n all abt lobb and Madhu is dumb to nt understand what she want 🤢🤢


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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: redfox

The question keeps coming to my mind.
Has the definition of abuse suddenly changed because Sultan is the one doing it this time?

I mean there were ten thousand and one posts saying RK is the villain for harassing Madhubala and keeping her with him by force (which I totally agree was wrong on his part) and what not; and that Sultan was a better choice for her as he knew how to maintain relations, respected women, dont force his choice on her, in short he was good as compared to RK's evil, according to some.

and now that he is doing things far worse than RK, forcing her to divorce her husband whom she loves more than anything else, maligning her reputation in court, threatening to kill her husband, he is still justified. Why? Because he is actually saving her from RK or because he is being forced due to some unknown reasons. So he is still good according to the same few people. and all he is doing is not enotional abuse? Double standards much.
Even if its either of the two which I am sure it is not, he is wrong in forcing her hand. PERIOD.
His character has become one of the most disgusting ever, a leech who not only wants to break his half brother forever but also wants the said half brothers wife. There is nothing good or nice about it despite what people might say. Its nothing but puke worthy to see him falling lower and lower with each passing episode



Has the difinition of abuse changed?

Excellent post.👏


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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: NeelMon

In Bhai's dictionary :

Rescue means molesting...🤢 tsk tsk
Helping means Blackmailing 🤢 tsk tsk
Stay away means.. come close🤢 tsk tsk
Hate you means.. love you 🤢 tsk tsk

I should hit my head with a brick wall🤔

For me he is a VIP (very intolerable person) 🐷 🤢 🤡



@bold - Great Bhai thinks along the dimensions if a parallel universe that runs reverse to ours...we must respect his customs😵

@red- dont go abusing yourself, you immature fanboy...dont you know its a crime?🤣🤣

@blue - For me VIP is Veritably Insufferable Pistoli 😈
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I noticed that no Bhai fans are commenting here 😆
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: ..DamonCrazy..

I noticed that no Bhai fans are commenting here 😆


Please dont call the moral inspectors...we dont want to get arrested🤣🤣
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Awesome post!
A very valid question actually!
I think it solely depends on the person who is doing the abuse. If the man who is forcing himself on a married woman, blackmailing her and torturing her emotionally is considered to be hot (🤢) with sexy blue eyes (🤢) then it's not a puke-worthy action, it is taken as an isshh-worthy behavior by mature people because he is DEVA DEVA and he can't be wrong.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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totally agree..me too wanted to raise this question to the forum
RK treated her abused her that was OK but what sultan doing now is worser than what RK has done to madhu..sultan is a villain now and he is justified??what a joke!!
he is declared as a so called parallel lead and he turned into a villain so madhu subjected to abuse,torture mentally and physically is justified just becos villain has to do that everytime???
and some people njoying his dilogues and calling that as chemistry 🤢
seriously double standards

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Posted: 12 years ago
#29
Nice post!
Yes, definitions here change as per one's convenience. When RK was the culprit there were zillions of posts around shouting "abuse", now the same actions by the gangster are termed as become love, romance and zunoon. And the Heroine is a doormat for not accepting that lecher's advances and proposals and needs to be taught a lesson for the same.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Bang on post buddy, here definitions of love, abuse, obsession and friendship change for the convinience of sultan's oops AR fans (no one in right sense will call themselves as sultan fans). Moral Policing and Feminist lectures apply only for RK, the hero of the show and not for GHG who dont now what HE is

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